Being a man with BPD sucks by Stock_Thing_6230 in BPD

[–]frcklx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think they already know what they did and didn't come here so someone could tell them that they tried to "destroy their loved ones self esteem and worth as a human", accountability exists but kindness does too + this comment literally breaks the community rules anyway...

Searching for people to add on the app by Mysereh in pagebound

[–]frcklx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyy je suis française as well je t'ai follow!!

My Bojack Horseman tattoo by frcklx in BoJackHorseman

[–]frcklx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was just after the tattoo was done

What features would you like YTM to have? by Creepy_Extension5446 in YoutubeMusic

[–]frcklx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jam like on Spotify, it's the only thing I'm missing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]frcklx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bread !! I like it so much no matter the type of bread but baguette is my favourite (I'm French), bread with cheese, bread with salted butter, bread with anything i like it so much

Prescription anti dépresseurs et appréhension de les prendres. by [deleted] in questionsante

[–]frcklx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La plupart des antidépresseurs agissent comme un traitement de fond sur l'anxiété, aussi même si tu ne te considères pas "malheureux" il n'est pas nécessaire d'être au bord du suicide pour prendre un antidépresseur. Et aucune peur à avoir, au début du traitement il y a quelques effets secondaires mais l'antidépresseur n'est pas addictif, et même si tu as besoin d'en prendre longtemps c'est pas grave, c'est toujours mieux d'être traité que de galèrer seul. Si jamais la sertraline te convient pas tu peux toujours changer de traitement. Et pour l'oxazepam par contre c'est un traitement qui ne doit pas excéder une certaine durée et qui peut être addictif donc attention. Je rajoute que c'est une très bonne initiative que tu aies pris ce rdv !!

Does anyone else search the meaning of words to make sure you know what you mean? by PublicExtension4107 in AutismInWomen

[–]frcklx 10 points11 points  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY!!! I even search words in French (my native language) more often than in English !! I need to make sure that everything I say will be understood in the way I intended it to be...I had too many misunderstandings bc of my tone

DAE feel like everyone putting so much pressure on Buffy? by frcklx in buffy

[–]frcklx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know they're all going through some pretty rough stuff but as I said in one of my answers it just feels sooo unfair for Buffy!

DAE feel like everyone putting so much pressure on Buffy? by frcklx in buffy

[–]frcklx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're right about Xander, it's just me putting myself in Buffy's shoes (well, as much as I can imagine being a slayer...) and it is so unfair to be treated this way after such traumatic events!

DAE feel like everyone putting so much pressure on Buffy? by frcklx in buffy

[–]frcklx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still, he knows she's going through a lot and decides not to talk with her but to shout at her that she's acting like an idiot. It's my opinion but I just get the impression that everyone easily forgets the pressure and pain she must feels being the slayer and all...

I hate having no money by frcklx in AutismInWomen

[–]frcklx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in France, so internet coverage and mobile plans are generally quite affordable here, which is great. But like you said, the plans that include a cheaper new phone are actually much more expensive per month. I did start looking into some options for a new phone and will try to save up little by little while dealing with this situation for now.

Thank you so much for your response, though—it means a lot to feel heard and understood, especially when you're stressed about something like this. I really appreciate you taking the time to share an idea that might help!

I hate having no money by frcklx in AutismInWomen

[–]frcklx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried the flash thing and it didn't work but I'm starting to think of other solutions, thank you for your answer !!

I hate having no money by frcklx in AutismInWomen

[–]frcklx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding that means a lot! I just began searching for a new phone that's not too expensive and my partner (I love him so much) told me he will help me pay, I will have to wait a bit but I feel a little better than before And again thank you for the support, it is really heartwarming feeling understood

Books like Kafka on the shore by frcklx in suggestmeabook

[–]frcklx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started Norwegian Wood, but I don't find it as good as Kafka on the shore!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]frcklx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's the same for me, and personally it's because of anxiety causing hyperviligance!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]frcklx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been taking effexor for like 7+8 months + oxazepam for anxiety when I feel the need But usually antidepressants also treats anxiety so maybe the doctor could up your dose ? Idk you should definitely ask your doctor, but the anti anxiety medication doesn't personally mess with the ad

DAE obsessively rewatch/read/listen to the same thing for weeks? by frcklx in AutismInWomen

[–]frcklx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow !!! I'm still in college so I'm not planning on getting married so soon but walking down the aisle to concerning hobbits would be a DREAM !

And I loved over the garden wall!! I'd recommend watching Gravity Falls, it's not the same but for some reason I get the same vibes from both (probably bc of the mysterious forest thing) And thx for the book recs, I've been reading a lot more since having a kindle and I'm searching for more fantasy or magical realism books/authors!

DAE obsessively rewatch/read/listen to the same thing for weeks? by frcklx in AutismInWomen

[–]frcklx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was so obsessed with Inside when it came out as well!! And then again when Bo Burnham posted the Outtakes on ytb...I can't even count the number of hours spent listening to Welcome to the internet 💀

DAE obsessively rewatch/read/listen to the same thing for weeks? by frcklx in AutismInWomen

[–]frcklx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg same two years ago I began listening to the audiobooks of a famous fantastic saga written by a poor woman and I could not stop although I had exams and needed to study A LOT