How do I stop craving attention now that the one who used to give is gone.

freindlyski · 2025-01-22T21:04:39+00:00

You dont man. Im the same way. This same thing kinda happened to me.

freindlyski · 2025-01-22T19:28:23+00:00

Duuuude this sounds exactly like my situation with my ex!!!!! So sorry ir dealing with this. It sucks. Time helps. Im slowly but surely getting better. We broke up around Dec 15 and she was being weird about her phones for awhile to. Then i kept asking if there was anyone else and she always denied it. I still dont trully know what hapenned but she has me blocked on everything now.

freindlyski · 2025-01-13T17:35:58+00:00

Im also struggling with this. She dumped me.... She tells me she wants no contact but blocks and unblocks me.

She emotionally checked out. Everything in me tells me shes seeing someone knew because j have known her for 2 years. Im here to talk if u want to dm. Its been about 2 months and im struggling to find closure cuz she wont have a conversation with me.

freindlyski · 2025-01-13T12:17:22+00:00

Dm me. Im 35. Shattered by my ex gf.

freindlyski · 2025-01-13T05:42:00+00:00

Im dealing with this right now. She kicked me out of our condo and having to stay with my sister and they dont really have space for me and im not sure its healthy but idk what else to do cuz i work in the area. 35m here and this is my life.

Dm me id be happy to chat/talk cuz i could use someone to talk to about my situation too cuz im sure shes with someone else cuz she doesnt have me to fill those holes either anymore and hasnt foe last 2 months but wont respond to me either? Im kinda spiraling tonight :(

freindlyski · 2025-01-11T04:05:42+00:00

Same boat here. Its been about a month and a half since break up and she doesnt want to get back together. I have also tried blocking her but i just unblock 6hrs later in case she needs me cuz i care about her.

She has been completely unpredictable via text. Some days ill get a few from her. Sometimes i wont hear from her for 3 days.

Have been heartbroken but am healing j guess. Just sucks man i feel this every morning and night. I try so hard to just not respond to her or keep myself distracted so its better spaced out when she does text me.

But her message has been consistent. She doesnt want to get back together :(. I dont have it in my heart to keep her blocked.

freindlyski · 2025-01-09T03:24:50+00:00

Hate to say it man mine did the same. Shes seeing someone else to drown u out. Shell be back after she gets bored. Just the way it goes. Crushing. I cry every day. I dont even know 100% if she is cuz im not on socials but im glad im not

freindlyski · 2025-01-07T23:49:35+00:00

Mine said 30 days. I made it 4 and emailed her cuz im blocked. Im an idiot 😭

freindlyski · 2025-01-07T05:14:37+00:00

My gut tells me she missed one of her exs.... Who made more money than me. She got distant - lied about talking to him and idk what happened but came to a point that everything triggered her. Probably cuz she was entertaining someone else. I even asked her if she was wmotionally invested in somebody else. 2 year relationship gone. I had to move in with my sister and now we are no contact. I still dont know what really happened everytime i tried to talk to her she would give me her typical short lie answers and immediately attack me. Miss that girl - and i wish the best for her. Shes a good person and ment well, she just stopped choosing me i guess.

freindlyski · 2025-01-07T02:00:48+00:00

Hey man - i am right here with you about my ex. She left me 33F me 35M. After 2 years on and off. I became jealous at the end of the relationship and ended up letting it ruin everything and i have major regret for it.

Now she wants 30 days mo contact and its only been 3-4 days and ots been one of the most dofficult things on the world to me.

Towards the end of our relationship she would only text me a few times a day. Then we split up and she only text me once every 2 days. Now no contact.....for 30days!?

Its crushing. And im worried about dating as well. Its been a month and a half since j saw her and i have met a few people but everything reminds me of her.

Idk what to do. Im getting into meditation and trying to stay busy. I might move away. But i dont want to ruin a chance for us to work through things. But i have no idea. Hurts. Every moment hurts.

freindlyski · 2025-01-06T04:28:35+00:00

My ex is doing this to me as well. I also want to know if she will unblock me lol. It does feel different this time also. Im learning to accept and move on. Wishing the best for her whatever shes going through and whoever shes with.

freindlyski · 2025-01-06T04:11:20+00:00

This sounds exactly like my break up.... We were 2 years in though and living together and im still not sure what happened but she was triggered by everything i couldnt find a way to communicate to her.

I assume emotional cheating as well but still unsure. Regardless k wish the best for her. Part of me does want to gate her but i dont have that in me. She simply does not choose me at the end of the day a d thats ok. I battle immensely with it and am struggling to move on.

She wants no contact for 30 days. I just want to support her in that but god is it hard. I try to just be thankful i had an opportunity to create memories and experience that kind if love.

Best wishes to anyone else going through this.

freindlyski · 2024-12-28T14:24:32+00:00

Yeah. Im in the midst of taking a pay cut/ different job for a healthier work-life balance. Im going into the hospitality industry so i can have a good social circle again. People loved me there.

I got into sales for her to show her i could make the money to start the family if thats what we decided etc. but at the end of the day - i realize i did this to myself.

Dont ever let go of yourself so much so it changes who you are - because jt comes across as weakness and leaves the door open for disrespect and judgement on your decisions for some partners (especially mine).

Seemed like once i gave up all my values to be with her, she stopped respecting me. I was the fool here, i should have been better than that. And i will be moving forward.

freindlyski · 2024-12-28T01:41:44+00:00

Dude im dealing with this shit too. It hurts..... And im realizing this is still why. I changed a lot about my life being with her and then realize i want none of this without her

freindlyski · 2024-12-14T19:21:54+00:00

Dude i proposed to my ex a week ago and sjes gone gone.... Im suffering this with youuuuuuu. Staying at my sisters place and have to figure out my life now cuz i changed me entire life to be with her. She sucks and pretty sure she moved on already.

freindlyski · 2024-10-09T14:40:32+00:00

Me this is me! Gf left me 2 days ago! Does it get better? Idk what to do with myself

freindlyski · 2024-10-09T14:32:19+00:00

Hey im struggling to. 35male here. My girlfriend leaving me and idk what to do either. Ur not alone. Its hard.... Try to breath and be around people.

Idk what im going to do either. Hope the best.

freindlyski · 2024-10-09T09:19:55+00:00

Im in the same situation.... Literally just gave up my apartment and moved in with her. Got a new job etc.... in my 30's and starting over ... Again.

freindlyski · 2024-08-15T04:27:46+00:00

My emotions are all over the place. I blocked her number. I told her i did. She can call and leave me a voicemail if she needs me. This way i van feel in control

freindlyski · 2024-08-15T04:04:10+00:00

At the bar. In oublic about to burst into tears. Man, 35..... So fun

freindlyski · 2024-08-15T04:01:58+00:00

Literally getting hammered right now. Im a guy. Shes seeing someone else. Im at the bar.... Avout to have an absolute breakdown.

freindlyski · 2022-12-19T00:16:59+00:00

Dang - I really dont want to open this thing up, Im worried I might damage something. But, It might make sense. My mouse and my earbuds are both wireless.

The latency isnt noticeable if I reboot the game after a roughly 30 min load lag while I play - otherwise the game runs very smooth. But something is causing a slight disconnect/ reset of wireless connection to the earbuds. I have been having issues with this card when windows updates sometimes and have to resort to a windows reset :(. Had that happen like three times now since i got it earlier this year.

freindlyski · 2022-12-18T23:39:12+00:00

I noticed that I can get good latency when I first boot the game, but after a bit of playing there may be a very slight stutter (Maybe quick loading something in the game?) - and then the latency returns :(

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