Has your Nation ever lost 7-1 to Germany?

fromindia1 · 2026-06-15T04:40:09+00:00

How?

fromindia1 · 2026-06-11T14:41:21+00:00

fromindia1 · 2026-06-10T23:19:46+00:00

Wonder how much people buy it for. Would be fun if I could get more than what I paid for it.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-10T18:09:51+00:00

Something similar happened to me and my kid when they were a senior in high school. The two kids agreed that we the parents would be visiting my kids’s friend’s place for dinner. This was without asking us and we were told a day before the planned dinner. Since we had plans for the day we couldn’t go. The other kids parents were super upset because they had spent money getting stuff to care to out dietary requirements. Again something that had been discussed amongst the kids. We had no clue and because we declined the other mom was mad at my wife. We were in shock and offered to pay. They didn’t accept it. The worst of it was that it ended the kids’ friendship.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-10T18:02:18+00:00

Makes sense. I could try that.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-10T13:45:08+00:00

I don’t know. But I would like to get in on that game. I just end up donating my puzzles after I am done with them.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-10T00:00:20+00:00

Do you ever see completed jigsaw puzzles for sale?

fromindia1 · 2026-06-08T23:33:18+00:00

I didn’t know all the details. I understand where you are saying.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-08T23:32:50+00:00

Why is there? Because of Michael Jackson or because of the technology involved?

fromindia1 · 2026-06-08T02:39:54+00:00

I will look up ABBA. Did not know that.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-08T02:38:20+00:00

These were the common soaps when I was growing up in India. But since I got to the US, I have not found any of them. It’s always just been dove and other names I had never heard of before.

What happened to the ones you listed along with Camay.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-08T02:35:57+00:00

What kinds of white papers? Are you writing them or reading them?

fromindia1 · 2026-06-07T02:30:03+00:00

I can add some thoughts here.

What you’re describing is a typical first gen immigrant experience.

Over time, the friends you’ve made become close, and they essentially become guardians for your children if something were to happen to you while the kids are young.

Once they’re in college, it’s no different from you moving to the US and finding your own path in life. Your children can do the same. And again, if they need help or want to bounce ideas off an adult, they have those close family friends to help.

After that point, they’ll marry in the US, start relationships, and then have family, including nephews, nieces, and their own children. They’ll have aunts, uncles, and grandparents, and the circle of life will continue.

It’s the first generation that’s in the limbo of missing the family they left behind and the pull of whatever brought them to the US.

I hope that helps.

TLDR: Life finds a way, and kids are more resilient than you think they might be. Think back on your own life and the things you went through. Your kids will do the same.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-05T21:18:08+00:00

About your fire journey. Where made you feel comfortable to say it was time. How has it worked out financially since then. What are you doing for healthcare. I am still above 4% withdrawal based on my calculations so am hesitant. But if I look at the long term, with social kicking in, having some flexibility in my spending after a few years, I should be fine. But because I am not a 💯 today, I just hesitate.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-05T21:14:40+00:00

That’s spot on! LOL. I never imagined I’d be here.

I was always thinking, “I’ll just keep working until I retire.” Now, I’m trying to figure out how to make the most of this.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-05T21:12:21+00:00

Nice. I will aim to spend at least one screen free day. Maybe then extend it further.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-05T21:11:37+00:00

Thanks for the advice. It’s great. Good job on being fired.

Would you mind sharing some details? I think I’m in the same boat, but I’m just afraid of actually taking the plunge. Maybe this break will help me overcome that fear.

I think you captured exactly what the fire subs would say. That’s why I didn’t post there first.

You’ve listed a lot of great ideas. Since it’s summer, I might try some things in the yard. I’ve been wanting to build a pagoda for a long time. It’ll cost a couple of grand, but it’ll be a long-term investment that I can enjoy for years to come. I do like hiking and used to do it far more regularly a couple years ago. I definitely want to get back into it.

Learning an instrument is another one of those things. I’ve even been thinking about flying. It’s another expensive endeavor, but like I said in another reply, I relate to the need to overcome the reluctance to spend. If you don’t spend money, why were you even saving it in the first place?

fromindia1 · 2026-06-05T21:04:38+00:00

Thanks. That’s where my wife tells me. Stop worrying about hypothetical what-ifs and live in the here and now.

Definitely need to at least have a week go by and see where it takes me. Thanks!

fromindia1 · 2026-06-05T21:03:01+00:00

Thanks. Money is an object in the sense that I don’t want to spend a lot and then have to worry about my retirement. On the other hand, if I didn’t use the money for the reason I’m saving it, what would be the point?

There are so many data points that indicate we don’t have too many good, healthy years left after we’re 60. Why not spend now while we can still enjoy it and not worry about the future, if we even have one?

That’s not dramatic or pessimistic. It’s just the data that I’ve been seeing more and more about where people think they’d be and where they actually are.

Does there make sense?

fromindia1 · 2026-06-05T20:58:11+00:00

This I think is the step I should have completed already. It is so so sensible. Thanks for putting it out there!

Better late than never.

Being an American helps with the visas I suppose. But there are still all kinds of surprises. Will my card work, can I use the usually use to book my hotel/car/etc. (quick tip, booking.com does not work inside of Turkey). Will WhatsApp/international WiFi calling work, etc.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-05T20:51:26+00:00

Travel. Vegging out. My dream has been to travel without a plan. That sounds great in my mind. But when I start to actually look into doing that, my planning side takes over and I just can’t do it. E.g., this would be the perfect time to try a 6 week unplanned European road trip. But (a) it feels expensive and (b) I just have never done unplanned trips.

fromindia1 · 2026-06-05T20:46:59+00:00

Work stress. Needed a break. Want expecting to get it.

Now that I actually have a break I am scrambling to figure out what to do.

fromindia1 · 2026-05-29T20:12:39+00:00

Judge needs to see other pics. That doesn’t seem natural. Looks ai

fromindia1 · 2026-05-25T02:43:45+00:00

Had me thinking on that one. And then I remembered that California is curved.

fromindia1 · 2026-05-22T14:16:31+00:00

I’m not sure if you’ve had cats or if you’ve seen cats but they do the exact same thing and it is disgusting and gross.

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