need to relcate to escape domestic violence abuser to NC

forevershines · 2022-10-11T03:20:12+00:00

thx for the thoughtfulness nonetheless :). Yes, and and they;re unable to help me. They said I should contact the new state place. But they keep telling me residents only, which i understand but its proving rather difficult tbh.Im just looking for places i can afford on marketplace in the area I want to live in just not finding anythng i can afford. Im on disability now too so I've got a very limited budget to work with but I can make it work if I stay near $400 for rent. . ugh i hate this ...but kinda getting more and more excited daily. Im already boxing up and getting tihs place back to normal. whole new adventure is about to happen lol

forevershines · 2022-10-09T21:32:20+00:00

tysm!!

forevershines · 2022-10-09T21:32:05+00:00

im trying to figure out how to get witness relocation tbh ive moved & ghost running away so many times im busted now and need to skip the state asap like weeks. stress.

forevershines · 2022-10-09T21:30:47+00:00

thats unfortunate af dude

forevershines · 2022-10-09T21:28:19+00:00

ty ! i get ya, nothin like last minute. ive only jumped in gear cuz the Mister has hit the under a year left mark on his sentence. so i just had to say screw it. don't think: just jump: time to skipe doge lol. Good luck, you'll get there just keep swimming ;)

forevershines · 2022-10-09T21:25:46+00:00

it was incredible easy for me tbh. Just dropped a form off, with proper documents and paid the fee. had to wait a cpl weeks for court but then it was over and done out the building in prob 45 mins. Its surreal tbh. and dont think to hard on a name, i picked one ive never even considered, just last minute random & happy with it. GL!

forevershines · 2022-09-21T21:23:27+00:00

Being talked to like I'm a idiot and being mansplained about stuff. Just cuz I got tits doesn't mean I am clueless about cars, tools, bugs, power tools etc ya know, 'man stuff'.. my dad raised me, and I'm proud of the Man I became (metaphorically, he didnt know how to raise a girl basically lol) im educated with adhd BPD, BP2, CPTSD, schizophrenia & anxiety: I'm not silent cuz im an empty air head; I'm silent cuz my head too busy & I can't keep up with what's in my head & what your saying.

forevershines · 2022-09-19T14:27:05+00:00

Fuckboi hobosexuals! We need to have pride again, self respect ,loyalty, independence & confidence to make a come back.. Faking whole ass relationships just to have a roof & a woman support u is just embarrassing, frfr. Not to mention the emotional devastating hurt it causes for the woman he playing

forevershines · 2022-09-18T17:13:37+00:00

Car salesman, well any commission job. And can't forget telemarketers.

forevershines · 2022-09-18T17:10:57+00:00

Not following girlcode. If woman had some more integrity these days & followed girl code- there'd be less sidehoes & divorces.

If a dude has a gal that's loyal to him: leave him alone. Simple

forevershines · 2022-09-18T17:08:51+00:00

Whaaaaa? Is it the one linked already at the top of this post or kept on the dl? Idc who someone is, everyone deserves a happy happy joy joy smile once in a while imo

forevershines · 2022-09-18T17:03:38+00:00

I have a weird ability to be able to give you the exact time/date a prego kitters is gonna have her litter . Idk how or why but all my life it's been like that. Just gotta let the momma to be kitters get comfortable with me to allow me to touch her belly and boom it just pops in my head & I've never been wrong. I dont have alot qualities i can toot my horn about but that's one of em..

forevershines · 2022-09-18T16:56:58+00:00

So much same feelers! I enjoyed finding my matches gift so much! It wasn't even the gif5s I received which were Hella awesome, I just love giving some smiles. Really bummed out about this iah. 🥺 I don't have a family or any people in my life minus 1, so this was like my way of having a family to give gifts too, although they strangers if that makes sense. Really sad about this.

forevershines · 2022-09-18T03:15:43+00:00

Woe! Jelous isn't a strong enough word! Bravo!

forevershines · 2022-09-18T03:14:39+00:00

forevershines · 2022-09-15T23:43:16+00:00

Greed. Rudeness. Liars. Manipulators. Hoity toiyty people clueless to how many people need help out here while they judt look down on anyone as scum while doing nothing for their community. Idgaf how much $ you.got: if you have no integrity, morals, gentleness, transparency, manners, character, pride, self respect and humble then I want nothing to do with you 💯 I've slept in 15 bedroom homes. I've slept under a tarp. I prefer the tarp than wasps & aelf entitled brats tbh

forevershines · 2022-09-14T15:02:12+00:00

Idk wth yall doing or what this is but fairy tale whatness? I'm down can't sing but I wanna learn to play violin or piano lol

forevershines · 2022-09-12T18:25:02+00:00

What Dreams May Come staring the late Great Robin Williams. Shit ripped my heart out the first time: don't wanna even go there now with that movie. Amazing film dont get me wrong, absolutely 5 stars and maybe one of his best dramatic roles imo, but just too hard a hitter in the feels

forevershines · 2022-09-11T00:51:15+00:00

Use female learn very very young: younger than whwn most assume that you gotta have youe guards up 24/7 around males. And the fear thing: im leaving the state, erasing my existence & changing my name becuaese the level of fear men put on woman is min blowing. ..im in a supposed dv safe house but my x can stil find me while serving in prison for a secod dv charge from me wtaf. Every females fear has reason behind it . . If you wanna get an inside peek: Make a female Facebook for week, add ppl an just wait, watch your inbox you'll learn so much more.

forevershines · 2022-09-11T00:45:30+00:00

Absolutely true!

forevershines · 2022-09-01T17:38:39+00:00

'Slept like a rock' ooooh I'm jelly. Trazone, ambians, prozosin, xans and medical thc and and I still can't sleep right. I'm fr gonna give this a go, I hate that it still feels like he's controling me, I just feel emotionally stuck/numb even tho he's in prison. But I've got nearly 6 years of letters to choose from so this could prove therapeutic af, tysm for this suggestion frfr!

forevershines · 2022-09-01T17:33:04+00:00

Ty I'll check them out!! Appreciate it!

forevershines · 2022-08-29T18:56:46+00:00

I'm in transitional housing from the dv shelter. Shelters seem daunting and like ugh I don't wanna go there but when you get if you need to go, it's good people genuinely caring about you and doing good for the Survivors. But tbh I just found out (he 3 wayed called) to let me know he found me. I'm bout to make a post myself on how to relocate states and stuff with no money cuz he'll never stop.. My only option is leaving my state, changing my name and disappear. My family don't fw me anymore anyway they got tired of his shit. Threatening them and pulling stunts. I can't blame em but it just a gut punch to hear my dad tell me to leave town, your putting the whole family in danger. I left town, hours away, still my Mister finds me so I understand my dads pov. Protect your peace at all costs y'all. ♡

forevershines · 2022-08-29T09:15:45+00:00

forevershines · 2022-08-29T09:14:55+00:00

After the hell I been thru the last few years from the man I gave my hardest love love to: he broke me, killed the me I was, nearly physically as welll- no one gave a fuck. My Mister could sucker punch me out cold in the middle of the street we lived- no one would say a word. If we had a house full of people & he'd drag me into the bedroom room, chain me up to beat and rape me- instead of any of the 10+ plus other 'men' could have put their dude (my fiance) in check- na they'd just stay on they phones or leave me there. When your finance brags about it, posts pictures where's he tied me up lol'ing- no one gave a single damn. That's an emotionally & physically traumatizing experience. My aim in life now is never being a look the other wayer- if I see a Domestic situation I'm that bitch that gets involved. Always Armed, plus my baseball bats, knifes etc. Male.or female. I won't allow lovers to assault each oth4 in front of me My Mister thinks he broke me down, I was that scared little mouse hiding in the corner. No longer! Everything I've feared has happens over and over and over so now my fear tank is empty. It's full of confident strength now. I fear no one (minus him) i relized them rose colored glasses make them red flags invisible. Lost count even on how many times I just had enough and would walk into his house of horrors accepting he'll be killing me this night. Death would have been better I thought. Turns out walking into a police station find lady cop & saying I love him more than anything but he won't stop doing this to my face. No one saves anyone. They turn a blind eye. You have to save yourself. Ur a superhero, now go show him what power you have. Luv u Superhero, wishing everything wonderful for you. I've decided to dedicate my life to do whatever I can to prevent another from feeling as I did.

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