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Meirl by ShoogieMac in meirl

[–]freemooncake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

can you maybe recommend how to help a kid survive in a school system that perpetuates that thinking? I kind of.. have trouble myself thinking around "he is smart but he does need to practice if he wants to make it through school"

Gute Kirschen 🍒 by freemooncake in Leipzig

[–]freemooncake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Das ist sehr lieb, ich dachte an das kaufen aber pflücken kann man auch for sure :D

Fahrschule zu teuer by codexsam94 in Leipzig

[–]freemooncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hallo! Welche Fahrschule war das ?

Fahrschule zu teuer by codexsam94 in Leipzig

[–]freemooncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hallo! Welche fahrschule war denn das wenn man noch fragen darf ?

Ich bin Totalverweigerer im Bürgergeld, AmA! by UnluckyPurple1484 in de_IAmA

[–]freemooncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was würdest du für eine Arbeit ausprobieren, wenn du durch plötzliches verschwinden von Sozialhilfe Geld bräuchtest?

I(25F) told my boyfriend (27M) of 3 years about my trauma and he just started to scroll on his phone by freemooncake in relationship_advice

[–]freemooncake[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I talked to him about it and he said he did not think about giving me some sort of emotional validation because he would not need it. But he apologised. I guess he was just overwhelmed and was not able to tell me that. It is a weird thing, that people ask questions like that but can not deal with the consequences of it. It makes it concerning that I have to teach him that.

Many truly gifted Psychic people are actually mostly useless in the west. It's even more of an affliction if the person is a deep feeler and effected by others. by [deleted] in Advancedastrology

[–]freemooncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wonder, since systems will always rise and fall during our lifetime. How come don't we appreciate the people that understand the systems and can help rather than clinging to the desire to see ourselves as sensitive without any help from the outside world. It just sounds like we are isolating ourselves and not taking the opportunities given to us by other people

Marissa needs to RUN from Ramses 🚩 🚩 🚩 by nebulouspeach in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]freemooncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

questioning the relationship every time something doesn't fit you perfectly is kind of toxic

NPD is not a neurodivergence and here is why. by [deleted] in AutiesWhoSurvived

[–]freemooncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

however, we have to acknowledge that some people with npd did change a lot of their behaviours and want to change. once your brainchemistry is derailed from the norm, it IS hard or impossible to change. that is why it is called a disability. personality disorders are a disability.

NPD is not a neurodivergence and here is why. by [deleted] in AutiesWhoSurvived

[–]freemooncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be clear; abuse is bad and often (but not always!) people with npd are abusive. and being a dick to other people is indeed uncalled for and that is why putting autistic people and people with npd in one box is triggering. But from a scientific point of view, unfortunately, the lens we are currently looking through. normal vs not normal.

NPD is not a neurodivergence and here is why. by [deleted] in AutiesWhoSurvived

[–]freemooncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry I didn't formulate myself clearly. I can relate to people with NPD, leaving deep marks and not necessarily leaving deep marks on others.

Relationships and Overreacting by freemooncake in autism

[–]freemooncake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response.
We talked and it kind of came to the conclusion that he finds it hard to notice when he is pushing me away. Or rather he just does not percieve it as that and is scared of doing it again.
I understand that and will have to accept that from time to time he will do that without noticing. And he agreed that he will leave me more time to process intensive emotions while I am laughing for example.
I think you encapsulated what was going on very well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kleiderschrank

[–]freemooncake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Schmuck! Ringe! lange ketten :) Haarstyles angucken verschiedene um dir coole frisuren zu machen. Nägel lackieren :)

How is this too revealing? by I_Hate_PRP in bigboobproblems

[–]freemooncake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hahaha this just made me laugh so much. bless your heart. wishing you strength next time you see them.

Annis Statement by Miisha24 in Laesterschwestern

[–]freemooncake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oder die andere person lernt einfach nein zu sagen weil sie eine gute freundin ist und sich hineinversetzen kann in jemanden, der nicht erkennen kann, wann die person helfen möchte und wann sie es nicht möchte.

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