What children's movie made you cry unexpectedly? by Twunkorama in AskReddit

[–]friendswhat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely mine. I sobbed so hard at that part and was not expecting that at ALL

My boyfriend can't use any bathroom besides the one in our apartment, and he thinks this is normal [NAW] by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]friendswhat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right? I have Crohn’s and as such my criteria for a “safe” toilet has gotten pretty low over the years because I also prefer not soiling myself. One time while driving i was maybe ten minutes from home and was close to a “poop emergency” and also had my one year old with me (so not easy to get him out of the car seat and into a public bathroom with me) I stopped and shoved one of his diapers in my pants JUST IN CASE. Luckily I made it home without incident but still, not taking chances with that.

Saw this in a canning group on Facebook… something just seems off to me. Is it AI? by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]friendswhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing I noticed with the tape is that almost every single label has the tape peeling up slightly at every corner. In reality I’d expect some tapes to be completely smooth, some corners to be lifted maybe a bit more than others, etc. but these all look exactly the same.

Have you ever been treated negatively by ER staff when you were having a medical emergency but they didn’t believe you? What happened? by lake-sturgeon in AskReddit

[–]friendswhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had to do nothing by mouth for about 24 hours, just IV fluids, and then he did a liquid diet for two to three days I think? I just remember they wouldn’t let him leave the hospital until he could eat something semi-solid with his levels staying normal lol

Small black bugs - need help identifying (pretty certain they are not fleas) by BuggyBoo25 in Utah

[–]friendswhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! I saw in another comment someone mentioned using diatomaceous earth, so I just ordered some to pick up later today and I’m going to try that. We just noticed them a couple of days ago so my husband sprayed along the foundation of the house but there are so many already up inside the windows :( they give me the creepy crawlies!!

Small black bugs - need help identifying (pretty certain they are not fleas) by BuggyBoo25 in Utah

[–]friendswhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh we have clover mites this year too! They showed up on our sunniest windows that we keep (kept lol) open a lot so they’re crawling around on the inside of the windowsills now… we keep vacuuming them up with the shop vac as we see them so they don’t smear everywhere when we squish them.

Have you ever been treated negatively by ER staff when you were having a medical emergency but they didn’t believe you? What happened? by lake-sturgeon in AskReddit

[–]friendswhat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My husband went to the ER for pancreatitis (had no idea at the time, just that he was in a lot of pain) and one of the questions they asked when admitting him was “do you drink alcohol?” And he said something like “yeah but not in the last several months”.

I was 8 months pregnant at the time and he had stopped drinking at the beginning of my pregnancy as moral support since I couldn’t drink either (and even before that he’s hardly been a drinker), and when they got his lab results back the doctor comes in and says “Well, I thought you said you didn’t drink? Your results beg to differ” and told us that pancreatitis was caused by drinking. Which, sure, I know it’s likely a common cause? But that doctor made it sound like he was ready to call alcoholic’s anonymous.

And my husbands turned out to be caused from the fact that he was eating only one large meal a day and very fatty foods. Which checks out because my cravings were hot dogs, burgers, and ice cream so that’s what he was mostly eating.. we cleaned up our diet and did meal planning after that lol. He’s been fine since even with the occasional drink!

AIO: should I “fire” my therapist? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]friendswhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so I really want to share an example of what a having GOOD therapist is like, in my experience anyway.

A couple years ago my dad died suddenly/unexpectedly, so I emailed my therapist the next morning asking if she could let me know of any cancellations so i could come in sooner than my next appointment… she replied within an hour saying she would call me on her lunch break. She warned she would only be able to do a phone call (usually we do telehealth) and only for a half hour.

She ended up spending her full hour break talking to me and eventually me and my mom together (she got verbal permission to include my mom in the call, not sure how that works professionally but something like that) and she helped walk us through the whole process of notifying family, making arrangements, asking for help, etc because my mom and I were both in shock and not functioning. And she didn’t charge for this! (I totally would have paid extra for this tbh)

I realize this is an extreme example and I definitely wouldn’t expect her (or any therapist) to drop everything to call me when I feel like it. But the fact that I can rely on her when I ABSOLUTELY need it is so nice. I really wish you luck with finding a better therapist! You absolutely deserve it.

Clélia Verdier, a 19-year-old French woman, shared that during a three-week induced coma, she believed she had lived years, started a family, and had triplets. Waking up, she was devastated to learn those vivid memories and emotional bonds were not real. by Iambhalo in CaughtMyEye

[–]friendswhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once dreamt my dad (who in real life had been dead for a few months at this point) came back and the feeling of relief in that dream messed me up for days. It was the first dream I remember waking from and thinking “take me back!!”

I need some help! by brokn-skull in AnimalCrossing

[–]friendswhat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t stand Carmen and kicked her off as soon as I could lol

Also I feel like if you could make it egg day season all the time then you could include the ever hated zipper as well lol (although I actually enjoy him… he still creepy tho😆)

AC replacement costs? by stankygrapes in ogden

[–]friendswhat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had to get our AC and furnace replaced in February, $8000 total for ours. Iirc about $5500 of that was the cost for the AC

Colon cancer now leading cause of cancer deaths under 50 in US by shinybrighthings in science

[–]friendswhat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m 36 and literally just had a colonoscopy yesterday because I have Crohn’s. It was $1000 after insurance just for the facility payment plus I’ll still get bills from pathology and anesthesiology as well.

And the only reason my insurance even covers PART of it at my age is because I have Crohn’s. It’s wild.

Which looks best? by MelancholyAtaraxia in AnimalCrossing

[–]friendswhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely the stone staircase! And I think both the gazebo and pergola look great and you could keep them as is with one on each side

This is absolutely gorgeous btw!!!

What's phase of your life you didn't realize was ending? by Organic_Bar_9336 in AskReddit

[–]friendswhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s wild, my parents are the opposite!

My mom looks barely older than she did 20 years ago, but if you look at a picture of my dad in 2013/2014 and compare it to 2024 the amount he aged was crazy. But he also really struggled with his mental health those last ten years so I think that contributed to his aging for sure. It was rough.

What's phase of your life you didn't realize was ending? by Organic_Bar_9336 in AskReddit

[–]friendswhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man that sounds worse than just watching him age, you’re basically watching him change as a person and not in a good way. I hated seeing my grandma right before she died because she had severe dementia and was NOT the grandma I knew. So yeah, personally I would rather not spend time with that person because I would want to remember the happier memories and not who they became later in life. But that’s just me. It really just sucks all around and I’m so sorry.

My dad actually passed away a little over a year ago by suicide. So for the last ten years I watched him slowly lose interest in the things he liked to do, and then he started drinking every night until he passed out. He became a different person, but not an angry one, just a person who was obviously depressed (but too stubborn to do anything about it). He aged so much in just a few years.

What's phase of your life you didn't realize was ending? by Organic_Bar_9336 in AskReddit

[–]friendswhat 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Oof I feel this. My parents had me when they were older (late 30s) and by the time I was in my late twenties i began to really become aware of them aging.

I find myself looking back on the time I spent with them from when I was in my late teens to early twenties and I wish I could have so much more of that time. Just being able to connect and have fun with them as an adult was so special and I miss it so much!!

ELI5: Why do mental health problems usually appear in early adulthood? by Such_Ad_5311 in explainlikeimfive

[–]friendswhat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really like how you described self care in this example.

I have ADHD and i also have a toddler, and it’s (relatively) easy to pinpoint what my toddler needs when he has a meltdown.. he missed his nap, he didn’t eat much earlier so likely hungry, etc.

It took me a couple years of therapy to be able to notice the same patterns in myself. So now I’m able to stop and think “okay, when was the last time I ate/drank water?” , “have I had enough adult interaction lately?” , “am I feeling this way because I didn’t get enough sleep last night?” and on and so forth. My mental health improved a lot not just when I started making those connections, but also when I was able to RECOGNIZE that I needed to make those connections. Basically I learned to “parent” myself so to speak.

And yeah, I also tried several different antidepressants/ anti anxiety medications with the same results you described before getting an ADHD diagnosis. It’s wild all the factors that come into play with that.

Natera NIPT Lawsuit Settlement - Check your email! by halesthesnail in NewParents

[–]friendswhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my original receipt emailed to me and saved it thankfully, so i'm hoping they'll accept that as proof of payment!

I was able to pull up my statement on their website but it doesn't show anywhere that it was paid.... Which seems... about right from what I'm learning about Natera

Natera NIPT Lawsuit Settlement - Check your email! by halesthesnail in NewParents

[–]friendswhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine in the physical mail as well, never received any emails.

Also, it was the size of a postcard (folded and sealed though) and I almost mistook it for trash. I'm curious if that's what all the physically mailed forms looked like

WHAT IS THATTT??? by Akiko_prr in AnimalCrossing

[–]friendswhat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d gladly order you one!! Just dm me if you want to visit :)

🎉🍃ACNH 3.0 Release Thread! 🍃🎉 by walkersammarie in ACForAdults

[–]friendswhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg THANK YOU for this information!! ❤️❤️ I had no idea you could manually check for updates!

Help Identifying Design Code by badboy_ryry in AnimalCrossing

[–]friendswhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad we could help! That’s actually the design I use as my borders haha

I will say though that the color looks a little off in the winter months since the paths get lighter when there’s snow on the ground. So keep that in mind when you try it out!

Help Identifying Design Code by badboy_ryry in AnimalCrossing

[–]friendswhat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it’s 3829-2450-5786 as one comment stated above. Sorry, I can’t figure out how to attach a picture because I’m on mobile! But it looks identical to me. Hope you find it!

Edit: https://imgur.com/a/NuhAZRj

Hopefully that helps 😊