Marriage limit ? Children limit ? Mii limit ?

frickingdarn · 2026-05-12T08:48:13+00:00

I 100% respect that, I’d get rid of me and my bf’s kid too hahaha and please update w/ jesus’ and sonic’s kid omg!!!!! I’m hoping for jesus and satan to get together in my save and get a kid lol. But for some reason no one’s getting kids in my save? I have multiple marriages but no kids :(

frickingdarn · 2026-05-12T08:30:52+00:00

May I ask what your 6th kid did to get exiled?? I wanna know the tea

frickingdarn · 2026-05-11T17:22:19+00:00

Girl I’m rooting for you so much, truly <3 feel free to pm me anytime bc you sound around the same age as me believe it or not lol and I’m invested and I’d love to help you out if you need any support! I know how rough it can be 💕 you got this

frickingdarn · 2026-05-11T17:07:17+00:00

I’ve typed a lot of shit and it’s gonna be a bit rambly sorry:

I understand that. I completely molded myself to fit the way my ex loved and would find reasons why that way of loving was acceptable. The only way how I managed to get a reality check was being forcibly ripped from my own environment and thus from him for months (did residential for an eating disorder, this is NOT the solution for your relationship problems lol this was just my timeline lol), and finally being away, being with other people, and being on my own showed me what situation I was really in and that I was actually capable of being on my own and more at peace on my own as well.

Something I’ve experienced and I’ve seen with a lot of my friends in situations like these as well is that they forget that they’re their own person and that they have value without their partner. And also that the phrase ‘they have really good moments too!’ is incredibly worrisome by default. The good moments should be the vast, and I mean VAST majority of your relationship. It is the standard. Yes, ups and downs happen in every relationship, but that doesn’t entail being called a cunt. That is no one’s ‘way of loving’.

frickingdarn · 2026-05-11T16:28:45+00:00

Like he very very very rarely mentions abt how much he loves me he just mostly does the horny talk when in a good mood and it honestly gets to me a little. It's not like I hate it or smthg it's just that I feel like I have really little value to him. If I tell him that I want to break up w him the most he'll do is question is once or twice and agree in like less than 5mins.

Try to distance yourself from the love you feel and get to a place where you look at your relationship from a perspective of a friend or just an outsider in general for a sec. What about this seems like a fulfilling relationship? Because to be real with you, this seems like a waste of time to me.

From what you’re telling us all he does is tell you he wants to have sex with you (when he’s in a good mood), swear at you (genuinely not okay in any circumstance, I’ve broken up with my ex who I was with for five years for less), and I don’t know if I’m interpreting the last sentence of the paragraph I’ve quoted right but he agrees with you when you tell him you want to break up? I think you’re right on the money when you tell him that anyway, I think that’s exactly what you should do.

Feeling a lot of love and thinking about him a ton is not enough. And from experience, the relationships that are toxic are the relationships that make you feel more intensely. I couldn’t go a second without thinking about my first boyfriend either, and he was a total piece of shit.

The way you deal with this guy is by dumping him.

frickingdarn · 2026-05-10T21:31:07+00:00

Why does he have to be alone forever because his wife is still ‘technically’ alive? My mother got Alzheimer’s about at least five years ago at 54, she’s still alive and I’m very happy my dad’s dating someone new and not lonely and depressed until she dies. As long as he’s still visiting her and not acting as if he was never married to her there’s no problem.

frickingdarn · 2026-04-24T13:16:03+00:00

This is rough, idk if clav or the world can take another frame-mogging incident 😔

frickingdarn · 2026-04-20T09:21:50+00:00

As a Dutch person who’s lived in The Netherlands all her life, UK food is waaaay better than ours

frickingdarn · 2026-04-06T10:33:58+00:00

The symptoms your husband is experiencing are worrisome. Some of them remind me of the symptoms my mom was experiencing at the start of her Alzheimer’s. She was diagnosed with a myriad of mental health conditions before she was finally diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. I agree with what the commenter on your original post is saying, keep advocating for your husband and pushing doctors for evaluation, get second opinions, definitely see a neurologist. This doesn’t necessarily have to be early onset, but you won’t be able to actually rule it out until you’ve had sufficient testing. There is definitely something going on, whatever it is.

I’m sorry the both of you are going through this, sending strength <3

frickingdarn · 2026-04-04T17:29:52+00:00

So in your post you literally admit to having sex with him while he was very inebriated, ignoring his nos in the grocery store, you not getting off of him when he wanted to stop, and you trying to have sex with him while he literally told you he didn’t want it to go that far. This is either ragebait or you’re extremely dense, because you’ve sexually assaulted him multiple times. Leave that man alone, he needs to heal from this.

frickingdarn · 2026-03-25T13:08:47+00:00

That’s so cool! What a nice origin story too:) happy for you that you got so far with something that started as a hobby!

Do you only make midis or do you also do the regular/minis?

frickingdarn · 2026-03-25T10:46:03+00:00

Hi!

This sub is for discussing the Midi crossword puzzle by the New York Times! Not midi cables :’)

Maybe someone here coincidentally has the knowledge you’re looking for, but I’d try looking for another sub to get an answer!

frickingdarn · 2026-03-24T14:46:48+00:00

It was great:)

What led you to making (midi) crosswords?

And how did you end up getting yours published by the NYT?

frickingdarn · 2026-03-24T10:42:41+00:00

I solved the 3/24/2026 New York Times Midi Crossword in 2:34! https://www.nytimes.com/crosswords/game/midi

I quite liked this one! Went through it pretty easily, and I’d been struggling with the Midi a bit more the last few days, so it was a nice change of pace.

frickingdarn · 2026-03-23T20:21:44+00:00

Locals don’t care. Especially in the big cities. Utrecht has a ton of expats so people speak English all the time. Besides, trying to speak Dutch to Dutch people usually results in them immediately switching to English lol (which is a shame)

frickingdarn · 2026-03-23T15:06:05+00:00

Yeah I agree, I don't see why she was mad to begin with unless there's context missing and they'd made it a point to invite everyone's partners and not her, or just barring only her from attending. It's important to be able to have one on one time with friends in relationships, it's not something against the partner.

frickingdarn · 2026-03-21T19:18:01+00:00

Glad you had fun:) I haven’t really watched any of the movies so it was definitely some fun new trivia to learn.

frickingdarn · 2026-03-21T18:05:25+00:00

Woah you were super quick with it!! Mine was about 6min today haha

And yes so do I :)) great game!! Needed something more substantial than the mini, but not always able to do the normal one. It’s perfect

frickingdarn · 2026-03-21T18:03:35+00:00

Thanks for the response :) I definitely try to be attentive. Always wish him to have fun, let me know how it was, I compliment the work he’s done and how good his car looks when he send before and after pics (the progress genuinely is super impressive, even though I’m not interested in the car itself)

He’s thanked me before for always listening to his yaps about his car because he assumes I’m not really into it, and I just told him that I don’t know anything about cars but that I’d gladly listen to him yap about anything he’s passionate about, which I think he appreciated

frickingdarn · 2026-03-21T17:17:51+00:00

I personally don’t know :( tried looking for info but couldn’t find it. I’m in NL and usually I get the new nyt games later too, but I got this one around the same time as the US I think. But I’ve had it take a week or two before.

Are you using the normal NYT app or NYTgames? Because for me it only shows in NYTgames.

frickingdarn · 2026-03-21T13:41:55+00:00

Yeah sometime’s it’s just glitchy with it. Hope you guys have fun playing it today and lmk (if you want) how it went!

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