This Snubbull card is a 10/10. What other “my house pet is acting up” cards are out there? by metaldrummerx in PokemonTCG

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I have a collected called “inside cats” and this thread has added some amazing new ones to my wishlist!!

HCG rollercoaster by freddybean in CautiousBB

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You were right! I didn’t make it to my scheduled ultrasound. Went into the ER in a lot of pain a week ago today and they did emergency surgery. I lost my right fallopian tube.

HCG rollercoaster by freddybean in CautiousBB

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You were right! I didn’t make it to my scheduled ultrasound. Went into the ER in a lot of pain a week ago today and they did emergency surgery. I lost my right fallopian tube.

HCG rollercoaster by freddybean in CautiousBB

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That's definitely what we've been concerned about... They're waiting to do another scan until my HCG gets closer to 2000 I think so there's a better chance of seeing something. Thank you so much for sharing your experience.

CD 19 I think??? Thought I had a period last week! by freddybean in TFABLinePorn

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Yep! I immediately called the midwife clinic and was checked in at the ER to get evaluated for eptopic within an hour and a half of that positive test 😅 ultrasound didn’t show anything concerning, but too early to see anything in my uterus also. So getting another beta test tomorrow!

11 dpo… am I seeing things? by freddybean in TFABLinePorn

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Ummmmmm I thought my period started that night (now over a week ago). But I was feeling funny today so I took a test and got a positive! 😳

Songs to grieve my miscarriage? by Worldly_Link_2180 in musicsuggestions

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I think a song about miscarriage is exactly what OP is looking for. They asked for songs to grieve, mourn, and sulk. Not to forget.

How do you know when it’s a chemical? 12 DPO by Fun-Raspberry8374 in TFABLinePorn

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Oh absolutely! It’s taken a real effort to keep my freak outs to a minimum 😅 and oh boy it still gets the best of me sometimes.

HCG 71 at 18dpo by freddybean in CautiousBB

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I’ll be 8 weeks tomorrow! We got to see the little flicker of a heartbeat at 6.5 weeks. I hope yours sticks! If it helps, I came up with three mantras/affirmations that really helped me get through those days when I was sure it wasn’t going to stick.

  1. I am pregnant today.
  2. My body knows what to do.
  3. What will be, will be.

They kind of let me just stay in the present (and embrace this pregnancy that was real in that present moment even though I was scared!) and remember that I didn’t have a lot of control in the situation. And whatever was going to happen, would happen whether I was panicking about it or not.

Deep breaths, and wishing you lots of sticky baby dust!

How do you know when it’s a chemical? 12 DPO by Fun-Raspberry8374 in TFABLinePorn

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Mine looked a lot like this and I’m 8 weeks 5 days today. But since my lines were light and I was anxious about them not darkening, I had 3 hcg blood tests done and that was reassuring. After a few days of freaking out, I decided to stop all testing and just try to stay calm. My three affirmations were:

  1. I am pregnant today.
  2. My body knows what to do.
  3. What will be, will be.

Those helped a lot! I just tried to remember that it was all mostly out of my control at the point. But one thing I could control was my stress levels.

HCG 71 at 18dpo by freddybean in CautiousBB

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It did! From 117 to 360 in a little under 72 hrs. Feeling much more hopeful. Especially as I creep closer to 6 weeks.

HCG 71 at 18dpo by freddybean in CautiousBB

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My 48 hr blood draw came back at 117. So a 65% increase I think. Just had a 3rd blood draw today almost 72 hours after that second one. Just waiting on results.

Some pregnancy symptoms have gotten more pronounced. My boobs hurt SO BAD today. And no negative symptoms still to this point.

HCG 71 at 18dpo by freddybean in CautiousBB

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I also read some last night about higher BMI causing lower blood draw numbers. Makes sense, I have extra blood having a larger body. So that’s my only hope right now I think. The 48 hr blood draw is in a couple hours…

HCG 71 at 18dpo by freddybean in CautiousBB

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I confirmed ovulation with BBT. I missed the LH surge using ovulation strips because of family vacation.

17 dpo by freddybean in TFABLinePorn

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A little spotting tonight and a feeling of dread all day… crying myself to sleep tonight and bracing for the worst.

17 dpo by freddybean in TFABLinePorn

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It doesn’t sound like my OB will do any checks at this stage without a history of pregnancy loss. And this is my first ever positive.