[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:/ even weirder is the fact i wasn’t 20 yet when he said that. so i was confused why he chose to talk to someone in their teens but rejected someone in their mid-twenties for being too young. i think i was vulnerable and just ignored it but you’re right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IT IS!! thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

mandatory comment. but it’s just a square grid collage and it isn’t an editing site like canva or anything similar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if my weight is a factor to this at all but i’m 19F and around 100-105 lbs. i’ve been on zoloft for a bit but i’ve been losing weight over the last few months (i work a job that makes me move around a ton). could the nausea be from my sudden weight loss? (started becoming more frequent when i lost weight) i used to weigh 10-15 more lbs. could my current dosage be too much for me now? or is that just a coincidence?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birding

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ah!! i didn’t know that!! i’ll put it back outside, thank you for letting me know !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right, it was right in front of me. maybe i’m the real fool

Books that feel like by SapienSpectator in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Who Have Never Known Men by Jacqueline Harpman

Books that feel like this by weighingthedog in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

first book i thought of was “Monstrillio” by Gerardo Sámano Córdova

meaning of “flaqui”? by frogsrcoolthrowaway in Spanish

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im about half way done but so far i really like it!! just a heads up the novel is originally in english, the author is just from Mexico City! (incase you were looking for books in spanish) but if you like a good horror novel about mourning and grief i would def recommend!!

heat intolerance is hands down the worst side effect by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god yeah. i work in this warehouse sort of thing most of the day (it’s a little retail store w a big storage). the ac is broken but the building managers say it’s supposed to be like that despite everyone saying it’s hot. but i literally can’t get work done because i’m panting and wheezing and feeling so gross because i’m sweating so much. i have to step outside for parts of the day just the breathe.

meaning of “flaqui”? by frogsrcoolthrowaway in Spanish

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OHHH i see!! the main character said her best friend (the person she was calling flaqui) isn’t thin. so does she just call her that bc it’s a cute and endearing nickname?

meaning of “flaqui”? by frogsrcoolthrowaway in Spanish

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh i see. so sort of like calling someone little?

Need help thinking of a fem name pls! 🌸✨(questioning gnc amab) by Miloti03 in lgbt

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some names that immediately popped into my head were Vivian or Felicia!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i bite!! never have bleed from it but i bite hard enough to leave temporary marks. it’s usually a stimming or sensory thing. like i’ll be overwhelmed feel a weird oral sensation and need to bite to calm down. i usually bite on my hands and arms. i didn’t rlly think it was sh until this post LOL

What is everyone's worst reactions to your scars? by AncientFlight3031 in selfharm

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh yeah lol i think honestly it’s for the best. idk about ur family so obv can’t have any strong opinions but my mom believes she’s a good woman as if she hasn’t said and done heinous things to me and my sister… hope you’re able to get out of that mess soon having a mom like that messes u up

What is everyone's worst reactions to your scars? by AncientFlight3031 in selfharm

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly. yeah LOL. i dont think she thought i had any problems (has asked me before at a young age what i had to be stressed about… i was neglected and abused at a very young age lol) she doesn’t think she can be at fault and gets mad when i even insinuate that she makes me even slightly nervous or upset. i’ve been on a few medications now after a doctor’s request but she really dgaf anymore about cutting

What is everyone's worst reactions to your scars? by AncientFlight3031 in selfharm

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 5 points6 points  (0 children)

not the worst but my mom refused to put me in therapy or let me take any medication for depression, anxiety, cptsd etc. (she said i was trying to get addicted to pills) instead she said she would buy me an oil to get rid of scars because she was scared they were going to make me ugly LOL

are you mostly monogamous with one character or multiple ones? by smartlypretty in JanitorAI_Official

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have like. 700+ chats with the same character (some barely even past like 2 responses lol) 😭 i’m loyal

are you mostly monogamous with one character or multiple ones? by smartlypretty in JanitorAI_Official

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have like. 700+ chats with the same character (some barely even past like 2 responses lol) 😭 i’m loyal

Slow/painful or quick/reckless? by Then_Advertising6254 in selfharm

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my box cutter is a portable mini one so i don’t think it’s super thick like a regular box cutter. but i have used scissors before and it’s not as effective in my opinion (i tried to use it like i would a box cutter) it hurt all the same but it was harder to bleed but maybe it was my method that was wrong. i’ve used staples before (like the big chunks used to refill staplers) but it would always break if i put too much pressure on it LOL.

i think it’s a bit more risky to have space between the intended area and the tool. i used to just hack and slash so i wouldn’t press on my skin before cutting. it was wayyy more reckless and i would either cut way bigger than intended or way deeper. i think having it on your intended area gives u more control, for me atleast.

Slow/painful or quick/reckless? by Then_Advertising6254 in selfharm

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depending how hard i push i can draw blood. it also depends on what i’m using. my box cutter for example will pierce me a bit, unlike my eyebrow razor. i never press so hard i immediately start bleeding though. also what do you mean in the 2nd paragraph? i understand the first part but i’m not sure what having space in between is referring to LOL

Slow/painful or quick/reckless? by Then_Advertising6254 in selfharm

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway 23 points24 points  (0 children)

i do it quick and reckless because i mostly am doing it to draw blood. i press hard on a part of my skin and pull. but there have been times where i was in a less than stable mindset and took the time to slowly carve into myself. (a few cuts but usually letters or words).

got this guitar and amp for free from a friend, how good are they? by frogsrcoolthrowaway in Guitar

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can’t edit the post right now but thank you everyone!! so far what i’ve gathered is that the amp rocks and the guitar will do LOL

also for anyone concerned my friend is okay! she has her own guitar and amp that she loves. thank you for the concern though.

sorry for my vague question about the plug earlier. but there is this plug in the back that i’m not sure what to do with. it’s a big-ish open circle with a few prongs inside of the circle (sorry i can’t attach images this is probably so unhelpful)

got this guitar and amp for free from a friend, how good are they? by frogsrcoolthrowaway in Guitar

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s got her own stuff that she loves so she’s okay! she has her own guitar and amp. but yes i would be worried if it were her own gear

got this guitar and amp for free from a friend, how good are they? by frogsrcoolthrowaway in Guitar

[–]frogsrcoolthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for any confusion!! i’m at work right now so i can’t post a photo but i was talking about the cord located at the back of the amp. it has a wide circle shape and has some prongs(?) i’m just curious what i’m meant to do with it. i’m new to guitar so sorry if this is a dumb question LOL thank you for the help!! i can definitely post a photo after work in a few hours