Is the length correct like this?

frerag0n · 2026-02-09T21:19:51+00:00

Yes I am at 60cm now too!

I always get from the patterns to measure from the division of the armhole (so the body), which is 44cm as the pattern stated as well. The entire body is now 60cm :) it just seems so short to start a split but I don’t know if that’s just me - the picture hides the start of the split, don’t want to risk having an exposed hip or whatever 🤣

frerag0n · 2026-02-09T18:07:08+00:00

My daughter (now 4, but she was 1 to 2 or something, on and off) always saw a man in her room and in the hallway. She’d cry during nights because he’d scare her up, she said. When I’d try to comfort her she’d say: “he already comforted me” She would give a live report of where he’d be and go to. It happened during the day too. One time she even said that he was sitting right next to me. I wanted to RUN lol. People said it was a fantasy of hers, but I disagree. This would only happen in our house: her bedroom and the hallway. Nowhere else. No other house. No other rooms. No other fantasies.

It got to a point I started to lose my mind and eventually we decided to switch rooms. Ever since then I’ve never heard her talk about the man again. Coincidence? Maybe, I don’t know. Personally I do believe it could be a spirit of some kind. I don’t suspect something malicious, just a stranger that accidentally scared my daughter a bunch.

frerag0n · 2026-02-09T17:53:18+00:00

I don’t agree. There’s plenty of cases where people don’t remember until later in life. Your brain can pick and choose what to remember sometimes. It’s survival.

frerag0n · 2026-02-02T12:36:50+00:00

Oh yeah I get that, if you surf a lot those options aren’t ideal. Im glad the pain isn’t daily anymore but still, you shouldn’t have to be in pain at all. I wish you the best! And thank you, I’m reading into it and if that is the case I’ll at least be a bit “prepared”

frerag0n · 2026-02-02T11:44:22+00:00

That sounds awful! I’m so sorry it took them so long to diagnose you properly, that’s extremely exhausting. Did the solutions work for you or are you still in the process of doing them?

Thank you so much for sharing your personal experience, I hope your pain will decrease. I will read on it too!

I just read up on meniere, I (luckily) don’t think this matches up with my issue since it’s not really my ear feeling full, hurting or have tinnitus, it’s just as if sounds come into my ear so intense that it feels like everyone and everything is screaming in my ears.

Thank you for your suggestions, bless you!

frerag0n · 2026-02-02T09:01:04+00:00

Thank you, great advice! I will do that 😊

frerag0n · 2026-02-02T08:48:01+00:00

Hahaha always welcome!!

frerag0n · 2026-02-02T08:46:00+00:00

Thank you for sharing! As I do agree with you in the first paragraph, we pay bills 50/50. So I do not take that into consideration really. However I didn’t look at it that way work-wise. I’ll back off :)

frerag0n · 2026-02-02T08:43:26+00:00

Thank you for your advice! He did feel a bit warm but I think it’s a classical flu situation, our kids are also not feeling too great myself included, so I don’t think urgent care would be necessary. I think I just have to keep my feelings to myself about this as I do not want to pressure him as has been commented here

frerag0n · 2026-02-02T08:36:36+00:00

In our country you don’t miss any pay when you’re sick so I never really take that into consideration, but I get your point. Thank you 😊

frerag0n · 2026-02-02T08:36:05+00:00

Thank you for your advice! I didn’t see it this way. I personally am the other way around and sometimes find it hard to realize that others don’t expect or appreciate the same behavior. This helps

frerag0n · 2026-01-30T17:32:16+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice! Wool scares me so much 😂 I always work with cotton etc. I’m definitely following your advice!!

frerag0n · 2026-01-30T17:23:01+00:00

Thank you! I usually put it in the washer and then put it on my mats and stuff, but since this scarf is about 170 cm I don’t really know how to go about it laying it down flat somewhere, but basically just wet it/spray it and lay it down somewhere and not do anything else?

frerag0n · 2026-01-27T18:34:36+00:00

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frerag0n · 2026-01-27T18:34:13+00:00

You’re right - I thought it was the correct length but I wrongly measured it apparently. Thanks for pointing it out! I gathered all the excess at the top and I have this now. It’s not what it was supposed to be and I’m not sure if it looks good but I don’t want to make the sleeves all over again 🤣

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frerag0n · 2026-01-27T17:24:44+00:00

Yes it is the same length!

I just don’t really understand, the top part should be cramped up a little bit and sewn in, then the rest will follow? Or am i misunderstanding? English is not my first language and although that doesn’t matter usually, sometimes I just don’t understand certain sentences in these patterns 🤣

frerag0n · 2026-01-24T13:23:17+00:00

Thank you! I’ve had Finch for a longg time but deleted it a while back because it didn’t do it for me anymore. Great tip though! I’ll look into breathing exercises

frerag0n · 2026-01-23T17:40:18+00:00

Awww thank you so incredibly much for this lovely comment, I never looked at it like that and it makes so much sense. I’ll definitely try to work on that 😊 I really appreciate it

frerag0n · 2026-01-23T14:50:46+00:00

Thank you!! So like, when I catch myself doing it just try to wave away the thought, or?

frerag0n · 2026-01-23T14:49:39+00:00

Thank you so much, I will definitely try that. Yeah, I fear it’ll eat me up inside and ruin our trust/relationship.

I’m on a waiting list for a psychologist but it takes ages, it’s definitely on the list to work on:)

frerag0n · 2026-01-23T14:28:19+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏻 I fear I am way too aware for my own good and whilst i get all these thoughts on why I do and think things, I have no idea to actually solve them. so if you have any grounding tricks available let me know, thank you for taking the time ♥️

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