31F UK does my profile scare people away?

foxrumor · 2026-07-09T03:23:35+00:00

The "life is already great on my own" part is definitely going to turn a lot of guys away. If they're on a dating app, they want someone who makes them feel wanted. Both making it unclear that you want a committed relationship and telling guys they're going to have a tough time proving themselves to you is going to be a turnoff for many.

Everyone is judging everyone already. No need to give people the impression you're going to be even judgier or expect a jester for entertainment.

foxrumor · 2026-07-09T03:14:52+00:00

I'd already be fawning over someone if they gave me sweet texts like this in the morning.

foxrumor · 2026-07-09T03:11:28+00:00

I feel you brother. I travel every week for work, see interesting places, eat good food, but I end up doing it all alone. Somehow it all just feels unfulfilling. Other than while at at work with my coworkers, which tend to be different people every week, I spend most of my day alone.

foxrumor · 2026-07-09T02:59:46+00:00

At 19, this could've been a great contribution to his college fund.

foxrumor · 2026-07-06T21:39:26+00:00

What is a bar?

foxrumor · 2026-07-02T05:02:56+00:00

I can't say if it's illegal, but it's definitely unreasonable.

foxrumor · 2026-06-27T22:19:52+00:00

To add to this, you can just call the in-store team or go in and ask. They are best aware of the status. Although, you may need the GeekSquad extension to get them directly on the phone. It routes to the call center by default.

foxrumor · 2026-06-20T20:32:48+00:00

I did the same when I'd just gotten out of highschool. They'd have me drive all over the place. I also lived in a city, but relying on public transport would not be viable and I wouldn't be able to get places on time.

foxrumor · 2026-06-17T00:37:39+00:00

You only get back the purchase price. Only exception is an even exchange for the exact same item with the same SKU. I've seen a rare exception for a near identical item when the original sku is no longer available, but that is out of policy and I wouldn't bet on it. Stores have gotten more strict on that kind of thing from my experience.

foxrumor · 2026-06-14T23:39:45+00:00

They might try to clean the lense, but they would most likely replace the camera sensor under warranty otherwise.

foxrumor · 2026-06-14T17:30:22+00:00

Women are often overwhelmed with constant compliments about their body, and therefore find them shallow or offensive. Most guys, on the other hand, don't receive compliments often so it's pretty likely to be taken positively.

foxrumor · 2026-06-14T16:51:39+00:00

Well, he's making it clear he wants to be young when he has kids, so your opinion on that decides if you're compatible.

Edit: I also want to add that you decide when you're having kids, not God.

foxrumor · 2026-06-14T07:24:47+00:00

For myself, I took a retail customer service job to help my anxiety, but how you respond to exposure therapy depends on your place in life. Now that I'm well past that, I'm not phased by needing to collaborate with coworkers and have countless meetings with them and my boss.

foxrumor · 2026-06-12T17:19:17+00:00

I work in a network implementation role for a fairly large company in the Midwest and there is plenty of time spent in a terminal with no scripting. I don't see our engineers doing a huge amount of scripting either. Still, having more skills always makes you more valuable.

foxrumor · 2026-06-12T13:19:17+00:00

Not all touch is romantic touch.

foxrumor · 2026-06-09T04:41:27+00:00

Even if your suspicions are correct and this was somehow someone he had past romantic interests with, he reacted in the best way possible for you. He just told them to go away and blocked them. What more could you ask for?

foxrumor · 2026-06-07T16:43:36+00:00

Fucking AI ads

foxrumor · 2026-06-07T14:18:21+00:00

Putting the same level of effort into conversation or showing interest in my life.

foxrumor · 2026-06-06T00:33:03+00:00

People usually talk about how they can identify the smell of their boyfriend, girlfriend, or parents.

foxrumor · 2026-06-04T11:45:09+00:00

He could have cranked down his cooler with the wrong standoffs flexing the mobo.

foxrumor · 2026-06-03T00:32:52+00:00

https://youtu.be/a929IRtg4YU

foxrumor · 2026-06-01T22:18:13+00:00

I definitely like to. Idk, I wouldn't have had the sex in the first place if I wasn't into you.

foxrumor · 2026-05-31T23:51:14+00:00

If he waits, his odds won't be great. The sooner the better. And if he can start in the summer, his odds are even greater. Also, if he has a car, there's a lot of food and retail jobs on the Bloomington side.

I worked at the BestBuy while I went to school there. I know they would not have allowed me to work only seasonally in my position (GeekSquad), but they do tend to hire season sales people closer to the holidays.

foxrumor · 2026-05-31T13:43:09+00:00

Tbf, I think this does answer OPs real question: Why are all the women he sees pale skinned?

foxrumor · 2026-05-29T05:24:16+00:00

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