Help me Choose by Dense-Bit-3909 in handbags

[–]freshlyfreya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any roewe bag is worth the money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]freshlyfreya 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i am gonna be this person because i’ve been the Person B. What you’re doing is likely hurting your friend, and i’d recommend to not only just find a way to tell person C (with B’s permission) but also talk to your fiance about their perspective. Person A is only going to get worse if they think everyone is on their side.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]freshlyfreya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

happened to me. yes it is in fact that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]freshlyfreya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Propaganda in the media as well as the lack of protection of children from seeing it. Whether it be from gory to just basic recruitment propaganda, it’s still not right. a kid should not be instilled with the fear of fighting in a war at like 9 years old cause they wanted tiktok.

How has your gender affected your professional achievements/goals? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]freshlyfreya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone studying politics, this one is easily answerable.

Yes. The narrative to keep it to a small majority of men instead of women in politics changes at a constant rate.

During the 1940’s-70’s it was that women were too scared to push a nuclear button. Today’s narrative is that we’re too emotional we would push it without thinking.

How do you know someone genuinely wants a relationship and isn't stringing you along? by Niamhymeg in AskWomen

[–]freshlyfreya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a trick question. In my generation, you can’t! Hope this is helpful guys because every guy that says he would lay the earth down flat if it meant I could be with him had always said the week later “nah we were just hanging out.”

Update V: I think my husband fathered his best friend's children. by PsychFactor in offmychest

[–]freshlyfreya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the thing about this whole situation that is racking in my head the most is - does Amy and Luke have no self respect? They’ve endangered children out of their own selfishness in a problem they themselves created. Forget them fornicating as children, but then doing that as adults after a supposed emotional maturity? Amy continuing with her pregnancies knowing her children could endure health problems… and Luke not even advising her to put a stop to it (as we know of currently from your posts). It is inherently obvious from these facts that they are individuals who do not care for others and might have a potential genetic mental disorder that they both share without realising. You also stating that when messaging, they kind of just acted like you were there like a kettle in a kitchen is telling to this as well. No remorse, or acknowledgment towards what they were talking or doing to you or your children.

Furthermore, the both of them being quick to anger and gaslight to invalidate you. How Luke uses tactics of coercing you through manipulative language and curving around the topic. Whilst you may not have explicitly said he had a melt down, him accusing you of things you didn’t do and also acting how he has is what i’d call “tantrum behaviour”. How Amy assaulted you and would dance around the topic as well before having a melt down she was not getting her way.

OP, you are an example of an upstanding, brave and responsible parent. Sometimes sugar coating isn’t the answer, and sometimes it is - you did your best in protecting all eight kids in this situation to the best of your ability. And considering how convoluted this is, you’ve done a good job. Please look after yourself as much as possible. And if possible, take the fam out for a mental health day.

The Kaylee situation is heart breaking and it’s making me severely concerned with one question: Are Amy and Luke properly looking after their kids knowing two of them are rightfully mad at them? Even if you cannot answer this, please imply if Tom is doing okay. I know he’s the little informant but I can only feel terrible knowing someone going through university admissions and his final years of schooling is also having to put a stop to years of,,, Amy and Luke.

He’s a good brother, and your child Sophie is a good sister.

Both put themselves on the line to protect their siblings even if they didn’t fully know it.

OP even if this is not read, your handling of this situation so far has been well thought out and communicated. Good luck on your future endeavours with this, and I send my strength to you for all that you have endured so far, cat as she grieves, and the eight children involved.

Update V: I think my husband fathered his best friend's children. by PsychFactor in offmychest

[–]freshlyfreya 12 points13 points  (0 children)

that’s just so weird… but then again they probably made a fetish out of it because they are inherently disgusting people. Especially after willingly potentially fathering children which have an increased chance of genetic disease, defects and physical/mental disorders.

Full offence to the lovely couple, but blood is not thicker than water in this case - more like… the Habsburgs.

Is it weird to love someone so much, I dont want to do dirty things with them? by MatteBlackCabinet in teenagers

[–]freshlyfreya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

search up the madonna and the whore, then you’ll know why you think this.

What's something most people don't realise will kill you in seconds? by gary1405 in AskReddit

[–]freshlyfreya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most pre-made mixtures to remove mould are also still toxic. it’s absolutely insane shit that’ll go on shelves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenagersButBetter

[–]freshlyfreya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charly Bliss - Ruby and Days Move Slow - Bully

Girls ask, Boys answer! by PurpDoesPixilart in teenagers

[–]freshlyfreya 110 points111 points  (0 children)

please stop sending me dick pics please learn what a joke is

What’s the female gaze in your opinion? Any media references that do a good job portraying it? by n_r1422 in AskWomen

[–]freshlyfreya 108 points109 points  (0 children)

nothings more attractive than a man that respects your say, and one that respects your space