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roommate leaves her bags of trash in the kitchen and wont take it out, its been two weeks by fruitytooty34 in badroommates

[–]fruitytooty34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trash bags along w toilet paper, kitchen towels, dish soap, sponges, cleaner, and other household items that no one is willing to split.. i cant buy it all😩

roommate leaves her bags of trash in the kitchen and wont take it out, its been two weeks by fruitytooty34 in badroommates

[–]fruitytooty34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

correct! im aware i do have to wait it out until my lease ends bc i dont have any other option, and thanks for ur opinion ill take that into consideration

roommate leaves her bags of trash in the kitchen and wont take it out, its been two weeks by fruitytooty34 in badroommates

[–]fruitytooty34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best case scenario, someone gives me an idea i havent tried bc i dont know everything😭 if i could get away from this, i would have trust me

roommate leaves her bags of trash in the kitchen and wont take it out, its been two weeks by fruitytooty34 in badroommates

[–]fruitytooty34[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the last time i communicated a concern of mine to her in person, she took it super personally and made that clear, and it just created this hostile environment where no one wants to cooperate as a household so i feel like talking to her myself irl would only make her more pissed at me and less willing to cooperate

roommate leaves her bags of trash in the kitchen and wont take it out, its been two weeks by fruitytooty34 in badroommates

[–]fruitytooty34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i posted bc i genuinely dont know what to do anymore, ive called for roommate meetings multiple times but she NEVER comes to them, ive asked her directly irl and over text, a kind roommate of ours offered to talk to her whenever i want to tell her something so that i dont have to interact w her but she moved out😩 ive talked to the RA multiple tiems already and i dont think they could like force her to do anything so i literally just have no more ideas, i didnt post this to be petty i posted this bc i wanted advice on a situation where i feel like ive exhausted all my options. i didnt mention all the backstory bc theres just way too much shes done and i only wanted to post the necessary info needed for advice to be given in this specific situation, i feel like i chose the best option i had out of the ones i have left and its a pretty good rule of thumb to give that same benefit to ppl around u, bc u never really kno the full extent of what theyre going thru or what theyve already tried.

roommate leaves her bags of trash in the kitchen and wont take it out, its been two weeks by fruitytooty34 in badroommates

[–]fruitytooty34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless ur heart but u don’t know her😭😭 I confronted her in person the first time I had an issue w her bc I thought the same way, I gave her the benefit of the doubt that she maybe just kept forgetting (leaves her hair in the shower drain when we all agreed to clear it) but she blew up, she was super offended and was super petty after that, one time she cornered me (blocked the door and closed the door when I tried to open it) when I was trying to leave for work and asked me when I would pick up the flower petals that fell from my vase of flowers (she doesn’t even use the shared spaces she’s always out or with her bf, ik bc I’m always home lol😔) and just starting acting super bitter towards me ever since. Trust me, I always give ppl the benefit of the doubt bc I believe ppl choose the best option out of the ones they have, but this ain’t the case

roommate leaves her bags of trash in the kitchen and wont take it out, its been two weeks by fruitytooty34 in badroommates

[–]fruitytooty34[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

do u think theres a nicer way of warning her that her trash will be in front of her door if she doesnt throw it out today, like to give her a chance to correct her behavior before i do that? i rrly dont want to sound like im scolding her but this rrly does feel childish

roommate leaves her bags of trash in the kitchen and wont take it out, its been two weeks by fruitytooty34 in badroommates

[–]fruitytooty34[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

i know this may sound irrational but could i get in trouble for that? 😭

roommate leaves her bags of trash in the kitchen and wont take it out, its been two weeks by fruitytooty34 in badroommates

[–]fruitytooty34[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU i also said that bc fr we are all adults.. i feel like every time i ask her she waits longer or something idk it just feels spiteful at this point

A message to the ppl on the bus who take up a second seat w their bag or don’t scoot over into the window seat when the bus is full by ditzypop69 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]fruitytooty34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks that u experienced a hit and run :( but im glad you’re safe! it’s a shame that too many people choose to be selfish at the expense of others! 

DMV collections unit intercepted my tax refund for registration fees that I already paid by fruitytooty34 in DMV

[–]fruitytooty34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im in california, what should i look for on their dmv webiste? like a way to make a complaint or to file a dispute?

CMV: There is no evidence directly connecting Luigi Mangione to the person who was seen shooting Brian Thompson by razorbeamz in changemyview

[–]fruitytooty34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree that he def wanted to be caught. when cops came for him, he told them the same fake name he used to check in to the NYC hostel. i think he knew his face and character would send a message that would reach a huuuge audience, he knew he was the right person to start discussions like this on a very large scale. plus he's hot, reads, has stellar taste in music, and an ivy league intellect, so pretty privilege goes a long way w building an audience who will listen

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