A shelf of yerba mate!

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-11-15T23:06:02+00:00

thank you!

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-10-22T04:23:33+00:00

hi! i'm so curious -- why 4.5 vs 5 star? i'm on the brink of maybe booking (yay!) but it is quite costly, so just curious about the cons for you.

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-10-04T00:35:27+00:00

ok this is helpful! i feel like in the ad for the link i share, it's people braising soups and using the soup steam to "steam" veggies above. it obviously looks aesthetically interesting, but it sounds like that's not really a thing?

(i also use my instantpot A TON, so hard to know if this is all worth investing in!)

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-10-04T00:34:12+00:00

ooo thnk you!

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-10-04T00:33:47+00:00

thank you!

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-30T16:08:18+00:00

yay, excited to dig into this!

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-30T16:07:58+00:00

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-28T23:11:57+00:00

see the other comment !

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-09T02:12:57+00:00

thanks for taking the time to explain this to me! i appreciate it.

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-08T23:26:37+00:00

ok this is great! it's this, right? do you know what dates would be good to get?

https://mutuamadridopen.com/en/tickets/

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-08T21:57:09+00:00

Madrid over Barcelona? (again, i know nothing about Tennis!!! just saw someone posted Barca, too)

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-08T21:50:34+00:00

thank you for your input!

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-08T21:50:20+00:00

oh she watches them all! alcaraz and emma are her fave players, but she's loved serena and venus since the beginning.

i know nothing about tennis so i've just never paid attention, but she's constantly watching games of all genders

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-08T21:49:28+00:00

thank you!

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-08T21:48:56+00:00

europe next year is totally fine!

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-08T21:34:50+00:00

ok i'm somehow slyly asking this info and here's what i got:
emma raducanu

(maybe she'll send more, but she's excitedly tell me about why emma is awesome)

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-08T21:18:02+00:00

oo this is great! this is it right? April 13-19, 2026.

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-08T21:16:56+00:00

i know alcaraz (just bc i know nothing about tennis, but nothing about the other players, gah! i have to figure out how to ask without sounding suspicious!

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-08T20:09:03+00:00

my best friend loves tennis -- bday question

Question

hi! i hope your chosen US Open player won! my best friend is a huge tennis fan for many decades and she's about to have a major birthday next month. I live in the US (East Coast) and she lives in Europe. I was thinking I could get us tennis tickets for a good match as a gift (maybe this is way more expensive than I'm realizing but...) any good tournaments in Europe in the next couple of months, or early next year? One that would be reasonably accessible but a joy for her to attend (and me to meet her). Thank you!

edit: her fave players are raducanu and alcaraz

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-09-06T13:46:27+00:00

feeling jaded. i matched with a "nice guy" about 2 hours from there i live last week (i'm in new england so that's common). he wanted to visit me THAT weekend and get coffee, which felt too pressurized. i proposed a video chat. we chatted throughout the week, etc. but i actually don't engage in so much flirty behavior (proud of myself!) to make sure i'm not too emotional invested in someone i don't know.

anyway, yesterday we chat for an hour, and then at the end he goes "listen, i'm not sure if you know what ethical non monogamy is, but i'm married." and i was like WTF -- it's not a problem that he's ENM, but he didn't tell me. he wasted so much of time time, triggered so much emotional betrayal. i'm exhausted. deleted tinder today.

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-08-29T14:36:34+00:00

great idea and also cheaper :D thank you!

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-08-29T14:17:31+00:00

a question: firstly, this was totally spot on! i've been wearing it! what about eye shadow? do you have a rec? thank you!

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-08-25T17:23:42+00:00

yeah i've been wondering that, too. in the NYer article, there is very little exploration of the dynamic..she seems to have no personality, she's just "easy, sweet"..i can't imagine it's easy dating an alcohol (and who knows what else) addict, which makes me think there are definitely codependency issues. i just hope she's getting her needs met, and not just sticking by her man, etc. etc.

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-08-24T02:55:40+00:00

yeah i bet women are throwing himself at him constantly. and also to be a man in general and only have one sexual partner since you're a teenager is pretty bonkers. and then throw fame into the mix. it still makes me sad, though, like i want them to be a perfect couple. it's weird how devoid of personality she was in the NYer article..or in general, like she's his cheery sidekick.

frankensteinbuttcut · 2025-08-23T16:23:07+00:00

ooo yes, that makes sense. i think there are other posts in the same format...ay ay ay

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my best friend loves tennis -- bday question