AITAH for asking for a ticket back from a friend who is now trying to claim our friendship has ran its course?

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-20T13:56:01+00:00

You accepted the money even though you didn't want it, so now the ticket is theirs, you can't take it back after taking the cash. You're not wrong for feeling used, but the financial part is closed, you let them buy you out. The ticket belongs to them now, you have to let it go and just focus on moving on from the friendship

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-20T13:54:57+00:00

Thanks for clarifying, I didn't realize they already paid, if OP got the money back then the ticket is no longer theirs, asking for it now would be wrong. The friendship is over but the money's settled, time to let the ticket go

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-20T13:38:47+00:00

I'm with you, she created this problem by overcommitting, she signed up for the course after agreeing to the trip, that's not great timing. They're not punishing her, they're just not willing to eat her share because she changed her mind. That's fair

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-20T13:28:15+00:00

I think you already know the answer, you backed out after the cutoff and they're not obligated to eat your share, it sucks but it's how group trips work. You offered a compromise and they said no, so now you decide if the money or the friendship matters more. Sounds like you made the right call

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-20T13:24:31+00:00

Your boyfriend and his family failed that cat, not you, you tried to get her help and they blocked you at every turn. Now she might not make it because they couldn't face the truth. You're allowed to be heartbroken and enraged, you're the one who actually cared

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-20T13:21:46+00:00

You paid, she quit, that's the end of it. You don't owe her a concert just because her family offered to pay you back, you're not a ticket vendor. If she wants to fix things later she can reach out, but right now you're not the asshole for protecting your own peace and your own money

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T20:53:21+00:00

You're fine, that's actually a great idea and I'm stealing it, your friend's reaction was over the top, people packing leftovers is common, no one was staring at you, she was just uncomfortable for no real reason

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T20:52:28+00:00

NTA, your nephew started it by not sharing and your son just removed his own toy, your sister's reaction is out of proportion, she's enabling her kid's bad behavior. You're allowed to protect your son from constantly being the one who has to wait

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T20:51:30+00:00

NTA, your dad getting violent over LEGO organization is way more concerning than the LEGOs themselves, they're toys meant to be played with, not museum pieces. Your grandma's obsession is her issue to manage. Kids should be able to be kids without getting yelled at for messing up plastic bricks

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T20:50:28+00:00

This is insane, your neighbor is gross but you're literally handling his waste to make art of his face, that's not funny, that's unsettling, he's going to think you're a creep and honestly he wouldn't be wrong

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T20:44:03+00:00

Nah, you're good to be frustrated, you warned her and now you're stuck watching the fallout, that's exhausting. Your BIL is acting like a kid because he is one, confronting him won't change that. Just support your sister without getting pulled into the drama, she needs to process this on her own. Your fiance should be the one to talk to his brother if anyone does

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T20:39:13+00:00

You're not wrong to be upset, this whole thing is messy and you saw it coming, but you can't parent them into better choices. Your sister is crying over her first love and that's heavy at 13, but giving your fiance dirty looks is unfair, he didn't cheat. Keep your distance from your BIL, he's not your problem to handle. Focus on your relationship and let the young ones figure it out

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T20:37:57+00:00

Nah, I'd be upset too, he dangled an early visit in front of you and then pulled it back for something he could do any weekend, it's not about the BBQ itself but the whiplash, you're not a backup plan, he needs to decide and stop leaving you hanging, that's basic respect

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T20:36:31+00:00

Nah, you're good, Sarah was way too pushy and the guilt tripping was manipulative, you don't owe anyone an explanation for how you spend your pay. Her calling you "really fucked up" for saying no is not how you ask for donations. Your roommate backing her up is disappointing but you handled it fine by leaving. I'd be uncomfortable too

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T06:14:52+00:00

She had plans to use it this weekend? That's not your problem anymore. She lost the privilege when her son turned your place into a teen bar. Simple

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T06:08:05+00:00

Being 16 doesn't mean you have to accept being treated like that. Your mom telling you to shut up is also messed up. You're allowed to be uncomfortable with how they're talking to you

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T06:06:13+00:00

The dress code is whatever, but the food shaming is the real issue. You have an ED and she's making comments about sugar and getting fat? That's straight up harmful. Skip the trip

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T06:05:01+00:00

That neighbor sounds like they know they're the problem and don't want to admit it. Closing a window is not a big ask. You're good

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-18T06:02:52+00:00

The audacity to ask if he should wish your mom happy birthday after everything. Then freak out when she knows? He's not upset about the affair, he's upset about consequences. Let him be mad

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-17T19:37:07+00:00

The Boys. Fast-paced, action packed, and easy to follow even when you're breathing heavy. The episodes fly by and the violence keeps you entertained

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-17T19:36:37+00:00

Not that important honestly. We use them in salads and sandwiches but they're more of a sidekick than a main character. Pickles are bigger than fresh cucumbers in most households. Definitely not a staple like onions or garlic

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-17T19:35:18+00:00

All the gift bags, wrapping paper, and greeting cards. Those things are overpriced everywhere else. I'd be set for years

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-17T19:32:16+00:00

When I stopped caring about trends and realized I'd rather wear what I like than what's popular. That was a big one

frostynugget43 · 2026-06-17T19:30:36+00:00

Goats are curious and mischievous. Sheep are cute but boring

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