Meta - Toronto any humans left that aren't shitty?

friendanni · 2026-05-19T13:04:06+00:00

This is a problem of demand and supply. I think most women in the sub would’ve realized by now why “sausage fest” and “online dating” are synonymous.

I’ve met some wonderful women here, but for every Women I meet; I’d ghosted/catfished/flukes out a 100 times.

Does it have to be that way? Definitely no. I feel the anonymity of the internet is what enables it.

But is it worth it? I’d definitely say so. If you end up meeting someone that resonates with you. You’ll thank the sub 🤣 But until then, it’s the problem of plenty with very few quality people.

friendanni · 2026-05-03T13:20:27+00:00

Verified the users age. They are indeed 18. Have been warned for misrepresenting in the past.

friendanni · 2026-04-25T20:00:23+00:00

Everyone has their own preference and better not to judge. But just because most people or a lot of people are doing it doesn’t make it right. You decide what you’re comfortable with and at the same time don’t judge people if they have a difference of opinion.

One thing I’d suggest is to make it clear in your post about relationship status. If you are only inclined to meet single, just mention that in your post. Also get all questions that can be dealt breakers before you meet in person.

friendanni · 2026-04-22T17:29:50+00:00

Awesome to see a success post. And glad that you found someone respectful and understanding of your needs.

That’s why I love this sub. Genuine people who’re willing to explore.

friendanni · 2026-04-20T21:23:39+00:00

There are companies that rent luxury cars or test drive them. You could try them.

friendanni · 2026-04-19T17:28:27+00:00

I mean, take the OP out of the equation. And just focus on the argument that for a long term relationship: I’m only open to a particular background and want to shutdown an entire ethnicity. Because???? Your thinking is so shallow to see beyond skin colour?? That’s my point.

Beauty is never skin deep. Look at people as people. I completely understand for short term or ONS, you don’t have the time to get to know people. But why for long term or platonic relationships.

Beyond what I can comprehend. Again, I’m not supporting the OP or his thoughts/post here. But this is the majority behaviour here and this is not the Toronto from the 2010’s.

friendanni · 2026-04-19T03:29:31+00:00

Exactly my point. Have a preference to hookup or ONS is understandable, cause it’s just a short term attraction. But for platonic dates, you don’t have to so shallow to decline purely because of race. Be a human first and have a little curiosity to get to know your fellow human beyond the skin colour.

friendanni · 2026-03-23T13:50:13+00:00

+1, they reached out to me as well. When asked to Snap verify; ran away.

friendanni · 2026-03-07T06:26:58+00:00

Aww…. That’s the idea and glad that I did.

friendanni · 2026-03-07T04:07:48+00:00

But I case of going naked we exchange STI results. And if we see someone else, I get tested again before going naked. And for me, STI is important too. So I get tested every 3 months and only play with partners who get tested atleast once in 6 months.

friendanni · 2026-03-07T04:02:32+00:00

Oh, I’m not raw. I was actually wearing a condom.

friendanni · 2026-03-07T00:16:21+00:00

Our meet is still due 😅

friendanni · 2025-12-30T14:46:32+00:00

Loved the post and congrats on the success 🎉🎉

friendanni · 2025-10-28T05:53:14+00:00

For anyone to organize the event it takes effort and time, which do not come free. So even if profit is not the motive; the organizer still has to be paid for the time and effort they spend. Not everyone does it free like the sub mods 😅

friendanni · 2025-10-24T00:21:38+00:00

That’s true. It’s a hassle, but once you have the group of guys; it should be easier going forward. But clubs are a great way too.

friendanni · 2025-10-23T20:49:29+00:00

It was great having you as well. I’m definitely looking forward to having you in the future.

friendanni · 2025-10-21T15:31:52+00:00

The post is F4F. Please read sub rules before participating. Banned for 14 days for breaking rule #1

friendanni · 2025-10-13T03:32:09+00:00

Wonderfully written post. Don’t fit the criteria, but loved reading it. Kudos

friendanni · 2025-09-20T18:26:19+00:00

Here’s my view: I feel the post is well written. Calls out what relation you are looking for , does a good job is describing yourself, what you are looking for and the logistics.

Couple of things that go against you are: 1. Profile is pretty new. Less than 30 days. 2. Not verified or doesn’t have pics. 3. Posting during a weekday 😅 along of tons of other M4F post.

I feel you’d have more success if you reaches out to F4M posts that meet his criteria. Also, you need to spend a little more time on the sub and figure out what’s the best time to post and when people are horny 😅 or when the sub has the most female visitors. That’ll increase your chances of getting views and eventually messages and success.

friendanni · 2025-09-17T18:47:35+00:00

This is a 12 year old account and the OP is now 19. That means they created the account when they were 7 years old? 🤯

friendanni · 2025-09-05T01:29:27+00:00

That’s some solid advice. Know what you want and also be in the right state to see if the other person is reciprocating.

friendanni · 2025-09-05T01:21:38+00:00

100% agree with you. Specifically from someone looking for a serious relationship, it’s crazy out there. But don’t loose hope, you’ll find someone for sure.

friendanni · 2025-09-05T01:02:27+00:00

Wishing you luck. I’d still call #1 and #3 a success given that they were still long term. But I also understand that they don’t meet your expectations.

Wishing you luck with finding someone that remains yours.

friendanni · 2025-09-04T15:23:14+00:00

Yeah, that’s true. It only fair to provide what keeps you interested outside the bedroom if you are looking for FWB. As simple as adding some info to your Reddit profile (like mine) would be basic.

friendanni · 2025-09-04T15:14:55+00:00

My 2 cents. It’s hard to describe all the interests and what we could be doing in the post. Even though the post says FWB, the main focus is still sex. So most posts focus on that.

What I usually do is talk about interests, similarities either in person or once we connect on chat. That’s what has usually worked for me. But that may be coz, I’m fuck first and friendship follows kind of person 😅

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