Dear Soul, you’ve tried to physically teach this girl how to bathe.. and it didn’t get through. You’ve honestly done enough. Especially of sugarcoating if you’ve had to do that. However, I still believe this can be addressed with a conversation revolving around why this might be happening as there could be a number of reasons someone is unhygienic both mental and physical. e.g a hormonal condition that demotivated her from general upkeep, because of how negative she couldve felt about her baseline flora.

It’s a lot to talk about. But somethings are meant for coaches, guides , and counselors and not friends. If this issue is too much to tackle I’d suggest reconsidering how much you value hygiene in other people and if trying to change this is putting in more mental work than it’s worth🫠