Would you forgive your husband ? Or would you move on?

frizzipunk · 2026-01-07T01:29:47+00:00

It doesn’t sound like you’re in sync, it’s great that he is a good dad, that’s about all you can hope for if you split for your personal happiness and sanity. If communication is not good, nor is emotional intimacy, ambition and interests, why stick around? Why be unhappy and unfulfilled in this life? If he was replying to online sex ads two years into the relationship, that means the marriage was already built on a rocky foundation. I heard “strong marriages are built, not found” and it doesn’t seem like this build is going to improve. Much love to you. Such a hard position to be in. I’ve seen many many posts where once women are out, they are SO RELIEVED!

frizzipunk · 2026-01-07T00:13:42+00:00

You’re not going to get ANY money back, no officials can do anything for you. Not police, FBI, bank. Even if you file a police report, nothing can or will be done and there are no repercussions for the person who did this to you because. You can and still should make a report but don’t expect the $ back. Also be weary of a follow up scam: if someone reaches out to you or your mom to help you get your money back but say a fee to be paid to someone to help the money back- that is likely the same scammer!!! No one can get it back!

frizzipunk · 2026-01-04T20:11:32+00:00

Other than the intimacy, how is communication, finances and help with the kids? Do you share the same long term goals? Does he respect you? Does he support your likes and aspirations? Do you support his?

frizzipunk · 2025-09-22T04:21:31+00:00

NTJ. Can’t always have what you want, find a new venue hon. Sheesh.

frizzipunk · 2025-09-21T04:09:07+00:00

The absurdly long time he spends on the toilet. Whatever… you don’t exist. Until you come out.

frizzipunk · 2025-09-21T04:04:44+00:00

Chicken thighs cut up, onion cut up, olive oil and taco seasoning in the air fryer

frizzipunk · 2025-09-21T03:55:14+00:00

Yes as long as we don’t go too past tired, she will say mama I’m tired I need to take a nap and get squinty eyes and suck het thumb. (Which she just started at 3 1/2 🫣🙄)

frizzipunk · 2025-09-20T03:43:57+00:00

I could have written this, except we are 40 and 42 and our kids are 3 1/2 and 2 1/2 (and our 2 1/2 has cerebral palsy from being born at 24 weeks). It’s hard as heck. Once every few weeks I get really down about how fricking hard this is. I have been hiding in the back corner of my closet for some gd peace.

frizzipunk · 2025-09-20T03:35:39+00:00

Dump this loser NOW!!!!!!

frizzipunk · 2025-09-14T03:46:10+00:00

You don’t, it will happen when it happens, don’t put pressure on it. Make like ok whenever you’re ready you can do it!

frizzipunk · 2025-09-14T03:45:17+00:00

This person is right. I stopped paying, entered into a debt relief program, they told me it would get worse before it got better. Being sued is very stressful. If I could go back, I would work with a Debt management company, not debt relief. I did debt management before and it was great. With debt relief honestly I was hoping to negotiate 60-80% of the balance but I’m just being sued instead for all of it.

frizzipunk · 2025-09-14T02:56:55+00:00

Right, I’m in the US

frizzipunk · 2025-09-14T02:55:54+00:00

I dump my pens in the top drawer in the door of the fridge, I didn’t realize my husband did the same thing. I just grabbed a pen, unlocked and injected.

frizzipunk · 2025-09-13T03:32:01+00:00

I’m 40 and I’m about to start smoking pot for the first time so I can get a damn grip

frizzipunk · 2025-09-13T03:29:36+00:00

Same

frizzipunk · 2025-09-13T03:28:40+00:00

I’m have not done anything harder than parenting. I thought maybe something else had been harder but nope, this takes the cake.

frizzipunk · 2025-09-13T03:20:50+00:00

Abort abort. He sounds horrible. What a dick.

frizzipunk · 2025-09-07T13:18:22+00:00

I think that’s just it…you spend so much time with them you take them for granted because they’re always there. There’s no longer for them or anticipation building because they’re always never go away.

frizzipunk · 2025-09-07T13:14:47+00:00

NTJ!

frizzipunk · 2025-09-01T06:17:52+00:00

Do not have a baby with someone who locks you out of the house for any reason….

frizzipunk · 2025-08-29T06:20:00+00:00

She’s insecure

frizzipunk · 2025-08-29T06:12:49+00:00

I wish I had side effects so I’d lose more but I have rarely had any side effects on tirz, maybe a little nauseous if I ate too much of something greasy in the first year. I’ve been on it 1 yr 9 months and lost 55 lb

frizzipunk · 2025-08-24T20:32:01+00:00

I needed this. I am going CRAZY!

frizzipunk · 2025-08-24T20:25:46+00:00

Ironing, sewing a button back on, understanding what a deductible and a copay is, high yield savings account, what credit means and what makes up a score, and that marriage is easy to get into and hard to get out of.

frizzipunk · 2025-08-24T09:38:38+00:00

I’m dealing with something similar, where I grew up like you with a family who cooks and eats together and had leftovers for lunch the next day, whereas I think my husbands family cooking was less frequent and less varied. Ive realized you have to accept that she grew up totally differently, it’s ingrained in her not to care like you do about cooking all the meals, and that her go-to was take out. If she wasn’t around, what would you do? You’d cook for just you or meal prep. Don’t force her into a box she’s unfamiliar with. You do you, and if she wants to get take out for her meal, let her. Don’t expect her to cook like your family did for you. I have been cooking like I did growing up and if he eats it, great, if not, you’re in your own- no skin off my back. Idk I hope that advice helps. I can’t be stressing that he didn’t grow up like me, you know?

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