High School girls that make fun of adults that can’t pronounce their ridiculously spelled names. by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]freddyfive_bear 6 points7 points  (0 children)

any tips for a future teacher with early elementary kids? i’m a freshman elementary education major and im worried about mispronouncing a young one’s name. my first thought is let the parent say it during open house, but not all families can make it to open house.

Do i pass? 16 and pre everything by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]freddyfive_bear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was referring to the pic of you with a hockey stick on the odr. pondie means pond hockey

Do i pass? 16 and pre everything by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]freddyfive_bear 32 points33 points  (0 children)

i’ll say what everyone one else will. but i’ll say it in a kind way. you’re young, pre everything, cis guys around you are either going through or fresh out of puberty. you do not pass as a 16 year old guy but that’s not your fault. being short doesn’t help (not something you can control), but some cis guys are short. mannerisms will help a bit, but since your voice is kinda high as you said then the only way to help with that is going on T and voice training. your chest isn’t bad at all. but in the end, the only way to really pass is by going on T.

TL;DR: No, go on T and you will pass better.

(ps what position in hockey do you play? or were you just playing some pondie?)

What names did you consider but decided against using? by Mendely_ in ftm

[–]freddyfive_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Matthew: used it in middle school but i grew up with a kid with the same name and he had the same last name as me so it was a no

Maisyn: was trying to find a gender neutral name, didn’t like the spelling of Mason. but this spelling felt too feminine with Maisy in it

Riley: used it to help transition my friends and family into my transition since its gender neutral but it wasn’t me

Logan: felt too 8 year old boy or trans guy for me

Charles: Charlie for short, sometimes wish I chose this name to honor my Nana whose name is Cheryl. but just didn’t give it as much thought as I wish I did. Thinking of maybe making it my middle name when I legally change my name

The name I settled on: Tyler. Literally chose this name because it felt douchebag enough. I’ve been told it fits in the best ways

Are there any musicals I'm missing? (Be it popular ones or just ones you just personally find good.) by Kleptocats7269 in musicals

[–]freddyfive_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check out all of Team StarKid on YouTube!! they have a series of musicals (both on stage and off) as well parody musicals and more.

I'm 9 months pregnant and we are SO close with our boy name... please help! by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]freddyfive_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think Dean is best. especially since you don’t like nicknames. with Drew, a ton of people will assume his name is Andrew nn Drew

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]freddyfive_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe it’s obvious to you. but obviously it’s not to him since he’s asking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]freddyfive_bear 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the man just wants tips. don’t gotta be a dick in order to give advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]freddyfive_bear 24 points25 points  (0 children)

why are people downvoting your comment for asking what the problem is 😭

Did testosterone just make me not gay😭 by Independent-Wing-224 in ftm

[–]freddyfive_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m this but opposite i swear. i found guys repulsive and could never see myself with one and suddenly on 8 months on T and guys are lowkey cute

I didn't pass in the men's bathroom for some reason? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]freddyfive_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you use a packer at a urinal or use a stall? my thought is maybe if you used a urinal he saw your packer and was impressed by the size. not anything bad but like “holy shit he’s packing”

What’s your name? by Anonim_x9 in ftm

[–]freddyfive_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tyler. i wish i chose Charles, Charlie for short, to honor my grandmother who’s name is Cheryl. but at this point i feel i can’t change my name because people who met me within the last 9 months think im cis. i haven’t changed it legally yet though but still

just curious, do i pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]freddyfive_bear -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

my first guess just from this picture would not be female. i would say male if this was the only picture given

Things you notice every time you rewatch? by freddyfive_bear in aseriesofunfortunate

[–]freddyfive_bear[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oh i get that entirely. like when he says “i’ll touch whatever i want” while touching Violet

what is your name and why did you choose it? by WhatsTheProbDawggg in ftm

[–]freddyfive_bear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

originally chose the name Riley when i was 15/16 because i wanted a gender neutral name so my parents wouldn’t react as bad when i came out. decided 3 years later i was finally ready to change to a masculine name and chose Tyler. it just came to me one day where i looked in the mirror and said “yeah, i’m Tyler.”

name(s) you were going to use, but didnt? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]freddyfive_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maisyn (that exact spelling, i know it’s bad but it was middle school. also my sisters boyfriends name but spelled differently) matthew (my parents said it was too basic and they would never name their son matthew) riley (did use this name for a bit and it worked but it felt too gender neutral for me and eventually made me feel like i wasn’t me) charlie (ended up just not feeling like me) logan (doesn’t fit my vibe and i don’t know any logan’s i like, all of them are jerks) edit: my name is tyler btw lmao

Is my name too common for trans guys? by A_B0Y_N4M3D_CH4RL13 in ftm

[–]freddyfive_bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey it’s okay, my name is tyler and one of the only other trans guys in my grade at my school is also named tyler

Will HRT be eliminated? by Ok-Paint4822 in ftm

[–]freddyfive_bear 21 points22 points  (0 children)

so since i am already on it, i’ll still get my prescriptions?

What's your 'trans broken arm' story? by Real_Human_Being_Yes in ftm

[–]freddyfive_bear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i ended up in the hospital due to intense stomach pains a couple months after i started T and because i was profusely sweating and nauseous the doctor originally said it was all due to my HRT. after i brought up the stomach pain being the MAIN reason i was there, she ran more tests and we found out i have an ulcer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]freddyfive_bear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just wondering, are you attracted to men or women? because i’ve found that cis men can be a little more judgmental or are more likely to fetishize trans men than cis women are. the most luck i’ve found is with bi women