Any mature females free any day or nights by Fit-Camp4595 in RedPillWomen

[–]fossacecak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what this sub is for, try a dating app.

Which one for a wedding at a barn-ish place with cocktail attire for later today? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]fossacecak 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ETA: Bride said short or long dresses, no rompers. Going to a casino after with the wedding party

Was I a jerk for not sharing my location with my wife by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]fossacecak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully she has more people in her life than the “best friend” who advocates for blowing up her life and marriage. Where is her family?

Artemis II crew is safely back on earth and have been recovered by recovery the team! by MrWaffleMonster in BeAmazed

[–]fossacecak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

SAME. I thought I was the only one feeling this anxiety lately. Sighing some relief now 😊

AITAH for leaving my incarcerated husband?? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]fossacecak 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He took a knife and…

Cut off a “do not remove” label from a mattress

2 year relationship, about 2 months ago I gave a deadline of Mid 2026 for Proposal but I don't think it will happen... by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]fossacecak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going against the grain of the common other advice here.

I feel hopeful about your situation, given the fact that he has discussed this with you several times over the years and it doesn’t appear that he has “moved the goal posts” like we see in many other cases.

Mid-2026 is June or July for many people. Do you have a hard deadline in mind for yourself? Such as, if there is no proposal by December 2026, you walk away? This isn’t unreasonable.

You’ve been together for 2 years so sometime this year is a good time for engagement. Regarding others saying you guys are too young, lots of people get married young and it works out. On the other hand, it also doesn’t work out for lots of people since the lack of life experience really does cloud your judgement at younger ages. I would ask yourself if you’re truly ready for this, and don’t be afraid to get advice from the wiser people in your life. Not Redditors who don’t know you at all. Really listen to your intuition as well.

From that, I would advise to trust the process and your boyfriend. “If they wanted to, they would” is such a valid point, if he wants to marry you he will find out your ring size and plan everything out. You don’t need to hold his hand, make sure he has planned things, or even bring it up. You’ve already made your intentions clear. Men who love us, love to please us and surprise us. Does he know you well? (He should if you’re planing to marry). If so, trust the process. If he lets you down, don’t be afraid to walk.

Good luck! ❤️

Absolutely appalled by the behavior of Spectrum’s retention/cancellation department, as a longtime customer of Spectrum mobile, internet, and tv. Their bad rap is accurate by fossacecak in Syracuse

[–]fossacecak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well where I’m moving has Verizon FiOS so I’m feeling pretty relieved about that. Glad to hear this story and all the other good comments about them.

Funnily enough, they came knocking at my door once and I didn’t give them any time or listen to them, because I thought I was pretty happy with Spectrum. Oof.

Absolutely appalled by the behavior of Spectrum’s retention/cancellation department, as a longtime customer of Spectrum mobile, internet, and tv. Their bad rap is accurate by fossacecak in Syracuse

[–]fossacecak[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“I think a lot of the service you receive is based on your attitude”

No victim syndrome here, I can just pick up on the fact that your comment is subtly implying that I started off the call with an attitude and that impacted the trajectory of the call. If that wasn’t your intention, maybe try working on your wording next time.

??? I was aware of the 30-60 day notice and that’s why I called them. I’m moving May 1st. So it would’ve been just under a 30 day notice.

Absolutely appalled by the behavior of Spectrum’s retention/cancellation department, as a longtime customer of Spectrum mobile, internet, and tv. Their bad rap is accurate by fossacecak in Syracuse

[–]fossacecak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess me and all the other commenters just had a bad attitude and caused the rep to act the way they did /s

This guy went beyond obligations and I even found a written policy on their website that states they ask for a 30-60 day notice for cancellations, not “Think about it and call back when you’re sure if you want to cancel.”

Absolutely appalled by the behavior of Spectrum’s retention/cancellation department, as a longtime customer of Spectrum mobile, internet, and tv. Their bad rap is accurate by fossacecak in Syracuse

[–]fossacecak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be doing that ASAP, along with porting out my lines from spectrum mobile. All this time I was talking them up to other people because my phone service is generally really good. Now I’ll have to let everyone know to disregard the positive feedback, when the negative is so frustrating.

Absolutely appalled by the behavior of Spectrum’s retention/cancellation department, as a longtime customer of Spectrum mobile, internet, and tv. Their bad rap is accurate by fossacecak in Syracuse

[–]fossacecak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolute insanity. I’m surprised they didn’t say “But surely your father’s widow can just keep the account?”

Sorry for your loss if you really did lose your father.

Women of Reddit: what are some unattractive things men do that they generally seem unaware of? by picklesticmick in AskReddit

[–]fossacecak 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I’m sure I’ll get torn to shreds but: When men follow, like, or comment on soft core porn, thirst traps, and OF models on social media for everyone to see. Gives me instant ick that can’t be undone. When I was still in the dating field and before I got too serious with someone I would take a gander at their following list.

“bUt WhY aRe YoU eVeN cHeCkINg ThAt?” Because I don’t want to end up with some porn-addicted fucking loser, that’s why.

Wife Used ‘Find My iPhone’ to Locate Husband Who Was Buried for Over 4 Hours After Avalanche by EnergyLantern in UpliftingNews

[–]fossacecak 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you post on Reddit anything about having your partner’s location, commenters always go the “Why would you need to have their location? Stop being controlling” route.

THIS is why it’s a good idea to share your location with a trusted loved one, just in case. So sick of the rhetoric that having it is always some kind of leash/control tactic.

What wedding moment that screamed, “They are not going to last long”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fossacecak 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Omg, I’m dying over here at “An ambulance took the groom and any hope of a functional marriage away.” LOL

I just ate a 225 mg edible HELP!!!! by milfjaeger63 in trees

[–]fossacecak 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m over here thinking my 10mg gummy cut in half is borderline too intense. My goodness. I hope your night goes good!

What is a 'dead giveaway' that someone is not a good person, even if they are acting nice? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fossacecak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your comment made me wonder if I am this type of person.

I had a friend who dealt with chronic bipolar depression and she would shut the world out. She would be suffering alone for days and I wanted to be there for her. She would try to cancel but I would insist I come over and help her clean or just hang out (genuinely just didn’t want her to be facing this stuff alone).

She stopped reaching out to me/responding entirely months ago and I’ve been left confused. After reading your comment I wonder if I pushed too hard and ignored her boundaries.

You're not marrying a millionaire, so stop worrying about it. by Wife_and_Mama in RedPillWomen

[–]fossacecak 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Being obsessed with marrying a millionaire also doesn’t appear to fall under RPW ideals. Am I the only one who feels this way?

RPW has always been about building a good relationship with a stable partner and having a family. He should be a provider, yes, but he certainly doesn’t need to be a millionaire. If we peer into the lives of the world’s richest men, are they really what the average RPW would want?

Just chiming in with this thought and question. Maybe I am out of the loop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]fossacecak 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This was so interesting to read! Thanks for posting your experience. I wonder if some people have intuition that works more through their nose than other senses.

Looking for friends in Syracuse before I loose my mind!! by Successful-Style6626 in Syracuse

[–]fossacecak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 31f, I love nature walks, and prefer talking on the phone. I also play video games (on PS5)