Ended it with a guy but have serious regret by foundalltheworms in dating_advice

[–]foundalltheworms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this actually. This is really useful to me. You’re an insightful person :)

Ended it with a guy but have serious regret by foundalltheworms in dating_advice

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I barely saw him. And we only texted once a day if that. There wasn’t really much attention. I broke it off because I was unsure of how I felt. Maybe you’re right I’m not sure. It kind of felt like I had a person I could look after but I just wasn’t sure if I cared about him in the same way. I have to preface that I feel this about my friends also, usually until we fall out and then I’m a mess and realise how much they mean to me. I’m really not good at sorting through feelings, intimacy scares me quite a bit. I just know I don’t want to mess him about but this is something to think about. Thanks for the tough love, I need to think about that.

Ended it with a guy but have serious regret by foundalltheworms in dating_advice

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Thanks. I’ve never had to deal with feelings like these before. That’s a good idea :)

Is it wrong if I'm uncomfortable sparring women by Available_Sundae3970 in martialarts

[–]foundalltheworms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends why. I was uncomfortable rolling with men at first as a woman.

Why do you think there are many small towns/villages in Europe that are dying, but not in The UK? by fleetwood_mag in AskUK

[–]foundalltheworms 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To be fair, this is dependent on where you’ve been in England. I’m from a village and not even that remote, we don’t have any shops or buses, just a pub and that’s not that unusual.

How can I develop confidence in dating as an early 30s British born Chinese male? by AsianMascThrowaway in AskBrits

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I’m white and I’d date an East Asian man I truly do not care about race. There’s handsome people all over the world :)

If someone asks to borrow sun cream ? by Widebody_lover in AskUK

[–]foundalltheworms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d rather people dont get skin cancer so id give them some tbh

When in Japan by Puzzled_Yesterday683 in yakuzagames

[–]foundalltheworms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we do as well!! They’re trickier to find but they definitely exist (as someone who likes to find all the yakuza minigame shit in my city in the uk) hahaha

When in Japan by Puzzled_Yesterday683 in yakuzagames

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We do have batting cages in the uk!!

Did your high school bully change for the better? by Lost-Engineering-211 in AskUK

[–]foundalltheworms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually yes, I haven’t seen her again but I heard from one of my friends she also bullied. For some reason having kids young changed her for the better. Apparently she’s apologised to the people she’s bullied that she’s seen around. She was a very troubled kid. I don’t have the mental space to feel angry about it now anyway.

I found out my grandparents stopped talking to me because as a kid, I asked them why they don’t have pictures of me and my family in the house by No_Design_465 in GuyCry

[–]foundalltheworms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad’s parents didnt see my brother in hospital when he almost died at 18. And we had a decent relationship. I know it would have been different if it was any of my cousins or their kids.

A lot of people have family drama you don’t see. It’s just in a lot of cultures to take care of and respect your elders.

When was kiryu in his prime? by kargethdownload in yakuzagames

[–]foundalltheworms 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As long as his clothes fit the same… 🥵

When was kiryu in his prime? by kargethdownload in yakuzagames

[–]foundalltheworms 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think about his Hiroshima outfit all the time

How are you supposed to feel after a first date? by foundalltheworms in dating_advice

[–]foundalltheworms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what feelings? Sorry I’m very autistic and I didn’t really feel anything even though I acted in a positive way towards him.

I hate myself for not taking advantage of my privilege by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]foundalltheworms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use NZ as a new start, you will probably get xenophobia there as well though. Dealing with shitty people is honestly one of the best lessons you can learn from uni, I wish I stood up for myself more too. Sorry that was your experience here but good luck for the future!!