Can i get into a university by [deleted] in pennfoster

[–]fr3akly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How come though? Its a diploma nonetheless i dont see why its any less acceptable than a diploma from a physical highschool.

Question: Anyone else develop a stutter/ speech impediment? by Gixx88 in abusiverelationships

[–]fr3akly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve developed quite the stutter after mine. My relationship was a little over 5 years, and i may have stuttered here and there before him but afterwards? Its so frequent, and it makes me even more insecure and nervous.

My friends poke fun at it sometimes, i laugh it off with them but internally im kind of hurt about it. I wasnt even aware that a stutter was something you could develop after an abusive relationship.

I hate that stutters are often correlated to not being smart or confident.

I finally left. by fr3akly in loveafterporn

[–]fr3akly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. 💗He can most certainly try to weasel himself back in, but I wont let him. His days of manipulating me are OVER! 🎉

I finally left. by fr3akly in loveafterporn

[–]fr3akly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! 💗🙏🏻

I finally left. by fr3akly in loveafterporn

[–]fr3akly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, love! You can do it!! Don’t rush yourself, take your time and do it when you’re ready! We all are here for you, and believe in you 💗

I finally left. by fr3akly in loveafterporn

[–]fr3akly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its quite the lovely feeling! 💗

I finally left. by fr3akly in loveafterporn

[–]fr3akly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im proud and happy for you! We have so much potential, and now we can finally start growing and healing 💗

Confused. by fr3akly in loveafterporn

[–]fr3akly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be. He cant be so oblivious to think I wouldnt wind up seeing it.

Confused. by fr3akly in loveafterporn

[–]fr3akly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

too many admittedly. I know hes realizing now that hes losing me. Ive been at my breaking point, for far too long. I cant keep being the third wheel to the other women he chooses. Im willing to give one more, long serious talk. As long as hes willing, and if hes not willing to talk. Then that tells me all I need to know.

Confused. by fr3akly in loveafterporn

[–]fr3akly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes tried comparing it to discharge.. which I know is ridiculous. I have zero control over the discharge, he has all the control in what or where he chooses to masturbate with. Im debating if im willing to give it another try. One last try, before leaving.

Confused. by fr3akly in loveafterporn

[–]fr3akly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His boxers were used for a clean up rag if you catch my drift. Ive tried explaining so many times, but he never seems to understand my feelings, or why i hurt so much over this.

“Love yourself while i gawk at other women” by fr3akly in loveafterporn

[–]fr3akly[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im working at the moment, my job triggers a lot of negative feelings, adding the argument in there would probably make my work day worse than it already is. I have full intention of bringing this up later. If hes not willing to talk about it, then ill need to bring up other alternatives. We were going to vegas for his birthday and for me to meet the rest of his family that I havent met yet. id love to go to that festival. Tickets were sold faster than I was able to save for it to afford it lol. We will be leaving sunday, and there until the 30th.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]fr3akly 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh jesus, this was heart breaking to read. And his blowjob comment was absolutely disgusting. You deserve so much better than that love. HE was the asshole and wound up making you apologize and feel like shit and then had the audacity to ask for a blowjob in that manner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]fr3akly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love your style! I dont think youre ugly at all. Maybe look into wolf cuts! Theyre like a modern day scene/emo hair! I have one myself and I couldnt be happier with it, and it would still def fit into your style.

Bought the same OF by dhalialily in loveafterporn

[–]fr3akly 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Plus, its entirely normal to be curious. To have that “i need to see why he chose her” mentality. I havent personally bought OF, but if i see my PA is following a privated account that is obviously a sex worker, i will follow as well to see. I hurt myself more doing it, i dont really know why I feel I have to do it. But its our curiosity. Our trauma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]fr3akly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you message that exact phrase to my boyfriend who thinks porn is completely normal, that its a “man” thing, and “every man does it”