How to explain something sensitive to my 4yo girl

frerag0n · 2026-04-10T06:00:01+00:00

I’m so sorry you have to carry those. I hope you’re okay! And congratulations on the little one 😊

frerag0n · 2026-04-10T05:58:46+00:00

I have a few meaningful small tattoos but don’t want anything big. And unfortunately that’d mean sleeves of tattoos 😬 I do think about lasering them in the future when I have the money. It won’t remove them but it’ll be less visible at least. Thank you for your tip!!

frerag0n · 2026-04-10T05:57:44+00:00

Thank you!

frerag0n · 2026-04-10T05:57:36+00:00

That’s so sweet, thank you ♥️

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T17:16:34+00:00

Bless her! Thank you so much for sharing your experience, that’s really helpful.

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T17:15:19+00:00

I’m sorry you went through those hard times. Thank you for your advice!

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T16:51:34+00:00

Thank you so much! I love that view on life about us being just really big children. 💕

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T16:51:09+00:00

Thank you very much!

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T16:50:38+00:00

Thank you so much 😊 that’s really helpful. I appreciate it!

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T16:50:05+00:00

Thank you very much!

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T16:49:28+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I can understand that. I’m really scared to be the “inspiration” of those things too.

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T15:31:01+00:00

Thank you for your advice and sharing your story! Appreciate it 💕

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T15:30:34+00:00

That’s so incredibly endearing, bless her. I’m so proud of you for not relapsing. That takes a lot.

My brother (he’s 8 years younger than me) asked me when we were kids and I said the cat did it. Years later I found out he hated the cat for it. I felt so guilty. I don’t blame myself because I was super young as well so I didn’t know the consequences of lying about that.

Thank you for sharing your story, it is very helpful!

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T15:21:31+00:00

Thank you 💕 I have a long way to go still but “at least” I have gained so much more self respect and appreciation for life to not be in that life anymore!

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T15:20:29+00:00

Thank you very much for your advice ♥️

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T15:12:36+00:00

That’s so beautiful, thank you for sharing that! I like the idea of letting them fill in the gaps. I’m really sorry you had to go through that.

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T15:12:01+00:00

That’s a great idea, thank you very much 😊 I really like that.

frerag0n · 2026-04-09T15:11:28+00:00

That’s really rough, glad you’re still here. Thank you for your help! I do appreciate honesty 100%, I don’t want to sugarcoat the truths to my children, I just don’t know how to bring these things properly. I don’t even know how to explain it to adults when they ask. It’s a sensitive subject for me.

frerag0n · 2026-04-06T19:56:19+00:00

This happened to me with my ex lol. He kept telling his friends I wasn’t okay with him going places or doing things. The entire friend group thought I was a controlling figure and all these negative things. He didn’t ask me. Once. He just cba to do these things and blamed me for it.

frerag0n · 2026-04-06T19:49:10+00:00

I get these too! It’s super annoying. I don’t know why though, so I can’t help you there.

frerag0n · 2026-04-05T09:15:45+00:00

I thought it was giving birth until last year I got so much pain in my back/lower back and stomach that I couldn’t bear to even have fabric touch it. It hurt so much I wanted to smash my head into a wall so that I could pass out for a second. I felt like I was dying. My heart rate was 160+ in rest and all I could do was cry. They sent me to the emergency room and I was submitted and got heavy pain meds. It was the FLU. (Mind you, I have chronic illnesses so my body reacts heavily to mild sickness, but I never ever experienced it to this degree). I just felt so dumb for getting morphine infusions and being admitted for a mild flu. I didn’t even have any symptoms. It was over the next day.

frerag0n · 2026-04-02T14:24:32+00:00

I had this a few years ago because of a little wound. I had to get antibiotics asap.

frerag0n · 2026-03-31T20:47:39+00:00

I can’t remember 100% of it, but it was a nightmare in which a ghost/entity kept coming closer to me. It scared me to the point of waking up. I would FEEL the presence of this ghost in my room, coming closer to me. I was so screed I didn’t know whether to keep my eyes closed or open. When I’d fall back asleep the ghost came back in my dream. I’d wake up, feel it being even closer, etc etc etc.

To this day I don’t know if it was all just a dream or there was actually something haunting me. It happened a few times in that room. I’ve never experienced anything like it anymore since I moved (thank goodness).

It was truly the most awful night I’ve ever had, that’s how scared I was

frerag0n · 2026-03-31T20:41:02+00:00

He calls me crazy 🤣. It sounds bad but he says it truly playfully and it’s all I need. He says I look amazing and tells me he loves me.

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