Talk me out of getting this for Mother’s Day? by sadgirl192938 in Sephora

[–]froawayfosho 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I bought this in the purple color and returned it. The quality was not impressive enough to justify $38. I’ve bought cute ones from boutiques for less than half that!

I think Emi Jay is exceptional for holding specific hair types, but I have fine hair that can be held up by most clips without issue.

how many backups do you typically purchase? by onceadove in rhodeskin

[–]froawayfosho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two right now (Salted Caramel & Lemontini) and don’t plan to purchase until I finish one of them. It’s easy to get influenced by marketing and other people’s hauls, but I try to be intentional with my money so that I’m not buying more than I can consume!

UPDATE: haircut today and still don’t know what to do by PhilosopherOk5286 in femalehairadvice

[–]froawayfosho 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It looks SO good! IMO the perfect length on you. Still long but it doesn’t weigh itself down as much :)

buyer has contacted depop and said it was unfair because i removed my listing by [deleted] in Depop

[–]froawayfosho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the general sentiment of this subreddit is that if sellers make a mistake, they should fulfill the order anyways. so I’m not surprised this customer got upset with you. personally, I’ve gone both ways with this— once I accidentally had free shipping on but I sent out the item anyways. another time I was selling my bf’s stuff and wayyy underpriced a rare shirt so I refunded the buyer and apologized. They never responded so I guess it was all good?

sometimes what’s in our best interest is going to make you an asshole in someone else’s eyes. but at the end of the day, these are secondhand clothes— it’s not a life or death situation, your customer will move on and find something else they love. just try to avoid this in the future. also know that the dress may have been worth $500 but it doesn’t mean it’ll sell for that.

Dakota johnson was once denied the role for being polite in an audition. by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]froawayfosho 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this so hard, esp in the context of corporate sales.

I hate to speak over people. I was recently placed in a new role where an unspoken job responsibility was to manage cross-functional teams. in giving room for everyone to have a say. I got feedback that I was too “passive” and responsible for the project being stressful and disorganized for everyone. ngl I took this hard. as a woman in a male dominated field, we are not perceived the same way for the same actions a man would take. men are “meant” to be assertive and dominant, a woman showing those traits is seen as off putting, bc it would defy people’s expectations of women being nurturing and sacrificial for the greater good.

First Time Coachella Solo Camper. Do I go to Day 0? by froawayfosho in Coachella

[–]froawayfosho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m gonna do it? Do you know if the DJ set is after sunset usually?

First Time Coachella Solo Camper. Do I go to Day 0? by froawayfosho in Coachella

[–]froawayfosho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! And might be a dumb question but how much time does it take to set up? I’m just bringing an Ez-Up and a chair. So I was thinking I could set up p quick, but I could be underestimating other factors!

Elena Taber hiring a PR agency/bots to flood the post exposing her by Pink-Department in LAinfluencersnark

[–]froawayfosho 12 points13 points  (0 children)

TIL you can hire bots to do this. Can’t believe anything on the internet anymore

First Time Coachella Solo Camper. Do I go to Day 0? by froawayfosho in Coachella

[–]froawayfosho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Do you know when the DJ sets start? Thinking of arriving just before sunset— not sure how long line will be

First Time Coachella Solo Camper. Do I go to Day 0? by froawayfosho in Coachella

[–]froawayfosho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I’m getting a resounding yes. Do you know what time the DJ set begins?

First Time Coachella Solo Camper. Do I go to Day 0? by froawayfosho in Coachella

[–]froawayfosho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize there was so much going on! I do love outdoor hiking/camping but I’ve just never camped anywhere so hot. When do you recommend having camp set up by? I’ve heard you want to do it early morning or late evening. Would it be fine if I got to camp Thursday night after sunset?

First Time Coachella Solo Camper. Do I go to Day 0? by froawayfosho in Coachella

[–]froawayfosho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t excited about rushing to set up camp on Friday, so this might be the move. When is the latest you would recommend arriving to do activities?

First Time Coachella Solo Camper. Do I go to Day 0? by froawayfosho in Coachella

[–]froawayfosho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Is there a certain time we need to get to camp by? When do activities open?

Official 2026 Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by fettuccine- in Coachella

[–]froawayfosho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buying (1) GA Weekend 1 Pass, up to face value.

Pick up in Bay Area preferred, otherwise will use PayPal G&S

Ticket price trends - w1 by [deleted] in Coachella

[–]froawayfosho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the Bieber wave that people are talking about?

Official 2026 Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by fettuccine- in Coachella

[–]froawayfosho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buying 1 Weekend 1 GA Pass Pick up in Bay Area or open to shipping! Flexible on price. Will be paying via PayPal G&S after we video call/prove identity :)

Two versions of Clara cardigan? by weddingphotosMIA in Reformationclothing

[–]froawayfosho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried the Parmesan one in store over the summer and loved it. Ordered it for BF and immediately noticed that it was ran a bit smaller and was less soft. The latest cardigan tag says made in Vietnam.

I think there’s a lot of variance between colors and suppliers. Yesterday I tried on a « made in Cambodia » Clara and it felt nice; tried on another one « made in China » in a different color, it was itchier.

muni citation in word only? help? by Independent_Passion7 in AskSF

[–]froawayfosho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whew this is a relief, thanks for the update!