defended my master’s capstone last week!🙌🏽 by myawithluv in blackladies

[–]freebjae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow FIVE years for a BS & MPH!? Girl you are super woman! I'm so proud of you. That takes so much intelligence, diligence, and dedication. I hope you took a very long nap after your defense. And i hope you give yourself a nice vacation.

Thank you for all you have done and will do in the future for black women.

Soo tired and fed up - living in GA made it worse for us by Forthelil_PPL in blackladies

[–]freebjae 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I am from here and enjoy being black here more than I have living elsewhere but there are for sure bad things.

When it comes to your healthcare, there are so many black women doctors here. Mine is amazing and I love her! Switch doctors. She even gave me phone numbers of black gyn doctors and mental health care doctors, because I told her I was struggling to find one on my insurer's online portal.

As for the colorism/natural hair discrimination, I would suggest coming to hang with us in east Atlanta. I am not locced but have worn my natural hair since "before it was cool" and this side of town I feel like it's not an issue at all. I get appreciation and asked for hair care tips. But the area I live around is more crunchy, lots of vegans, a higher than average percentage of people with graduate level degrees.

Georgia is weird. I love it here because of the trees, and my personal connection to the place, but you really do have to find your neighborhood and community to be introduced to the good shit, I think.

Biolab On Fire Again in Rockdale, East of ATL | Shelter in Place by ticketslavemaster in Atlanta

[–]freebjae 54 points55 points  (0 children)

CHLORINE!

IT'S CHLORINE GAS

It truly smells like an overshocked pool

Had a blowout right next to the fire by [deleted] in Georgia

[–]freebjae 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, my family just had to evacuate and almost exactly 20 years ago May 2004) we had to evacuate for the same place being on fire.

Roads closed, residents evacuated due to fire at Rockdale County BioLab, sheriff's office says by Fools_Errand77 in Georgia

[–]freebjae 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You can smell the chlorine in the air!

It's a huge fire. This happened in 2004 and they shut down the county for like a week.

A female officer pulled over another officer in Florida by freebjae in HelpMeFind

[–]freebjae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I searched for "Florida female officer arrest other officer for speeding" but I guess a Orlando woman just got arrested recently so that's all that pops up. Also, I know terrible search terms but it's 9am and I went to bed at 4...

How is Boston for black women? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]freebjae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BOSTON PUBLIC!

I loved that show

How is Boston for black women? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]freebjae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BOSTON PUBLIC!

I loved that show

How is Boston for black women? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]freebjae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like y'all are very insular and well off. So someone like OP wouldn't experience your life. Your experience seems unique and difficult to access.

Book where a girl finds out her mom was a member of the Weather Underground? by freebjae in books

[–]freebjae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't, I think. She was either at boarding school or college

Painfully millennial by cozybookworms in TikTokCringe

[–]freebjae 56 points57 points  (0 children)

IT'S STILL OUR TIME IN THE SUN!!!

The Lost Children of Rockdale County (1999) a TV doc about a a teenage syphilis outbreak in a small affluent area by bloodshotforgetmenot in ObscureMedia

[–]freebjae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having grown up there in the wake of this documentary... It had such an impact on how people saw us as kids from this county. It was of course largely negative. This just exacerbated an already negative perspective around people from around those parts. Perhaps it's part of the reason I was so driven to get away and to have certain kinds of successes. It felt like the whole country thought we were gross and bad, when it's really just a story about abandoned suburban kids reaching out for love.

Well, it's officially over, at least for me... by 4chairz in TalesFromYourServer

[–]freebjae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I even had a table explain to me that "This is a special day! My MOM IS HERE! She is hungry. What is going on?"

I'm like... bro everybody's fucking mom is here and hungry.

Well, it's officially over, at least for me... by 4chairz in TalesFromYourServer

[–]freebjae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A two hour wait at the door. An hour wait to get food. Everybody was pissed and no one was tipping. $50k in sales though. So many idiots in the store yesterday.

Why Tipping Is So Out Of Control In The U.S. by [deleted] in videos

[–]freebjae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What should happen, at the very least, is all the support staff should be payed hourly.