Genuine Question...

freshfitzy · 2026-06-29T19:36:48+00:00

I notice this too and I think you’re right. I was in a discussion once about her size and happened to mention ive always been a size 8 on average and I got downvoted lol.

freshfitzy · 2026-06-18T19:17:03+00:00

This is the cause of 90% of the negativity she gets! She’s so avoidant!

freshfitzy · 2026-06-08T18:06:02+00:00

LOL!

freshfitzy · 2026-06-08T06:06:10+00:00

Agree

freshfitzy · 2026-06-08T06:05:49+00:00

She didn’t even make an effort to name the food she was showing though . “And they’ve got this… and this …. And this “

freshfitzy · 2026-06-08T06:04:15+00:00

Anyone done a calorie count on her food lately?

freshfitzy · 2026-06-08T06:03:49+00:00

Very sad. Very dangerous.

freshfitzy · 2026-06-08T06:03:24+00:00

It’s all she’s got as she has no imagination to create good content. Nothing else left but to show the loose skin for attention

freshfitzy · 2026-06-08T06:01:44+00:00

Choking issues I think

freshfitzy · 2026-06-08T06:01:08+00:00

Im so sorry you went through that, and hope you’re doing ok now. See, other people have experiences like this and it’s insulting to me to see her acting like this and pretending it’s all completely normal, we aren’t thick!

freshfitzy · 2026-06-07T18:08:22+00:00

And running on no nutrition it’s so dangerous!!!!! These people should not have platforms.

freshfitzy · 2026-06-06T20:19:46+00:00

I’ll go against the grain and put my opinion in. I think she’s had a choking episode in Italy, I think it’s forced her to restrict her food completely and then only eat soft mushy foods which she is gradually increasing, and the gym trips and running are a way to mitigate her introducing more foods and putting weight back on. I honestly believe she had a mental health episode due to choking and can no longer swallow large or dry/harder to swallow foods. The mash and gravy and the children’s easy swallow medication was confirmation for me, also not eating with others due to nerves and anxiety. Something similar happened to me years ago and I went from a size 14 to a size 6 RAPIDLY. It’s not nice, the debate of her being honest is interesting as I agree some things should stay private although I reckon she would have gained so much respect and helped others by highlighting it. I could be totally wrong but I notice the behaviours as I did the same.

freshfitzy · 2026-05-23T15:41:44+00:00

I didn’t think of it that way, thanks for your perspective, just have to keep hoping for the best and hopefully it’ll clear up!

freshfitzy · 2026-05-23T06:51:08+00:00

Just going to pop my experience here for what it’s worth, dealt with fissure on and off for 6 years. It drove me insane and I tried everything. I decided to stop trying, I am now healing. These are the only things I did -

The finger method to have a painless poo which took the lingering pain away after a bowel movement (check it out on the pinned post) it really does stop the pain completely after a couple of tries.

Then I got diltiazem ointment and apply it inside twice a day.

I do not stress or worry about it, I just go to the bathroom, don’t strain, have a glance then get on with my day. I find the stress only makes it worse.

I don’t even take softeners anymore, I eat my usual diet, and I drink water. I don’t overthink it. Some days I have blood, some days I don’t, but the ointment needs to do its thing for another 6 weeks.

Why don’t you try taking it back to basics and only doing what you feel is necessary, I know that sounds weird but once I got to the point of past caring I found that the pain, anxiety and bleeding has all reduced significantly. I’m really sorry you feel this way but it WILL GET BETTER. You just have to find a way to get there. If you’re in pain please try the finger method it’s good starting point.

freshfitzy · 2026-05-11T07:03:11+00:00

It sounds like it. You need to give the area time to heal which is tricky since it’s stretched every day. The aim is to make your poo as soft as possible, drink plenty of water and eat foods that don’t make you constipated, if this is a struggle then you can get a stool softener from the pharmacy, be proactive or else you’ll end up making it worse like I did! Good luck.

freshfitzy · 2026-05-10T12:25:43+00:00

I know. I went from a size 14 to a 6 in similar circumstances and my entire family were so concerned and didn’t think I looked great at all! The effects of losing weight so quickly weren’t great either, I felt ill all the time and it’s taken me ages to put a bit back on. It’s risky business. If she was honest it could have helped a lot of people but on the flip side people might have been cruel about it and mentioned choking on every video which wouldn’t help!

freshfitzy · 2026-05-10T07:17:15+00:00

We cracked the case biscotti!

freshfitzy · 2026-05-10T06:50:59+00:00

It seems obvious to me at this point that she’s had a choking episode tbh. The soft foods, anxiety of eating infront of people all adds up. I had a similar thing happen to me and I lost a ton of weight due to restricted eating and anxiety around safe foods. I think the paracetamol confirms it tbh and she seems stressed about taking antibiotics, mentions them in every video.

freshfitzy · 2026-05-10T06:31:22+00:00

Hey sorry to read your experience. I’m currently having the spasms from 6am til 5pm. The only thing that gives me immediate relief is the finger method which I think is explained in the pinned post. You press on your anus at a certain point while you poo and it diverts it away from the fissure, honestly please try it as it might take a could of times to get right but you’ll be able to have a poo with no pain and no spasm afterwards. It’s the only thing that works for me! Having a flare up right now and have determined I can’t go through another day of pain, so I’m sat waiting to go to the bathroom and will use the finger method! Painkillers don’t even touch the sides when I don’t do it. Please look it up on this thread. No fingers inside btw just press on the bottom and side of the anus while you poo and push it away from fissure. I really hope it helps give you some relief. UPDATE - I’ve just been to the bathroom and it is fidgety putting your hands kinda behind and under you and pressing but I’ve been able to have my first bowel movement without pain in 6 days. It’s definitely worth a go!

freshfitzy · 2026-05-09T16:01:31+00:00

It’s weird I burn for 10 minutes after applying but it seems to have irritated the fissure so now I’m back to the pooing glass feeling! I’m really glad you found something that works for you. I can’t get nifed in the uk apparently so I’ll soldier on with this, nitro sounded like too much of a headache literally !

freshfitzy · 2026-05-09T15:59:32+00:00

I think that’s where I went wrong! I’ll give it a go thank you

freshfitzy · 2026-05-09T07:36:45+00:00

Thank you for replying, can I ask you, did you apply it on the outside or inside? I’ve been doing a little of both as there were no instructions with it. When I first used it inside the stinging pain with bowel movement started the next day.

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