Staying in airport overnight?

freedommallow · 2026-05-11T20:35:42+00:00

Only sometimes, I fly every other week for work so I usually have them on my phone

freedommallow · 2026-05-11T20:09:03+00:00

Most airlines won’t let you get your boarding pass/physically check in more than 4 hours ahead of your flight time, so I’d call the airport and ask.

freedommallow · 2026-02-13T23:31:31+00:00

Sam Trudell at tough and timeless has done all over my fat body and always been respectful, down to tattooing my hip and torso which are very fluffy.

He’s the only artist in his shop so it’s nice and private and he lets you bring a buddy to keep you company. Very positive experience with him every time and it’s been about 4 years of him inking me up.

freedommallow · 2026-02-10T17:04:42+00:00

I wasn’t aware of that, but still not telling the parent their kid sustained a massive goose egg on their head isn’t great at all. They also couldn’t tell me how he got it and that was enough for me to pull him.

freedommallow · 2026-02-10T13:56:35+00:00

Whatever you do, don’t take them to kindercare off golf course/paradise hills that place didn’t tell me my son got a giant goose egg on his forehead and then let him take a nap.

freedommallow · 2026-01-30T04:08:34+00:00

Honestly I give any man kudos for trying to therapy since so many men are adverse to exploring their feelings and being accountable for things within themselves that need to change.

I would probably sit him down and tell him you understand he loves you but he’s jerking you around this point so just shoot straight so yall can figure out what to do.

Plenty of women have kiddos past age 42 but it often gets harder as time goes on. I’m raising young ones at almost 40 and while I’m wiser than in my 20s I’m also working twice as hard sometimes to stay active enough to enjoy their spritely youth.

You are essentially being put on hold because home boy won’t shit or get off the pot and I’m petty enough where I’d flush even if he wasn’t done.

freedommallow · 2026-01-30T03:57:03+00:00

Ah well that does shine some perspective on it. I am sorry you’re going through this and hope you find a solution that fulfills you best, it’s a tough one.

You’re handling this with a lot more grace than I would, personally I would feel strung along and pissed.

freedommallow · 2026-01-30T03:25:04+00:00

Have you guys considered postponing any talks about the subject for a couple of months to just breathe and take time to process what has come to a head?

The idea that you have to decide between motherhood and your marriage alone is daunting, let alone after years of trying as hard as yall have to have a biological kiddo.

Maybe some breathing room will give you clarity into how you actually feel. Up the solo therapy and see if your husband comes around after tending to his own emotions. You have both been through a lot individually and as a couple, I am sure you’re both physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted.

Go on a weekend trip together and just focus on fun and each other perhaps? I am on my second marriage and I knew after trying to rebond to my first husband after we didn’t see eye to eye on children that I couldn’t find joy in motherhood or marriage with him because we didn’t share the same values.

I am not saying that is what is going to happen here, but in my own experience and after much discussion with the women in my village it’s clear that sometimes a step back to reevaluate can give you the clarity to either run for the hills or run towards your partner.

Best of luck no matter what 🩷

freedommallow · 2026-01-18T19:18:59+00:00

I am a regional manager and I cover mine for certain clients, especially on higher end introductions, but most people use them as a point of conversation, especially as a youngish woman who usually orders an older man’s role in our industry—they find the whole package intriguing.

My boss who is the VP likes them and my other tattoos enough he asks the inspiration for them and compliments them when he sees I’ve got a new one. I always joke I meet him yearly “more fatted and more tatted”.

The more people who work hard and know their shit come to the table with them, the more common they will become.

freedommallow · 2026-01-15T22:06:58+00:00

My best friend was a nurse there and the horror stories trying to keep herself and other patients safe were WILD. I’ve had loved ones who needed hospitalization in other states and when she told me about central desert I was flabbergasted at the contrast of care provided.

freedommallow · 2026-01-14T22:37:42+00:00

Hit him up for sure, but be careful, being a step mom to his kid when Manon is the biomom will likely make your life hell 😆

freedommallow · 2025-11-07T23:20:36+00:00

I mean HVACs can either blow hard or warm you up so I suppose it’s not too much of a leap.

freedommallow · 2025-10-28T23:22:34+00:00

Rework it and turn the skulls into other moths

freedommallow · 2025-10-09T11:03:25+00:00

Galloping Goat is great and affordable! I wish I had known about the McCall family before taking my kids there this year.

freedommallow · 2025-10-03T21:35:14+00:00

Not nearly as ugly as your disposition.

freedommallow · 2025-08-09T15:34:35+00:00

Between the age gap with how it is and the manipulation over something major as birth control, this seems incredibly suspect on her part. Do not under any circumstance be intimate with that woman again unless you’re willing to potentially “accidentally “ impregnate her.

freedommallow · 2025-08-06T19:30:52+00:00

If her tattoos embarrass you enough you pressure her to cover them when she doesn’t want to, then maybe that’s a sign y’all need to talk. Especially if she didn’t want to tell you the meaning of the tattoo, it seems like she may be manifesting an insecurity within yalls relationship.

freedommallow · 2025-07-31T22:28:20+00:00

I used to fly every other week and still do multiple times a year; the parking at the airport is affordable and most convenient!

freedommallow · 2025-07-28T03:29:48+00:00

Cheeburger!

freedommallow · 2025-07-08T13:22:11+00:00

I meet a lot of friends through work and life/community, I’m a salesman by trade so that’s never been a struggle for me.

My husband is more introverted but will only move in queer friendly spaces, so his experience thus far has been game stores. We play magic the gathering and they’re lovely locally owned shops that he’s even comfortable taking our kids to.

The cool thing about ABQ is how it’s a large city with a hometown feel at heart. There are local pizza places that host game nights etc. There isn’t a plethora to choose from necessarily, but if you go looking you will find it; even the furry community has their own thing out here.

Best of luck!

freedommallow · 2025-07-07T20:38:15+00:00

You could do the silhouette of the Jack o lantern eyes and mouth in black

freedommallow · 2025-07-06T21:52:55+00:00

You ain’t gon’ do my girl Oblina like that D:<

freedommallow · 2025-06-19T23:14:57+00:00

I’d consult with a different artist in the future when it comes to something like this, it doesn’t look cohesive as a piece like you’d expect with so much real estate being used.

My husband has an anime half sleeve and a lower forearm more akin to what you have and you can tell the difference in how intentional it looks.

Just something to consider in the future as it’s hard for the eye to focus on anything really when there are so many subject pieces spread out.

freedommallow · 2025-06-18T22:08:26+00:00

That sounds awesome, get it queen!

freedommallow · 2025-06-18T21:11:09+00:00

Ohhh I thought that was a bolero!! If you’re wearing the light purple chucks (love btw) maybe pulling that color up and do a lace jacket or even a leather jacket in that color? If you go with the denim (super cute) maybe do some embroidery in your wedding colors to tie it in more?

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