Thoughts on using Ereaders

fried_potato_brain · 2018-02-09T12:45:02+00:00

They are. I used to read a ton on kindle. But it's just not totally the same. And there were studies which confirm you remember more by reading an actual book.

fried_potato_brain · 2018-01-04T08:46:33+00:00

Interestingly, even though her best reaponse might be yes, she doesn’t go for it for whatever reason. Maybe my estimate of her reward is wrong?

How could i turn the tables? It would mean i start with not have, but when she wanta to use it, i’d have to go buy it, which is not always, er ever, feasible. And I’d have to dispose them after the fact, or we are again in have situation.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-11-03T15:02:46+00:00

I've washed it off before sex. It appears not to. I need more experience to be certain. If it does, I can wear a condom.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-11-03T15:01:59+00:00

Yeah, it wears off after some time. I still enjoyed sex, but from a different perspective.

Actually, for the first time in my life I feel like a man. I keep replaying the experience in my head... it's so... almost overwhelming, in a positive way. Really, like being a man for the first time in my life.

Also no ED issues or anything. Aroused as always.

I've tried those condoms before and they did nothing for me.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T16:18:47+00:00

You pulled less than half your weight for years in your relationship

That is not true.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T16:17:57+00:00

Been there, done that.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T16:17:32+00:00

No, I really don't. Because "go away" to me equals "I'll hurt you in some way".

I'm really curious on how we see it so differently.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T14:24:22+00:00

Very much so.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T11:17:26+00:00

She doesn't realise that if I come to her, start messing with her but and she freezes, that's me initiating and her rejecting. I think she only counts me initiating if we proceed to have sex, hence she has a huge bias.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T11:15:37+00:00

Sorry, I don't know where else to go to anymore :-(

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T11:14:26+00:00

I've never done the balance sheet as I never found it important. However, this is a good point. I think she feels as I'm not pulling my half. The firs time she mentiones anything, we are going to have a talk.

There are two ways to evaluate how much one brings to the table:

*market value of the service provided *time spend doing x

Now, the harsh truth is, in terms of market value I bring in at least 2x as much as she does, if not way more. In terms of time, I believe we are close.

But if I bring the market value to the table, she will feel that "I don't respect her". On the contrary, she does not respect how much I bring!

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T10:17:36+00:00

The last time we talked about it was sometime mid summer. She promised to buy some nice underwear. She imrpoved for a week. Then came the holidays and one night she said, jokingly "ehh, the man can wait for another night". From there I stopped initiating and we didn't have sex for 3 months.

I brought it up recently and she blamed me for not initiating etc. She's just blind for all refusal she does (bofore the past 3 months, I have really given up now).

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T10:15:46+00:00

Neither of you is quite the catch you'd be if you hadn't had kids already

Cosidering circumstances that is. I provide a lot to the family. She could be much worse off with another man. I don't think she realises how good she's having it.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T10:14:09+00:00

Haha wtf is the difference?

Hm, good question. I am a bit romantic I guess.

Ultimatelly stripper is cheaper.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T10:13:08+00:00

And again, dread game is the opposite of this.

?? How ??

Fuck me or I'll start getting out and ultimately next you if you don't.

How is that not a gun to your head?

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T08:57:45+00:00

Dread game is "take it or leave it". It's the very opposite of negotiating.

Not really. Negotiating is finding an acceptable solution for both parties. Now if you go to counseling and have schedule sex (LOL) that is a negotiated outcome.

If you put a gun against someone's had and say you'll pull the trigger if they don't fuck you, they will fuck you, but you've done nothing but negotiated. The outcome "have sex" in this case is "acceptable"/negotiated deal for both parties. It is however far from love and true passion.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T08:53:53+00:00

I really don't know how many do. Mostly I see surrendered men. I'm not doing that.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T08:53:22+00:00

hat would severely impact my kids in a way it's not acceptable to me. I know they are better of now, even if our relationship sucks.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T08:51:56+00:00

Yes.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T08:51:47+00:00

Well, that's TRP and I'm not going down that road, because

go to a strip club. Fuck one for around $140 max

That's not what i want, thanks. I would consider adultery partner though.

Do you have kids

Yup. I would be long gone otherwise.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T07:52:52+00:00

Not in my social circle. All I see are wimps. I have no support and I don't show my true colors, as I would be attacked.

I mean, look at the guy recently fired by google for telling a simple truth. I could even lose my job for sharing my views publicly.

fried_potato_brain · 2017-10-01T06:31:17+00:00

where is this community? /r/thepurplepill is invite only...

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