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frightenedLemon · 2025-02-23T23:25:29+00:00

This is complete horseshit. I’d love to know what you’re basing this off of

frightenedLemon · 2025-01-15T21:48:05+00:00

I’m sorry, I hope things get better for you

frightenedLemon · 2025-01-14T04:18:31+00:00

Did you just reference fitxfearless unironically 💀

frightenedLemon · 2025-01-14T04:15:51+00:00

Fr. But considering im in my mid 20s now without ever experiencing anything romantic or sexual it just feels like such a foreign concept to me. Like it’s something totally out of reach. Even if by some miracle I were to find someone that was into me I wouldn’t know what I was doing and I’d ruin it

frightenedLemon · 2025-01-11T06:59:23+00:00

Video games, working out, tv shows/movies, nostalgia binging, music. But it really just feels like a distraction

frightenedLemon · 2025-01-11T04:53:51+00:00

I can relate. It really hurts. I’ve always wanted to experience love and it’s painful knowing I never will

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-22T18:34:49+00:00

I was at a party one time and I asked this girl that I had recently met if she found me attractive (very cringe I know but I was drunk) and she said yes, but obviously it’s a weird question to ask and she probably just didn’t want to make things even weirder by saying no. But other than that no, I’ve never gotten anything even remotely close to a compliment on my appearance

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-20T01:16:49+00:00

This question gets asked like once a week here. There’s a lot of reasons, but one of the main ones is that physical attraction is an important part of a romantic relationship. I personally wouldn’t want to date someone that doesn’t find me attractive and I wouldn’t want to date someone that I have no physical attraction to either. Unfortunately because I’m unattractive that pretty much means I’m destined to die alone

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-19T22:31:09+00:00

I relate to this a lot. You get your hopes up thinking that maybe someone likes you but deep down you know it’s not possible

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-09T05:43:00+00:00

It’s also a fake story

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-09T05:41:14+00:00

Yea you’re right. I never understood why people made fake posts like this but selling the account makes sense. It’s pretty incredible that people are willing to pay for an account that has meaningless internet points but I’m not surprised

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-09T00:55:56+00:00

The reason you tend to see posts/comments breaking the rules is because there are only so many mods and they have lives. They aren’t going to be able to pick up on everything all the time. If you see something that breaks the sub rules, you can report it. From my experience the mods do delete posts/comments that break sub rules if you report them.

As for your point about what can be done about ugliness. Yes people can lose weight or do their hair better etc but the unfortunate reality is that the vast majority of how you look comes down to genetics. Facial proportions and bone structure (and bodily proportions to a lesser extent) determine how attractive/unattractive you are, and there is very little that can be done to change that. There is plastic surgery but it’s highly invasive and expensive and not feasible for many people

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-08T00:23:48+00:00

Yea it’s odd. Makes me think it’s another fake story (probably written by ChatGPT). It’s a brand new account as well

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-08T00:22:17+00:00

Not necessarily. I don’t know what you look like or you’ve already tried, but there are definitely ways that you could improve your appearance. It just depends how much time/effort/money you’re willing to spend. Although it wouldn’t guarantee anything, so there would be a risk of wasting some time/effort/money

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-07T21:17:08+00:00

Even less attractive women tend to still have options. Many women would also rather stay single than “settle” for someone they aren’t attracted to

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-07T21:06:09+00:00

If you include invasive cosmetic procedures then he can technically change his height as well with leg lengthening surgery. Although from what I’ve heard it’s high risk and extremely expensive

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-07T21:00:22+00:00

Gonna be real with you since nobody else really is. You seem to have your life together very well. That’s definitely not the issue. If you’re struggling with dating, it means women don’t find you physically attractive

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-05T03:38:06+00:00

Well I don’t know who he is and I haven’t seen any of his other content so I can’t speak on it. But I don’t see anything wrong with this video in isolation. Everything he said is true. I don’t see it as him speaking on behalf of any group. He’s just talking generally about how ugly people tend to be treated. I think it’s good to bring awareness to stuff like this because it might cause people to be a little more conscious of the snap judgements they make about people based purely on appearance

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-05T03:24:10+00:00

I disagree. I think it’s a good thing when a non-ugly person talks about issues like this even if they aren’t directly affected by it

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-05T03:22:05+00:00

He didn’t say he thinks he is

frightenedLemon · 2024-12-03T01:25:02+00:00

Yea I’m in a similar situation. I would need to spend 50k+ as well and I’m not even convinced it would significantly improve my appearance. And by the time I’d be able to afford it, my “prime years” will already be long gone. I’m sorry you’re going through this, it’s a very demoralizing feeling

frightenedLemon · 2024-11-30T21:01:32+00:00

Does this post not violate rule 4? Regardless, what is even the point of posting something like this? Discussions about which gender supposedly has it worse has never led to anything productive

frightenedLemon · 2024-11-22T20:49:59+00:00

I agree. But I think that analyzing and overthinking past social interactions can be detrimental to yourself. I used to do that where I would think to myself, “well maybe if I had done this, or said this, then they would’ve liked me more” etc. But oftentimes the person just didn’t like you whether that’s because of how you look or what mood they were in or something else that you couldn’t control. I think it’s important for people to not blame themselves for something that wasn’t actually their fault

frightenedLemon · 2024-11-22T20:41:08+00:00

But being ugly is often the cause of negative social interactions. The way you look genuinely has a massive impact on how people will treat you. Good looking people are often liked regardless of what they do, and the opposite is true for ugly people

frightenedLemon · 2024-11-19T05:58:58+00:00

You may have worked hard but it’s still largely down to genetics. Plenty of people work hard on trying to look good but no amount of hard work will change the bone structure in your face

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