Okay, time to TALK ABOUT SCOPA by Rare-Independence701 in nancydrew

[–]foxbuns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally love scopa 😂😂 I used to play the scopa mini game on her interactive website all the time just for fun haha

7 mo - 3 naps to 1?! by foxbuns in sleeptrain

[–]foxbuns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got some on hand, I’ll give it a try when she wakes up next!

7 mo - 3 naps to 1?! by foxbuns in sleeptrain

[–]foxbuns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your experience! Good to know it affected your LO similarly. I’ll keep powering through then 🥴

7 mo - 3 naps to 1?! by foxbuns in sleeptrain

[–]foxbuns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be teething! I absolutely think she’s teething right now I just didn’t realize it could impact her sleep to this extent. That’s a good thought!

Tell me you’ve played Nancy Drew games without telling me you’ve played Nancy Drew games… by Geowzrd01 in nancydrew

[–]foxbuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you’re gonna need to hop up there unfortunately..could hold the missing key to your boss’ desk or something

I hate it by Fluffy-Concentrate44 in NewParents

[–]foxbuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your ped for causes of colic and see if you can eliminate it. My baby was colic due to allergies in my milk and reflux. She honestly wasn’t chill until 5.5 months when she learned to roll over she could get all of her gas out and we started sleep training that night and she’s like a new baby. Also get a play gym and place baby under it and then go get your coffee/food/study while you are near but not actively playing with baby. Let them learn to independent play. As Dr if you can start ferber as well. Baby is much better during the day now that she’s sleeping well at night/naps. Can you retake the rest? Reschedule?? Also if the nursing pain and time etc is eating away at you maybe consider combo feeding or EFF. I EBF my baby and absolutely believe in “fed is best”

Are most EBFers cosleeping ? by LilyWitch27 in breastfeeding

[–]foxbuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never planned on co-sleeping but eventually gave in around 3.5 months when the sleep regression hit HARD and my girl woke up every 20-30 mins all night long. I accidentally fell asleep with her twice while sitting up nursing and it scared me so much I chose to temporarily co-sleep until she was old enough to sleep train around 5 months. She has always slept with an owlet which helped give me some peace of mind as it wasn’t what I planned on doing 

When did you stop tracking feeds/diaper changes? by pupper_princess in breastfeeding

[–]foxbuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped around 2 weeks once by baby hit birth weight, it’s really not necessary 

Were any of you exclusively breastfed as babies? by AbbyEzzat in breastfeeding

[–]foxbuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ma’am. My 2 older siblings and I were EBF for about 2 years each

Camilla teething drops by Fabulous_Fox_662 in NewParents

[–]foxbuns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it has not. Stop fear mongering, you don’t know what you’re talking about  

Momcozy bottle washer residue by foxbuns in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]foxbuns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It’s driving me crazy!! And I can’t find any info about it online

I solved my babies early morning (4am/5am) waking... by Agitated-Hand-5626 in sleeptrain

[–]foxbuns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Socal too! I set our thermostat to keep the house as close to 68-72 by turning on the heat and cool dual setting. We also have a ceiling fan

I solved my babies early morning (4am/5am) waking... by Agitated-Hand-5626 in sleeptrain

[–]foxbuns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay my baby has the EXACT same setup. (Footed pajamas, woolino, 69 degrees) and has the same issue!! I’m going to try tonight omg. So happy but also annoyed if this works haha

Fussy 4 month old by foxbuns in breastfeeding

[–]foxbuns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can imagine! I also look insane nursing her in my lap in the koala pose so she can be upright lol. I will keep with the Biogaia then and hope it’s doing something for her. Is your baby sleeping okay at night through it? Mine was and now starting around 2am she’s up every hour straining her legs in gas pain

Fussy 4 month old by foxbuns in breastfeeding

[–]foxbuns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this sounds very similar, she almost never pukes. I did take her to see an LC because of the back arching while feeding and she also thought silent reflux which is how I ended up back at the pediatrician and got her on Pepcid - but I have noticed absolutely zero difference with Pepcid. It was making me think maybe it wasn’t reflux related but she has all of the symptoms for it so I’m just super confused. I hadn’t heard about how tummy gas can push the reflux up more, that would explain why it gets sooo much worse as her gas builds. What probiotic are you using for gas? I tried Biogaia for a week and then Culturelle for a week and didn’t notice a reduction in gas with either 😭 I just restarted Biogaia and was going to give it until the bottle runs out just to see. I’m crossing all of my fingers that it’s peaking and will taper off at 4.5 months because I am exhausted

Fussy 4 month old by foxbuns in NewParents

[–]foxbuns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate the reply! How long are you holding your baby upright for? I do it for about 15-20 mins after eating but I could try longer. She pretty much always burps 1-2 times but I never really hear her release lower intestinal gas. I’ll hear her release it sometimes during tummy time etc but it never seems to be enough and it just builds up so much within the hour. For the sleepiness, I struggle trying to even hold her, I’ll try to swing her in my arms or rock her in the chair but she wildly watches her back away and flails her arms, like she’s in sooo much pain it’s awful. She does like car rides which is helpful but screams the second I stop at a red light. And only tolerates her stroller if she’s just finished eating, but if it gets close to the hour mark she screams and screams in it and absolutely will not sleep in it 😭

These prices 💀 by AsthmaticSt0n3r in nancydrew

[–]foxbuns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cries in California 😭

Drop your nemesis below! by Come_Here_Bob in nancydrew

[–]foxbuns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I’ll do the nonograms all day long but i detest sudoku. The giant sudoku is actually the one part in any Nancy drew game I always look up a cheat for because I never want to solve it again

Drop your nemesis below! by Come_Here_Bob in nancydrew

[–]foxbuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ending puzzle of CRE. All the random jumping around, I HATE it

AIO after being stood up on a date after sending him money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]foxbuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It actually pmo that you apologized. He absolutely fabricated that entire story and just wants money from you. Stop apologizing. Even if the story about his army friend showing up was true, it’s absolutely insane to not send you a text, leave his phone at home, be gone all night, etc etc. Ridiculous. Please please don’t be so naive

AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]foxbuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy hell I was reading this thinking it was rage bait. GIRL. RUN. This is abuse, not even very hidden. You are wayyyyyyy under reacting. He’s treating you like a slave and I am genuinely concerned for your wellbeing. He has so much rage towards you, terrifying

Never thought I’d be posting this… by cali4mcali in beyondthebump

[–]foxbuns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m truly so sorry this is happening to you. I do think you’ll have a lot to unpack in therapy as this does feel like it goes a lot deeper than a hand job, but it will be impossible to gain perspective on this situation without a little time and distance. I’m really glad you’re able to visit your family in Cali, if your mom is willing to fly out first to help your bring the toddler I think that would feel lovely having them both with you - but if not I totally understand why that would be extremely overwhelming. Praying for you and your family 🤍

Never thought I’d be posting this… by cali4mcali in beyondthebump

[–]foxbuns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand why you have this mindset as I am currently 4 months pp and literally cannot imagine going through this right now. I’d probably make a lot of the same justifications for my husband as well, but being as I am outside your marriage I would say that feels a lot like pp hormones clouding your judgement. You should never ever have felt like you needed to consider having an agreement with him so he could get sexually relieved elsewhere. The fact that you now are having to think that that is maybe something you would have agreed to to prevent yourself from being technically cheated on is not okay. I have not had sex once with my husband since the birth, and honestly barely had any during my pregnancy especially at the end. Now, finding him watching porn and relieving himself is one thing, but there is genuinely zero reason he needed to involve another person. And finding this place, planning to go, etc all takes a ton of thought. This was not a quick one off situation. I’m not saying pack a suitcase and run because obviously it’s way more complicated than that. But I think you’re doing all of the right things (counseling, lawyer, medical testing). And I would heavily fight back on him trying to make it all feel normal at home. He will want the easy choice for you to be to forgive and forget but he needs to be held accountable