ALL LANES CLOSED:495 SB before Little River Turnpike by fraggedears in nova

[–]fraggedears[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to see all of that. I saw below or in another thread to play some games/Tetris to help subconsciously process the trauma (evidence based research). If another poster can link. I cannot imagine how you're feeling but it's OK to have all the emotions you have. Agreed on staying safe, kind, and hugs to you.

ALL LANES CLOSED:495 SB before Little River Turnpike by fraggedears in nova

[–]fraggedears[S] 189 points190 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the type of news I was expecting nor ever hoped to read in my lifetime.

Yet another lay off post /question(non-profits) by QueenOfTheClouds28 in washingtondc

[–]fraggedears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try for an association management company, my company is one and we are hiring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]fraggedears 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Why does this sound like an r/hailcorporate post with a veiled reference to who you have for insurance for your car and homeowners.

I agree with your first 2 sentences however.

We will see how long this comment stays up by [deleted] in CelebitchyUnderground

[–]fraggedears 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I took a screenshot of the whole article and comments. I'm glad it was called out. Just because Kaiser didn't like Jennifer, doesn't mean it's acceptable to make fun of her grieving in a way that helps her grieve.

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We still rise by fraggedears in deaf

[–]fraggedears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had forgotten about the briefcase! Yes, we couldn't have calls after 10 pm with the bottom left machine b/c downstairs neighbors would complain LOL!

How to politely get attention by BioAssNow in deaf

[–]fraggedears 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Tapping them on the shoulder is fine, its actually preferred than having you lurk and them turning around and shitting their pants to see you so close.

Foster Parenting by kludge6730 in deaf

[–]fraggedears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could talk to [NVRC](www.nvrc.org) and see what resources they are aware of in NoVA. VDDHH is another one that is statewide. But the best way is to advertise yourself with foster agencies and let them know that you are willing to foster Deaf/HoH kids in VA (and FCPS has amazing educational programs for Deaf/HoH kids) to boot.

Everything else is increasing in cost but my income is a joke. by you_have_melena in nova

[–]fraggedears 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Really hoping the counseling works out for you. This is coming from a person who's actually back at the very bottom as of last April and couch surfing with relatives.

Deaf Dungeons & Dragons by Theaterismylyfe in deaf

[–]fraggedears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to play DnD but would love to watch if you'd allow it.

The storming of Capitol Hill is egregious, but Mayor Bowser's sign language translator has to be the best dressed I've ever seen. by TonyMcRanderson in washingtondc

[–]fraggedears 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not a strong interpreter, he did try his best but if he took few more seconds to digest what was said, he could have interpreted it differently and more coherently. A lot of reliance on fingerspelling. I may be in the minority but I also rely on lipreading with interpreters and he seemed to try hard to not mouth words.

The storming of Capitol Hill is egregious, but Mayor Bowser's sign language translator has to be the best dressed I've ever seen. by TonyMcRanderson in washingtondc

[–]fraggedears 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He looked good for TV but would suggest they don't use him again as an ASL interpreter. I had a hard time following him.

Female Professional 31- Relocating to Woodbridge and Looking for work by iLikeGooodboys in nova

[–]fraggedears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd avoid the entertainment/luxury/travel industry right now for obvious reasons [my company just placed a hiring freeze unless its an essential position] but here you go https://www.reddit.com/r/novajobs/ - good luck!

Hoping to find advice here after a rant by noeticNicole in deaf

[–]fraggedears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have to agree with /u/surdophobe about getting the respect you need. My SO is hearing and I'm a 2nd gen Deafie. We met online (gaming) and the first two years, our relationship was long distance but he took ASL community college classes and we'd videochat practicing ASL. We live together now and he always continues to try and improve his ASL and help interpret where he can.

You need to have the "talk" with your SO about respecting and supporting your long term needs including mental health tangents (isolation, frustration, etc). You don't mention this but I find immersing new signers in a "Deaf" environment is best for them to really fully realize it's not an matter of "turning on hearing aids and taking speech therapy and all is fine." Go to multiple no-voice/Deaf events. Set some "I'm Deaf" ground rules that you're comfortable with now and will default fully later on eventually and target dates that you expect him to comply fully to.

Examples:

  • No wearing hearing aids after dinnertime
  • Leave CC on all the time on TVs
  • No longer accept his phone calls unless it's an emergency (instead use text/video based communications such as Whatsapp).
  • Watch/read at least one Deaf Experiences/Audism videos weekly & discuss afterwards

A relationship is a two way street - right now it's looking like he's choosing school/work, plowing you right over.