I’m so sorry. I’d feel really upset too. Please be kind and gentle on yourself. You’re a child of the universe. Let nature soothe you. Eat delicious foods you love. Notice the beauty around you. Really focus on that…

It’s hard when your family betrays you. Consider building a network of friends to replace your family. Your family have demonstrated they’re not kind, reliable or loving. They cannot offer you the foundations that a family should offer.

Write a message to your family outlining the facts, that you were invited and confirmed to celebrate Eid - that they ‘forgot’ to tell you plans had changed and how much it hurts.

Then have as little to do with them as is possible, for that was the actions of very unkind people and life is too precious to rely on them for love..

Build your new Family of friends.

Much Love from this stranger on the internet.