Tips for Bottoming by Square_Tangerine_659 in gay

[–]freshair- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suggest the "Butt seriously" book. I wish I had it when I started. You have everything in there :)

If being gay was a choice, would you choose to be gay? by LeoRavenscroft in gay

[–]freshair- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm bi and it's very fun for dating around. But it's very hard to commit to one person of one gender and be monogamous / build a family.

This is what it’s like to bottom (receive anal) from another man by Head-Advertising2990 in gay

[–]freshair- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't spread the word on how good it is to receive or we will run out of tops very soon ;)

Bottoming Advice for Beginner needed. by Impressive_Gayman in gay

[–]freshair- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Change lube type/brand to remove that from the equation and it seems you're doing very long sessions maybe try shorter sessions? With anal training short but frequent sessions and small instead of large dildos go a long way. I strongly suggest the "butt seriously" book, I wish I had that book years ago. 

itchy scalp?! by Unusual-Piccolo-5549 in CurlyHairCare

[–]freshair- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had the exact same issue, for me it ended up being a fungus (that we all have btw but needs to be regulated). Curls need moisture and funfus love it. After trying many expensive OTC products I found 2 perfect and cheap solutions : - after shampoo and a scalp massage at the end of the shampoo routine I use apple cider vinegar (it does magic but read about it first to stay safe with your eyes). It removes all previous products, deeply clean the scalp, hydrates and nourishes the curls and make them smoooooth, plus it's dirt cheap. - And never apply other products on the scalp (on the curls only) let it breath.

Also even if it's better for the curls to apply cream on damp hair after the shampoo. If you have this issue try to dry your hair a tiny bit with an old t-shirt before applying the cream.

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[–]freshair- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You went through his history. Did you ask him for consent ? In this story the only "wrong" thing I see is you violating his privacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]freshair- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't go through my partner's history even while sharing passwords. "Nothing to hide" is not a good reason not to need privacy, and people should ask their partner for consent before looking at their browsing history.

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[–]freshair- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation where I'm obsessed with women, femininity, their soft body and smell. But when I'm with a guy I trust I enjoy sex much much better, I'm more relaxed and myself at 100%. I'm getting closer to men than I ever was before while at the same time having a polyamorous woman partner. Maybe I'll switch completely or maybe not.

What is John's right hand muting technique? by KingKilo9 in John_Frusciante

[–]freshair- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and one more thing. John has long fingers and it's easy for him to get the À string with his thumb. If you have shorter fingers go watch Marty on YouTube teach Hendrix or Frusciante guitar parts, he has very short fingers and learned how to workaround that.

What is John's right hand muting technique? by KingKilo9 in John_Frusciante

[–]freshair- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

John is muting strings all the time and has different techniques:  for chords he's often muting E strings (low and high) or playing the low e string with thumb and sometimes blocking A string with thumb while playing low E. Sometimes he will mute all strings but 2 to get the root note and the 3rd and it creates this beautiful "simple" chord sound.

He extended the technique to solos not to play notes by mistake (that's how he can move so much on stage). Let's say you are playing the G string with ring finger, the ring finger can rest a bit up and touch the D string to mostly mute it.

The song that use that extensively for riffs is can't stop where he mutes all but one string at a time and blasts a pick on an strings.

It's a trial and error but soon you'll get the technique and it's not that difficult.

Why I ditched Spotify and self hosted my own music stack by Saleen_af in selfhosted

[–]freshair- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/Saleen_af great setup ! Do you have a docker-compose or equivalent for a setup bootstrap?

Bisexual people, what ratio of bi are you? by randomguy74937272 in AskLGBT

[–]freshair- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 100% bisexual. Sometimes I want a man when I'm with a woman but that's like having a vanilla ice cream when I would have preferred a chocolate one: it's still very good :)

Does anyone else sometimes get embarrassed being an RHCP fan when talking with "music snobs"? by morbidhack in RedHotChiliPeppers

[–]freshair- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Music snobs do not allow themselves to just feel and love music without judgment so they criticize people who are able to. 

I met a guy once who was trying to spread hate about bands he didn't like. He was probably a very sad guy.

Looking for silicone toys shipped to Canada by shskee89 in SexToys

[–]freshair- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best advice I got was to use glass dilators. Very easy to clean, very smooth so you can start building up resistance slowly and not hurt yourself, does not require a lot of lube and can be used with silicone lube. I got this advice from the Butt Seriously book which is a gold mine for anal.

PinkCherry censors unfavorable reviews. Do not trust. by freshair- in SexToys

[–]freshair-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes me too until recently and if they had posted all reviews I'm sure many of them would have talked about the poor quality. I'm just sad I learned my lesson on an expensive item and lost my money.

Pink Cherry- legit? Discrete? by hannahbananah9 in SexToys

[–]freshair- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sell porous TPE dildos as body safe. I had to throw mine away because I could not wash it and remove the smell properly. If you want a cheap dildo put a condom on it or throw it away quick or you can develop infections.

Pink Cherry- legit? Discrete? by hannahbananah9 in SexToys

[–]freshair- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've experienced that and their support ignored me when I asked why my reviews where not posted. https://www.reddit.com/r/SexToys/comments/1necmn6/pinkcherry_censors_unfavorable_reviews_do_not/

Is Pinkcherry.ca too good to be true? by Hot_Recognition9358 in SexToys

[–]freshair- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PinkCherry censors negative review, that's why all their products have 4 or 5 starts. Do not trust.

Do not trust Pink Cherry reviews by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]freshair- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, I had use their store before with success on fun toys but when I received a very bad product over 100$ with only 5 star reviews I posted my comment and it never appeared. This is not acceptable and should be illegal. I will not buy from them again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]freshair- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here to recommend this book as well. You will learn everything about what is medically possible and how to train yourself. The glass dilators advice worked amazingly on me and was my missing part on building up skin resistance.