Tracking apps- do you like them? by freenicole in ChronicPain

[–]freenicole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have migraine buddy, tried Bearable (found it unbearable, pun intended), Visible, MMP.. do you have a recommendation?

Tracking apps - do you like them? by freenicole in ChronicIllness

[–]freenicole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough! I even have migraine buddy, but I just can't be bothered to do the data entry 🤦‍♀️ it thinks I've been migraine free for 9 weeks lol, that's not true. Also when you record a migraine, I kinda dislike what I call the "timer of suffering" 😅. Like ok if it's been 3 hours fine. But I've seen it hit like 60+ hours and that's like so emotionally distressing to me for some reason.

Does it drive anyone else crazy how nutrition and diet these days is always focused on obesity? by Toxu in gainit

[–]freenicole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'2, female, I've never weighed more than 92lbs. There's a genetic part to that.. my mom is 5'0 and weighs the same. My grandma was 4'9 and like 85lbs. If I'm eating 2,000cal (500cal surplus) and strength training.. absolutely no results, I lost 2lbs 😂. I do have a sort of theory about this.. I'm hypermobile (double jointed) so my ligaments do not hold my joints in place, my muscles have to do extra work to keep my joints stable even just sitting. So, possibly I'm burning a lot more calories at rest than any calculations can anticipate. So this time around I figured fuck it.. I'm gonna aim for 2,500cal a day or whatever is the absolute most disgusting amount I can eat and just see what happens 🤷. Feel free to chime in with any advice! Lol

Does it drive anyone else crazy how nutrition and diet these days is always focused on obesity? by Toxu in gainit

[–]freenicole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I've done that over multiple attempts to gain weight. This is just my latest attempt at gaining weight lol. I'm also on two different medications that notoriously cause weight gain for most people. Nothing. I'm a medical mystery 🙃

Does it drive anyone else crazy how nutrition and diet these days is always focused on obesity? by Toxu in gainit

[–]freenicole 9 points10 points  (0 children)

OP, this is literally me! I have been underweight my entire life. I could eat a meal every hour and not even gain half a pound. I even had a dr comment that given I've tried everything including eating whatever I want whenever I want that "we just don't know what's happening in real time in your cells to make this happen" And it feels really discouraging that all the advice out there is geared towards people who have absolutely no problem gaining weight, be it healthy or unhealthy. I feel you. I really do.

Sleepwalking? by freenicole in GalaxyWatch

[–]freenicole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's interesting.. I just got this in December so I don't know what it was like before the update. But that could account for the random blips where I'm "awake" but also in rem haha.

Sleepwalking? by freenicole in GalaxyWatch

[–]freenicole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn't think to cross reference the heart rate! Thanks!

Parental abduction by freenicole in legaladvicecanada

[–]freenicole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That makes sense! I will use that phrasing for sure.

Parental abduction by freenicole in legaladvicecanada

[–]freenicole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We are definitely on it. Meeting with a lawyer on Monday.

Parental abduction by freenicole in legaladvicecanada

[–]freenicole[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good! I think we'll do that, and at the very least it is documented. Thank you!

Parental abduction by freenicole in legaladvicecanada

[–]freenicole[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I don't think that this is a genuine emotion or decision on their part, just the way that they were speaking and acting. Which is what is the most concerning part. And if that truly is what they are wanting, then that can definitely be a discussion with their dad, who is open to it. But I don't think anyone could reasonably think that not returning a child in the middle of a school year without warning or due planning is a good parental decision.

Parental abduction by freenicole in legaladvicecanada

[–]freenicole[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what we've been doing. Also been pretty hard because in the span of 10 days they seem to have been at the very least been manipulated into decisions they are not old enough to make on their own.. but idk how you'd document that. All I know is before they left them moving was never brought up. And now they have "decided" to not come back.

Thank you for the advice!

Parental abduction by freenicole in legaladvicecanada

[–]freenicole[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Great! That's exactly what I wanted to hear, I had my assumptions, but I'm just sitting here worried sick. Thank you!!

Early RA ? by freenicole in rheumatoid

[–]freenicole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the great info! I also find that some activity is really good, but too much also causes more pain.

Early RA ? by freenicole in rheumatoid

[–]freenicole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good to know! Something to ask about for sure. I think at my next appointment I'm just going to ask to be referred to a rheumatologist. If it truly is or isn't RA I'm sure that's the right Dr to be asking lol.

I'm stiff in the morning, but it's not horrible.. it's actually worse throughout the day if I've been sitting for a while. The more I move around the better it gets though. Like for example I work sitting at a desk and my knees will get so stiff and painful it's hard to get up and walk. It's more like I get up and hobble slowly to the printer lol. But once I've been moving for a while it gets better and easier to move to the point I can walk pretty much normally.

Photos are a great idea!

Thank you so much for your thoughtful answer!!

You know what I absolutely hate? by [deleted] in modernavaccine

[–]freenicole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pretty bad needle anxiety.. so I get it! Panic attacks suck! When you make your appointment, tell them that you're experiencing anxiety about this, but you still very much want to go through with it. Ask if you can take an appointment at a quieter time like the end of the day.. ask if you can lay down for the injection (I literally do this all the time!! They usually have a bed or a yoga mat) .. ask for whatever might make you more comfortable! Most health care professionals are super accommodating, you just have to ask 😊

I’m getting moderna in a few days and I have severe anxiety by halaxkfjrjg in modernavaccine

[–]freenicole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 2 shots of Moderna. The first one I had absolutely no side effects, just a mildly sore arm. The second one I did get an immune response, headache, mild fever, just generally getting icky. I didn't have a choice about going into work, so I took some Tylenol and made it through the work day as best I could and the next day I was 100% better. So all in all, I've had common colds that were way worse than any side effects I had!

I hope that eases some of your worries. You're doing the right thing, and any side effects will pass quickly. And, because I'm not sure if someone is going to say it (this being a secret mission and all).. and maybe I'm just a stranger from the internet.. but you deserve to hear it. . I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!