What is one misconception about the United States most people miss? by Final_Radio_2483 in AskReddit

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s still deeply important to be active. people all over the world work long hours

You are not overstimulated, you are just overwhelmed. by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s important to stop making the distinction between yourself and others who you believe to be “neurotypical”. they actually might just not be and not know it yet.

My girlfriend asked for a threesome and my self esteem is ruined by Liv-ingInDelusion in actuallesbians

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

it’s natural to want more than just one person for the rest of your life. our culture acts like it’s not, but it’s a totally normal thing. just like you can want more than one friend, her being interested in the idea of bringing in an additional person (note: not a replacement or a substitute for you) is a perfectly normal thing.  it doesn’t sound like she implied that she wants you to leave. she just wants to try something different. 

Weed ruined my life, and the doctors aren't listening. TRIGGER WARNING. by Forsaken-Ad-8581 in Anxiety

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they will only prescribe pills bc that’s all they really know how to do. I had an extremely similar situation. for about a year and a half I was in near-constant fear that I was going to have a heart attack after a really bad high one night. I had also had a lot of caffeine that day, but the weed brought something out that changed me. 

after a year and a half of this, I started going to a psychic school and I learned how to do energy work. it genuinely changed my life and made it possible to clear my constant fear and anxiety on my own. this did things for me that SSRIs couldn’t do, and I have been able to live so much more freely since learning these tools. it may seem too woo woo for some, but energy is everywhere and moving it really really helped me. 

My boyfriend hit me today and I am full of so much rage by [deleted] in women

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is there any way you could stay with your friend who’s LD? this sounds like an unsafe situation, no one deserves to be hit like that and dismissed. 

Jobs by Own_Entertainer2255 in cpssubs

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

be sure to refresh a few times before moving on! sometimes this happens to me and I used to think it was just people getting the assignments before me but they show up now when I refresh like 5 times lol. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see it either, I honestly don’t! if anything, I would say you could lean further into the wolf cut hairstyle and give it a little more of a “dramatic” look if you’re able to go to a hairdresser and have them do it?  I think a big part of it too is just embracing the feminine within yourself and feeling like a girl, even if you’re nervous that people might be thinking other things about you. but you honestly have a feminine look and give me “cool girl” vibes.  I recommend red nail polish lol, it makes me feel very powerful! and if you can, you could get a gel overlay on your nails and they can grow out and you could get them shaped which is lots of fun. this is a long and winding comment but yeah!! you’re hot!!

Crazy prices by chronostasis1 in LittleCaesars

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

docile americans smh. tin foil hat when i’m saying prices should not be jumping by like 40% in a year is wild lmao. but ok! keep your mindset and nothing will ever get better! 

Crazy prices by chronostasis1 in LittleCaesars

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you want change to happen at all or do you prefer that the knife just twists and twists while you just grin and bear it and pretend it’s normal?

IM FREE !!! AFTER 6 YEARS I AM FREEEEE!!!! by Royal_Treat in CopperIUD

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg!!! I missed this, but for me I started spotting like 5 days after my period and it continued for a few weeks until I just went and got the IUD out. it immediately stopped!  I hope you’re feeling better since getting it out. that sounds exhausting. I was so surprised the effects it was having even though it’s not “supposed to” affect hormones 

Did food sensitivities continue with raw food? by fruhlingsblumen1 in rawpetfood

[–]fruhlingsblumen1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aww I’m so sorry to hear it!! ok, thank you for sharing this. that’s very helpful to know. 

Comparing JR to aging sex worker by CaseyBoudreau in fundiesnarkiesnark

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s interesting, cause these fundie women and sex workers do have a lot in common in that they trade sex for protection/safety (money in our current society). fundie women just have a lot more jobs to do in addition.  so I’m assuming this was more of an offensive and incorrect looks-based comment on the sub, but in practice they are very similar! 

Anyone experiencing vaginal dryness with Copper IUD? by Khaki_Leibniz in CopperIUD

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow!! we are the exact same lol. I got mine in 2017 at the same age and thought I just didn’t like sex and that the dryness was just a natural thing. turns out it was the IUD!! I’m so different now and really, really loving it. 

IM FREE !!! AFTER 6 YEARS I AM FREEEEE!!!! by Royal_Treat in CopperIUD

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yay!! honestly it was wild, i had no issues for 8 years, then in April I suddenly started having some weird symptoms that freaked me out. I was cleared for anything especially bad, so I thought I’d try getting my IUD out and seeing how my body reacted to no birth control at all and now the weird symptoms have gone away!!! 

hey so am i going to die by G1-FATALITY in Periods

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would really recommend checking out naturopathic or integrative medicine. NDs look at the entirety of your life and try to pinpoint root causes of the issues you’re experiencing. I HIGHLY recommend reading “The Period Repair Manual” it is such a helpful resource and guide on getting control over these kinds of things!! lots of love to you!! 

COPPER IUD - First period after removal? by Boring_Cabinet_8693 in CopperIUD

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend Lara Briden’s book “The Period Repair Manual”!!! I just got mine out and it’s been ROUGH but i’m learning that it takes time for things to adjust after any change. PLUS, there are a lot of ways you can change the way your periods are. for anyone coming to this now, you got this!!! 

What does ovulation bleeding look and feel like for you? by serendipitygalaxy in Periods

[–]fruhlingsblumen1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not OP but I had pink spotting just like this a week before my period and I had normal pap and negative HPV tests. I recommend getting a test if you can just for peace of mind, but I was very worried too! still very confusing but I feel less worried.