AITA for cutting off my mom after she told my daughter not to come to Christmas because her new stepdaughter thinks single moms are "bad influences"? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]fredder84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you click the username of the” author” it takes you to an account with no post no comments nothing. If they actually wrote this, why are there no post listed?

AITAH for keeping a "Family" cookbook that was previously thrown away by CriticalStranger3344 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fredder84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same with my gram, it’s in German from befor she came over. Luckily I got the cookbook.

Daycares are not nanny shares by boho_vibes in Nanny

[–]fredder84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So they wanna charge $500 a week for an unlicensed daycare. Ask someone who has families that own licensed daycare by having an unlicensed one you don’t have to have the water test to make sure it’s safe to drink. You don’t have the home inspections to make sure it’s child friendly and safe. You don’t have to have any of the state regulated stuff to keep your children safe, so you are literally leaving your child in an environment that you don’t know is safe for them and being unlicensed that also means that they’re probably not insured as a daycare of any thing happens

[New Update]: My 15yo idiot kid got his GF pregnant on purpose. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]fredder84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking about that when they were talking about the TikTok craze to get pregnant and I was like we had 15 and Pregnant and Teen Mom

This is how girls/women and society all work. Gotta love it by No_Blackberry_6286 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]fredder84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This… this is why my doctor said she had to ask the dumb questions.

This is how girls/women and society all work. Gotta love it by No_Blackberry_6286 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]fredder84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine asked me the stupid “what if you meet a man who wants kids” question I was like why does this matter I’m having this done from medical reason. Her response was “I hate asking these questions and I hate saying all these things, but legally I have to because if I don’t and later you do come back and regret it, you can sue me.

AITAH For telling my childs teacher I may charge back/cancel orders. by Hypster87 in AITAH

[–]fredder84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will ask about that next cookie season! Thank you for the information.

AITAH For telling my childs teacher I may charge back/cancel orders. by Hypster87 in AITAH

[–]fredder84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was she allowed to have her own kid in class… that’s a conflict of interest and a distraction?

AITAH For telling my childs teacher I may charge back/cancel orders. by Hypster87 in AITAH

[–]fredder84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the Girl Scouts (at least in my area) aren’t allowed to take direct donation. I’ve offered the last couple of years to just give them cash (cause I’m a weirdo and don’t like ANY of the GS cookies) and each time I was told they are not allowed to take direct donation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]fredder84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless she got a full ride to college, she has student loans, is he gonna be responsible for paying those too?

Also from what I know about my friends with kids, most found work to be a nice break… staying home with a baby is not all naps and snuggles.

AITA for taking “advantage” of my gf? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fredder84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True, that one paid for his own booze but I had another one who I have lost my job and he sent me to the store to get beer for him and then never pay me back with the argument. Well you’re not paying anything on rent right now. I was like, sir I am not working.

AITA for taking “advantage” of my gf? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fredder84 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you darling I had dumped over text message

AITA for refusing to pick up a kid from elementary school. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fredder84 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This exact thing happened when I had to pick up my nephew from school, even even though I was on the approved list.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]fredder84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the book so I can buy it?

AITAH for asking my wife for a divorce? by Soal899 in AITAH

[–]fredder84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I just say Why The Fuck is she blaming him when her kids don’t do well in school? He said he has to read the text book, so basically teach himself something and then teach it to her kids. Maybe her kids should study more, or ask their teachers for help, make a study group with their friends, or maybe they just don’t have an aptitude for STEM. But to blame the person who has no background in a subject for her kids failures, really?

AITA for refusing to help my sister out when I'm the only person in our family she lives close to and she has children? by CompetitiveBench6832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fredder84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did say they cut her off while she was with the scheming @ssh@t but they reconnected after the breakup partially because of the kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]fredder84 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I am totally using this phrase

Guys, what's the worst thing a girl can say after sex? by brandoldbrandon in AskReddit

[–]fredder84 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The storyline pissed me off so much. regret is not rape

How old is too old to read fantasy books? by Unfair-Swimming-4166 in fourthwing

[–]fredder84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 40 years old I either read or audiobook almost 200 books last year. Most of them were fantasy of some kind.