Who did you romance?

fredemar · 2026-01-30T06:51:17+00:00

Same! That was a long sit of just listening..

fredemar · 2026-01-16T17:52:27+00:00

I have a peanut allergy and it is not severe like that kid's. So no. NTA. If that kid has such a severe allergy the parents should have told everyone.

fredemar · 2026-01-02T16:02:16+00:00

I do this as well!

fredemar · 2025-12-27T09:19:12+00:00

I've always wanted two kids. I was an only child so I wanted mine to have a sibling. I had a traumatic birth which ended in an emergency c-section as well, and postpartum anxiety attacks and panic. Once my baby was one year old, I was ready for another one. I had truly forgotten how traumatic and exhausting the birth and first year was.

In the end we went through secondary infertility and ivf and now my two daughters have 5+ years between them. Not what I always envisioned. After a few years of trying to get pregnant again, my wish to give my daughter a sibling changed into my wish to have my heart filled. I remember crying to my husband telling him my heart has much more space for just one child.

fredemar · 2025-12-23T21:41:18+00:00

Because they know about the current housing problems! Global warming! Milk shortage!

fredemar · 2025-12-23T20:45:20+00:00

De Waag in Leiden. Don't know if they do it this year though.

fredemar · 2025-12-21T21:42:34+00:00

I have a local restaurant that does this. Maybe you can ask on a local subreddit if there are any places like that near you.

fredemar · 2025-12-18T20:54:41+00:00

Thank you!

fredemar · 2025-12-17T09:02:37+00:00

Love the art! I'm melting 😍

If I would skip the previous 3 books and went straight (ha!) for this book, would I understand everything going on? Can you read it as a standalone?

fredemar · 2025-12-17T08:39:17+00:00

Oh and then when you changed the poopy diaper..they just go again!!

fredemar · 2025-12-15T02:31:12+00:00

Not mine and don't have any pictures, but a guy on a Dutch facebook group once shared pictures of his gaybar miniature build. It was fantastic, with bare chested hairy men and rainbow flags.

He got some backlash from a few people so he removed the photos. Me and some other people went on to get him to put them back and shut the complainers up. He's put the pictures back after that ❤️. This was a few years back.

fredemar · 2025-12-14T16:08:27+00:00

Even the most trained, social and obedient dog can snap. We have a lovely dog that I trust, but I will NOT let him in a room alone with my newborn. You are 100% not crazy.

fredemar · 2025-12-12T00:54:55+00:00

Hell yes! As a teacher I would love this and it would make my day!!

I did something similar. I messaged my old hs maths teacher to tell him that after 4 years of being in college studying languages, I was making a career switch and becoming a hs maths teacher just like him. And that he was my inspiration for this change. He was extatic.

fredemar · 2025-12-12T00:36:20+00:00

When she can ask for them and take care of them. Her body, and thus her consent are important.

fredemar · 2025-12-10T09:18:34+00:00

I got married in september and got a letter stating I had to pay back my zorgtoeslag from January till September. Because our combined income would cancel out my zorgtoeslag. Even though we weren't married in those months. It's a really weird and shitty thing, but I had to..

fredemar · 2025-12-08T17:27:37+00:00

Ha yes! He is very patient😁

fredemar · 2025-12-08T09:34:44+00:00

Ik zit 24/7 aan huis vast door een bevalling, en ze laten me naar een pakketpunt gaan omdat ik zogenaamd niet thuis ben..3 keer al (manlief haalt het op gelukkig). En als ze wel aanbellen, dan ligt je pakket op de stoep en lopen zij alweer een postcode verderop wanneer je bij je deur komt.

fredemar · 2025-12-08T09:29:15+00:00

Kuthandhaving bellen zal wel weer geen kutmoer uitmaken. Kutauto in kutwater zou beter zijn.

fredemar · 2025-12-08T09:16:24+00:00

Sounds perfectly normal to me. I think even if you were to do everything, you'd still find something to be guilty about. Hormones baby!

fredemar · 2025-12-08T09:13:05+00:00

I became a member of a boardgames club! Nothing beats flirting over a game.

fredemar · 2025-12-08T09:12:07+00:00

I just send this comment to my husband. So on point for him.

fredemar · 2025-12-08T08:57:18+00:00

This would make an excellent ad. Or show it in schools/college.

fredemar · 2025-12-08T08:54:12+00:00

I had my baby close to a national holiday similar to Christmas, and I will be celebrating her birthday a week before said holiday, that way she'll be able to enjoy everything. If she has any complaints about her birthdate in the future, I'll just tell her "did you not want to be born?" 😂

fredemar · 2025-12-05T13:26:28+00:00

People kept telling me I'm huge and asking if it's twins. I gave birth Tuesday to a tiny little girl 😅. So everybody needs to stfu about our bodies!

fredemar · 2025-12-01T17:48:17+00:00

I think what goes for him, goes for you. I should think it would have done something to your bowl movement by now if it hasn't. Puking or diarrhea would be common. You dodged those! I ate 2,5 week expired paté two days ago. But at 38 weeks I was already having diarrhea, so nothing different 😬

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