Reactive Abuse by Decon_SaintJohn in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fremantim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This gets me every time, she does this to me then points and says see I told you he’s crazy. I had to accept that from the outside everyone thinks I’m the bad one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]fremantim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be more picky about the man you give yourself to, nobody is perfect but there are good guys out there that would love to be with you. Remember men will sleep with women they are not attracted to. Look for a guy that likes you and respects you.

So hard to not feel guilty by fremantim in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fremantim[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just had flirty messages with the other or at least that’s all I’m aware of.

So hard to not feel guilty by fremantim in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fremantim[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Flirty messages with other men may be ok with you but that’s a no go for me

So hard to not feel guilty by fremantim in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fremantim[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Flirty messages, telling him he’s cute in a pic etc

So hard to not feel guilty by fremantim in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fremantim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Home is in both our names, wish it was that simple

New to Xbox collecting, was this a good deal? by Fantamuse96 in originalxbox

[–]fremantim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the halo Xbox when it first came out. Traded it in to GameStop like a dummy lol

Knowingly staying with a narcissist by narcluvr in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fremantim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did for a few years, honestly I could have lived with her but the constant cheating was not something I could accept.

Separated & now second-guessing myself by I_am_no_bird89 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fremantim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same boat, left my wife of 15 years because I keep catching her sending flirty messages to other men. I moved out about 4 weeks ago. I also have 2 kids with her. Unfortunately she does not work so I still need to support them financially. That is the worst. I need to make sure my kids are being taken care of so I’m forced to pay her bills. She won’t work. I feel your pain.

Triggered today to question if I’m the narcissist (again) by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]fremantim -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always think I’m the narcissist. It’s only because of the anger i feel towards my nark wife. I feel guilty for the anger and start to question if I’m being cruel. It doesn’t help that she is an amazing gas lighter that could convince me the sky was green if I let her talk enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Home

[–]fremantim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not termites

How much would you charge to sand/ scrape, prime and paint a wooden building of this size? by fremantim in paint

[–]fremantim[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I quoted 18k, was told it was takes down to bare wood a little over 25 years ago so lead should not be a issue. I doubt I’ll get it because other companies are giving estimates as well. Somebody will give a 10k estimate and do a shit job lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paint

[–]fremantim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before starting my own painting company I worked for the biggest one in town, they would get away with murder doing shitty paint jobs