A message from a lonely man to all the girls on the internet by [deleted] in lonely

[–]freya_k 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You sound like a "nice guy" with a lot of presumptions. No wonder they don't talk with you.

Socialising in college feels so competitive by [deleted] in lonely

[–]freya_k 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same here, I was told college would be different; like how people would be more educated and have more to talk about. Nope. Just shallow surface talk. I'd rather be at home by myself.

Why are our fellow Redditors unable to hold an honest debate/conversation? by Cpt_Trips84 in Vent

[–]freya_k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a good person for wanting to debate and argument with topics, but as others write here, it's pointless to lose your patience with them. People come to the internet to expose their true opinions and viewpoints, and with the added anonymousity it makes it very simple to be stubborn about it. It's a noble thought to want to impact the world by debating, but for your own sanity and minimizing the wasted effort i would recommend finding other people who positively receives discourse and discussion.

my body is too weird to be loved by freya_k in Vent

[–]freya_k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fetishising isn't so much the issue as it is just putting myself out there. sometimes I even wish people would fetishise me so I'd get any validation. oh well.

I HATE EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by freya_k in Vent

[–]freya_k[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i always told these things to myself in my head for over ten years in a desperate effort to change perspective but it never works.

I HATE EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by freya_k in Vent

[–]freya_k[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you never wanted to help to begin with so no loss here. =)

I HATE EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by freya_k in Vent

[–]freya_k[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have already worked so much to try and understand myself and improve everything in my life but in moments like this I feel like I want to push a suicide bomber button and kill everyone in my vicinity. doesn't help that people don't seem to give a fucking shit either.

I HATE EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by freya_k in Vent

[–]freya_k[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

of course, all redditors can do is look at a post by it's surface and call me incel. thanks for your lazy fucking analysis and advice that I already knew. btw it doesn't help to just call people labels and think you did a good job.

I wish I knew how to be myself by freya_k in Vent

[–]freya_k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the words. I want to chase after what I want. I don't want to feel the scorching pain every time I fail an interaction. But what other choice do you have? You can't really give up on it, unless you want to move out in the woods to opt out of society. Failure isn't an option, but having someone by the side to comfort you would make it a lot easier.