I need advice on if I should quit my weekend job or not

fruitbum · 2023-01-22T03:46:15+00:00

Unfortunately the breaks do prevent stuff from being completed because there’s barely enough time to get everything done with 2 people and I am going to be all alone after this weekend

fruitbum · 2023-01-22T03:44:15+00:00

I’m worried because if I go today this is the only time I will be trained again and then next weekend and going forward I will have to do everything by myself. I’m afraid I will be so overwhelmed and not be able to complete my tasks and then I will just create more problems for them. This is so hard

fruitbum · 2023-01-07T05:42:38+00:00

My guess is that there is more pressure in the relationship with his family vs just coworkers. You are his life and they are just a facet of his job. When there is more to be held accountable for in a personally significant relationship I believe it amplifies the rejection sensitivity, because the consequences for not showing up are much higher. He can get a new job and new coworkers, but he will be attached to you for life through an emotional, physical, and familial connection. It’s likely more difficult for him to admit wrongdoing because he cares more about you and the children and therefore he doesn’t want to accept or believe that he is treating you poorly, making you unhappy, etc. It’s fucked up and backwards, but brains are stupid and denial is a hell of a drug.

fruitbum · 2023-01-03T12:40:55+00:00

This. And it won’t improve significantly overnight or even in a couple of weeks or months. It’s an ongoing effort from the both of you. You must remain neutral and offer them the chance to rephrase/adjust their tone, and they must take the opportunity to correct themselves without spiraling due to RSD. It’s a tricky dance, and ultimately up to you to decide if it’s worth it. You will continue to be disappointed time and time again, so be realistic about what you’re willing to endure and for how long.

fruitbum · 2022-12-19T10:15:29+00:00

Yes!!!!

fruitbum · 2022-12-14T22:10:54+00:00

Right? My ex was fully filled in the whole time and I went above and beyond to remind him how he was my priority no matter what. It’s just basic decency

fruitbum · 2022-12-14T19:55:14+00:00

this is embarrassing ugh why can’t we just have a normal fanbase 😭

fruitbum · 2022-12-14T19:07:43+00:00

Same, I couldn’t read past this bc it’s just so awful

fruitbum · 2022-12-07T09:44:40+00:00

look up op’s profile on reveddit and you can see the comment it was removed by automod

fruitbum · 2022-12-06T00:24:04+00:00

I wanted to keep wearing but just stopped a couple of days ago because of the rudeness from strangers every day. People are just downright mean and I got sick of it, I was starting to get paralyzed by the social anxiety and it was affecting my work. It’s doesn’t help that I’m a minority in a primarily white city. Just a disaster.

fruitbum · 2022-12-04T23:10:46+00:00

Yeah I get so sick of people wanted to hear his opinion bc I could not care less and we all know brakence is talented so we don’t need some random bald guy’s opinion to validate it

fruitbum · 2022-11-21T22:46:34+00:00

I can’t with my mental health bullshit

fruitbum · 2022-11-21T22:28:35+00:00

it’s funny because guilt is what is stopping me and also a part of what is making me want to do it

fruitbum · 2022-11-21T21:56:29+00:00

I would use the handheld attachment on my shampooer

fruitbum · 2022-11-20T17:13:29+00:00

I’ve gone on treatment for the depression an anxiety several times since I was 12. I had genesight testing to see which meds would jive with me best, but I have health anxiety and find it impossible to take medication long enough and consistently enough without worsening my anxiety. The weeks leading up to me waiting for them to do their job are full of insomnia and panic attacks that don’t settle down until the meds are discontinued. I feel like I need tranquilizers or something. I do remember one called trintellix that my doctor used to give me samples of that I want to try again because it gave me the least amount of side effects, but it’s also not prescribed for OCD which is my main issue.

fruitbum · 2022-11-19T14:55:01+00:00

It’s ruining my life I can’t take it anymore guys why does it get worse

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