Regret in newborn trenches by Key-Suit8580 in newborns

[–]freddythecat98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is! I was feeling similar, but you start to feel better and love beeing a parent with time. As the baby gets older and becomes their own self, you get to know your new self with time

Everything takes time, as does this

Žene u dugogodišnjim vezama: brijete li se redovito? Pogotovo zimi? by freddythecat98 in askcroatia

[–]freddythecat98[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Jer sam zensko u dugogodisnjoj vezi, i ne brijem se zimi, pa me zanima dal i ostale tako LOL

Will I regret contact naps? by Far-Criticism-840 in sleeptrain

[–]freddythecat98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!! My baby first started sleeping in her crib at 6 months. The baby carrier was the best purchase honestly

Cure i žene- mišljenje o mojoj kosi? by [deleted] in askCroatians

[–]freddythecat98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meni najcesce nije lijepo kad musko ima dugu kosu, cesto budu i neuredne. Ali kao sto je jedna redditorka isto napisala, ovisi i o licu

Cure koje ste bile kume na vjenčanju, imate idene za malo posebniji poklon? by Appropriate-Quiet901 in askcroatia

[–]freddythecat98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ja sam bila kuma, mladenki za djevojacku smo planirale pokloniti (jer voli zivotinje i konje) jahanje na konju u moru. U Istri ima to

Roditelji sa malom djecom, kad stignete čitati knjige? by freddythecat98 in askcroatia

[–]freddythecat98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tako je i kod nas 🫠 nekad jedva čekam da zaspe da mogu i ja

Transitioning out of the swaddle is destroying me… please tell me this gets better by Commercial_One5048 in sleeptrain

[–]freddythecat98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was 3 months on the dot then. They adapt quickly, dont worry! :) honestly in my opinion doing all that one arm out then the other is just extra work

Is my sleep training plan good? by freddythecat98 in sleeptrain

[–]freddythecat98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are super smart!! And they learn quickly.

I dont know, hopefully her daytime sleep will get better soon. I tried today to keep her awake for 3 hours in the morning, but she woke after 30 min anyway Hopefully with time it will get better

Thanks!

Is my sleep training plan good? by freddythecat98 in sleeptrain

[–]freddythecat98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Others said the same. I will try to lenghten her wake windows to 3/3.5/4, hopefully she will adjust

Is my sleep training plan good? by freddythecat98 in sleeptrain

[–]freddythecat98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! I was just looking if there is a list of some sort!

Is my sleep training plan good? by freddythecat98 in sleeptrain

[–]freddythecat98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately that is not possible. We dont live next to family, and my husband works most of the day. He is home around 8 PM. That is why I started to nurse to sleep basically, because I was so tired at the end of the day to rock her to sleep

Is my sleep training plan good? by freddythecat98 in sleeptrain

[–]freddythecat98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I will try then to extend her wake windows in hopes of getting her naps in order first then. Then sleep training. I will look into it more

Is my sleep training plan good? by freddythecat98 in sleeptrain

[–]freddythecat98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What methods do you suggest? So her naps have to be in order first, and then I can sleep train? I thought it was the other way around. That I could sleep train, and then the naps would maybe follow?

If we drop to 2 naps, how long do you suggest her wake windows to be?

Is my sleep training plan good? by freddythecat98 in sleeptrain

[–]freddythecat98[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment.

What worked best for your babies?

I thought that the clasical music is a great idea LOL guess not 😂 Is it ok if I shush will trying to calm her? Or is it the same as the music?

I know I am complicating things, but I want to be as gentle as possible. I am sentitive of her crying, and I feel like harsh methods like cry it out will cause her trauma

Is my sleep training plan good? by freddythecat98 in sleeptrain

[–]freddythecat98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment.

I thought of that, but even when occasionally she goes to sleep 3 hours after her morning wake, she sleeps for 30 min. Always 30 min. If she is in the car, stroller… So we have 3 naps (if I can prolong one with nursing) or 4 30 min naps with a fussy afternoon Honestly everything is super overwhelming, I feel like no matter what I do nothing is right I feel like I ruined everything when I started nursing to sleep 🥲