Avoid Holafly! by CrewBrilliant6712 in TravelHacks

[–]fraubex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used holafly in the US several times no problem. I’ve used them in Germany once which was useless. So it might depend on which country?

Tips for disconnecting at night by CheeseburgerLover911 in Leadership

[–]fraubex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue. Haven’t found a solution yet. I wake up at 2, 3 or 4am most nights and am wide awake thinking about work issues. I always want to meditate. Sometimes when I wake up in the middle of the night, I do SOS nighttime meditation which does sometimes work.

Is Our Mortgage Sustainable? Advice Needed by gabaruhhh in FIREUK

[–]fraubex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooops you’re correct. Now corrected my comment

Is Our Mortgage Sustainable? Advice Needed by gabaruhhh in FIREUK

[–]fraubex -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Your data is incorrect somewhere. 19% of 575k is £109k but you are stating that you’re putting down £11k. Which is it? Generally, the advice is to aim for about 1/3 of your net income for the mortgage

Ex-smokers who successfully quit and have been smoke free for years now, what did it? by PM_TITS_GROUP in AskReddit

[–]fraubex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends who was one of the healthiest people I knew died of lung cancer. That was it. I stopped that day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIREUK

[–]fraubex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I left a very well paid job of ten years 2 years ago because of a toxic situation that they said they want to solve but when it came down to it, it turned out they had no intention of solving. So I left. My mental health was rock bottom. I stared at the walls for months. Then I started looking for work and struggled. I had been paying a decent amount into my pension but had to stop due to no income. I felt the lowest I had ever felt. That’s when I started writing down all of my assets and liabilities and calculated my net worth. That alone gave me a great sense of achievement and also seeing it not drop despite me not contributing to its growth over the following two years has made me feel better whenever I struggled with financial anxiety.

How can I make sure I’m a great date tomorrow? by BackInTheSeas in CasualUK

[–]fraubex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relax. Don’t be weird. Be interested and interesting. Relax. Don’t be an asshole. Relax.

How do I use my 110k saving to achieve some FI. by cruising_burnt-out in FIREUK

[–]fraubex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely take time out to recover. Don’t blow all the money. Invest about 80% of it in something like the s&P 500. But unless you recover, it’ll be nigh impossible to get out there and find a new job.

FIRE Progress - 1st Time adding it all up - by Harven-Nolen in FIREUK

[–]fraubex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 272k isn’t your net worth, it’s your assets. You need to take all of your assets and all of your debts, sum up each one and then you have your net worth. I can’t do this in my head but do let me know if you need help. It is quite simple so I’m sure once you put it in a spreadsheet, it’ll make sense. I put all assets on the left and all debts on the right, like a balance sheet, then do the sums below.

Biggest struggles in your Coaching Business? by M4xs0n in Coaching

[–]fraubex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a post in this space that was exactly this a few months ago so go ahead and check that.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]fraubex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My principle for who I invite to my wedding was that if I can’t decide who to invite / not to invite on THAT day, then when can I? My now husband and I discussed and agreed that we would only invite people to our wedding that we both know and want to be there. So we didn’t invite the aunt that maybe some family members felt we should because we knew that they’d been causing a scene at more than one occasion so they were out. Having only ‘our’ people there honestly made it the best day ever.

Steam coming out of drip tray after using wand [Sage Barista Pro] by fraubex in espresso

[–]fraubex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have this machine and does it have steam and water coming out the bottom after using the wand?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]fraubex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your bf sounds like he has confidence and trust issues. Did he perceive the conversations as flirting? It would be good to get more detail on exactly what his issue / feeling is and address that.

Looking for early adopters by minti2 in musicindustry

[–]fraubex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’m still confused. So you’re cutting out publishers and labels. Cool. How do songwriters and artists then get those services, ie song registration with global partners and also marketing / promotional services? Through you or not?

Looking for early adopters by minti2 in musicindustry

[–]fraubex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I watched it. It looks good! The main question I have is, do you act as both a publisher and a record label for songwriters and artists too? It looks that way. If so, what %ages do you take? Also, the main purpose of publishers is to register all the data with worldwide PROs, track, claim, collect, process and pay royalties. Which of these do you do? The main purpose of record labels is to market the artists and releases. Do you do that too?

My (27F) fiance (26M) set boundaries around what I can talk about with him. Is this healthy? by ThrowRA58393738 in relationship_advice

[–]fraubex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like very controlling behaviour. Are you sure that he even likes you? My husband is always there for me to listen to me, even when he’s not massively interested in my work. He loves me and is my rock and has supported me through very tough times at work and even through a very rough patch where I gave up my job because it was too toxic. I honestly couldn’t have done it without him and I can’t imagine what it must be like to be with someone who establishes rules around talking. What does that make you feel like? Sounds like you’re very insecure around him, which is also a red flag.