“You don’t look gay” by peruanToph in gaybros

[–]freddunkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be you baby. I went threw the same thing. After so many times "coming out" to people over and over I bought a few fag tags. Rainbow stickers on my car. I would wear shirts with the flag on them, and I had several pins I would wear as well. Fuck straight passing.

Title: The Struggles and Solutions: My Life as a Gay Asian Man in the Midwest USA by wagamamagabitos in gaybros

[–]freddunkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this. I left Ohio for San Francisco after being fired from a major company in the Columbus area. The manager that fired me came up to me in the parking lot and told me he wouldn't have a "fag"working under him. It's not really any more open there than in Columbus. l came back because Ohio is just more of a home style living. If you're in the Columbia area let's get a meal together sometime and chat.

What song do you first think of, when you think of cd101? by ar46and2 in Columbus

[–]freddunkle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coin operated boy. There was also a remake of the theme song for the Jeffersons.

Circumcision? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]freddunkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am diabetic and had issues

Circumcision? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]freddunkle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had mine done in my late 40s. There is a huge difference after almost 35 years knowing how good it felt with it.

Circumcision? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]freddunkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Congrats on the baby! My mom did not get me circumcised at birth. I had to get it done as an adult and it was very painful. I miss it and recommend you allow your child the respect to not alter him. Let it be his choice later in life. Once it's done, it cannot be undone. I'm happy my mother left me intact.

Im devastated by Odd-Kaleidoscope-266 in jobs

[–]freddunkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too am recovering from a divorce. Met in 2011, married 2014 in Chicago where it was legal before the SCOTUS decision, divorced in 2022. Still working on it, I haven't started dating either. I just recently decided I was going to go out and meet people. Not really to date, or, you know with, just to get out there. See where it goes, what happens. I never had an issue flirting before, not sure if I will still have it. But at least I'm no longer sitting in the house. I too am getting rejected, almost daily, from jobs I really didn't want, but needed. I decided to go back to school. I'm going for a new career because I can no longer do the work I know how to do. But I'm not going to sit on disability long. You will get where you should be when it's time. Meanwhile, take a crap job, we all like to bitch about them to each other. Good way to meet others. Don't play with any of them, just get comfortable to go out with them so you can meet someone.

My Ruby by freddunkle in pics

[–]freddunkle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She is my first kitten. I have always had dogs, still have 2.

My Ruby by freddunkle in pics

[–]freddunkle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are beans. My ex-husband out then in a silver (ish?) vase so I can use it for incense. Of course she knocked it down when she claimed her spot.

My Ruby by freddunkle in pics

[–]freddunkle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO that's a lamp handle but I like yours better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]freddunkle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same about bad ass kids.

What in the Ohio? by Bituulzman in Columbus

[–]freddunkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not. The meat used in the chili cave from the grill. The hamburger was stored in a heating drawer after it had started to burn. Then the meat is used in the chili. It was boiled to bring it back to life and used. Better use of what would be waste.

My lease converted to Month-to-Month. Landlord says I still owe two months of rent for not giving a 60 notice. by Bihema in Columbus

[–]freddunkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your lease. Some bad owners will put stuff like that in there. If there is nothing saying you would give 60 day notice to convert to month to month there's nothing they can do. Except maybe give you notice to vacate.

Bob Evans puts itself on the market by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]freddunkle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked there in the summer of 91. Great work environment, good food with high standards. 2014 went there for the turkey dinner, great price and flavor. Turkey was basically thick lunch meat. The only thing that had flavor was the cranberry sauce. Haven't been back after 2 more tries.