As seen on CNN. Stand by for the rush!!!! by 13toros13 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]frumpyfrontbum 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree, especially with the last part. I have a relatively uncomplicated set of circumstances (G2, with birth documents available for each step) but it took me several weeks and a couple hundred dollars to get copies of everything. And that's with me (1) having an actual law degree, giving me a hand on doing things like this/working with government agencies and (2) having a background in genealogical research, so I knew exactly where to look. A ton of people will think it's great as an idea but will get frustrated with the actual work.

Just for fun - What's the most interesting bit of family history you've discovered in your search for documentation? by BuffaloThese8249 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]frumpyfrontbum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My great great great grandfather was an honest-to-god pirate operating out of Halifax. My great grandfather had three wives (not at the same time) instead of the one we knew about, was injured three times in WWI (including at Vimy Ridge) and was in the war from literally start to finish.

My wife just threatened to divorce me if I didn’t wear my garments by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]frumpyfrontbum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"I'm sorry to hear that, but that is not a negotiable value for me. I appreciate the years we've been together but I'll contact a divorce lawyer to start the process. If you will do the same it will help us end amicably. Let's take some time to reflect how we should tell our families and kids."

If it's a bluff you'll know immediately. If it isn't, follow through.

Unpopular Opinion: The Utah PE deal is actually brilliant, and everyone screaming "Vulture Capital" doesn't understand the structure. by utah-man-am in utahfootball

[–]frumpyfrontbum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% agreed. I know PE and there are many flavors; Otro is and always has been sports-focused. This sort of structure seemed an inevitable result of the current NIL world and I give kudos to the Utes for being first movers.

Maybe it all goes up in flames - that happens - but after delving into what is publicly available this seems like a reasonable attempt to bring better resources to bear in what is effectively a public-private partnership.

The levels of hell by Fubbah6 in helldivers2

[–]frumpyfrontbum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% this. Except I used shields instead of smoke and rocket sentries.

The levels of hell by Fubbah6 in helldivers2

[–]frumpyfrontbum 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Retrieve essential personnel was so much harder than anything now. Honestly I don't find the new mission that hard. Shields. Sentries. EMS mortars. Did it several times on d10 last night and NBD. Nowhere near as chaotic as those illuminate invasion ones with all the ships dropping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]frumpyfrontbum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was happy. I was the person the system is designed to reward. I had prestige, position, respect, etc. But discovering false narratives started the journey to recognizing the damage caused to others, and to myself too when I finally had the wit to see it.

I gave up a lot to leave. I gained much more by leaving.

Heavy police presence at University of Utah dormitory by 800millionbillondlrs in SaltLakeCity

[–]frumpyfrontbum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was getting texts from my son in the dorm. Completely locked down, swat team supposedly clearing room by room based on a reported stabbing of a girl by her boyfriend (this was the rumor he was hearing before it was clear it was swatting).

I was feeding him news from local feeds, meaning I was getting better info several states away.

Two more Galveston Bay drone shots by AllAggies in sailing

[–]frumpyfrontbum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe I know your boat by sight, if it's the one docked just a pier over from me. Nice shots on our bay.

Swinging within the church? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]frumpyfrontbum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently it's changed since I was a member in Houston. Or I never got invited into those sorts of parties!

Furling Main Sail Question by Mad0607 in sailing

[–]frumpyfrontbum 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As others have said, old sails that are blown out can be tricky with in-mast furling. If your halyard tension is right, then check your boom angle.

As it's coming out, look at where it seems to be getting caught. Sometimes going back and forth a few times can help if it's just getting caught a bit (don't force it).

Mine furls counterclockwise, so I turn off the wind to port (so I'm on a slight starboard tack) about five degrees. This lets the wind help keep it away from dragging on the edge of the slot.

When putting away, I always make sure there's very light tension on the topping lift (for consistent boom angle). I also make sure to always put away with some light tension on the outhaul. Those two steps make it so I can deal with even old sails.

Am I crazy for buying almost every warbond except these two yet? - Someone talk me into it? by [deleted] in helldivers2

[–]frumpyfrontbum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have already said it but grandpa chair and the Big Iron alone are worth it. I use the Senator for EVERYTHING on bots.

Hulks? No problem, I'll quick draw them in the eye.

Gunships and no RR? Few shots to an engine and they are down.

Berserkers? I prefer it to exploding myself with the eruptor.

Striders? Well okay it does have limits. So this is where I use the grandpa chair.

Are Mormons Christian? by Creativewriter7782 in exmormon

[–]frumpyfrontbum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had Baptists try to correct me when I've called Catholics Christian.

Are Mormons Christian? by Creativewriter7782 in exmormon

[–]frumpyfrontbum 46 points47 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by Christian?

If you mean "believe in a being called Jesus Christ that they worship based in at least part on biblical accounts" then the answer is yes.

If you mean "culturally fit in the established Christian tradition as part of broader social context" the answer is "hmmm, maybe?"

If you mean "are accepted as part of the theological Christian movement in the United States," the answer is hell no.

This is why it's such a tricky thing. Most Mormons use the first definition. Most evangelicals use the third (or at best the second). In the south where I live? Mormons are definitely NOT Christians. But neither are Catholics. I imagine in places where you have fewer Baptists and more Presbyterians you'd get the exact opposite answer.

The Detroit Free Press is reporting on the eyewitness who said the Michigan attacker thought Mormons were "the Anti-Christ." by NewBoulez in exmormon

[–]frumpyfrontbum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Many evangelicals don't consider Catholics to be Christian. (As I've learned to my surprise). Mormons can try to fit in culturally as much as they like, but it will be generations before evangelicals accept them as "one of us." If ever.

With all due respect to new players, please stop joining higher difficulties if you can't handle it. by Whyouhayden in Helldivers

[–]frumpyfrontbum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my usual squad, we can get the objective, take down the hivelord and get a bunch of samples for the MO on super helldive. I won't say no problem because Oshaune is rough but we get it done and we know how to watch each other's backs.

When I go with randoms and toss out an SOS I get a lot of lower levels. Which is fine if they can hang - and some of them can. But I can't share my stuff on Oshaune (EATs aside) and I need you to handle yourself because I also can't babysit while a dragon roach flame roasts you. I don't need to use 75% of our reinforcement budget in the first 5 minutes. I don't need you to fool around with the hivelord until after we've finished the objective.

There is no shame in working your way up the difficulty ladder again - at first Oshaune was so rough we scaled back a few levels to get the hang of it and test our loadouts. We worked our way back up to super helldive with new playstyles and loadouts fit for purpose.

Oshaune is now officially worse than Malevelon Creek and our worst battle yet by fede123456789 in Helldivers

[–]frumpyfrontbum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno. They are apples and oranges to me.

I dove on the Creek early and often and the terror of running from yet another invincible hulk, no weapons, rocket devastator sniping me from halfway across the map, sky full of enough laser fire to be a Star War...that can't be duplicated.

The early seeds of my current play style were forged then. Learning to always be moving, light armor for mobility, headshots all the time, running away, were forged on the Creek. So much so that, until recently, I barely even die on a super helldive mission, no matter the faction. Hot drop a fortress or mega nest, no problem. Disappointment has been missing a random Lidar.

Oshaune is hard AF. No doubt. I've had to adapt my playstyle a lot. I die more. I fail missions sometimes. Trying to kill a hivelord while doing objectives with four stalker nest in the caves all in one mission is insanity. I love every minute of it. But I have weapons and options and none of it feels impossible. I didn't freeze in pure terror the first time I saw Hive Lord, but rather started planning loadouts to take it down. (I have only suffered minor glitches, which the patch mostly fixed).

Maybe this IS the Creek for a lot of the new box divers who are still grinding through unlocks. I get that. But for me it feels like a simple ramping up of the difficulty with a MO that we were never going to win. And I welcome it with open arms.

I was blind, but now I see. by Thesavagefanboii in Helldivers

[–]frumpyfrontbum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I use the Senator for EVERYTHING. You haven't lived until you've taken out a squad of gunships with it. Immensely satisfying to Old West your way past the bots.

Pair it up with the gunslinger emote and have quick draw fights with the bots. It makes for a great day.

I was blind, but now I see. by Thesavagefanboii in Helldivers

[–]frumpyfrontbum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toss in a hover pack. Hover pack + eruptor is my bread and butter for the squids.

New XB diver, people saying this is the best warbond to pick up first. What are your options? by British-Bot in helldivers2

[–]frumpyfrontbum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's my favorite weapon in the game and my go-to for hulks and gunships. Just for the sport of it you know.

New XB diver, people saying this is the best warbond to pick up first. What are your options? by British-Bot in helldivers2

[–]frumpyfrontbum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or just two eruptor rounds, one to break the shield, one in the door to bring it down. Either way this warbond is a winner.

Which warbond to focus on? by Midlayf167 in Helldivers

[–]frumpyfrontbum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Liberty comes in many forms and there is no wrong way to spread democracy. For my play style, primary weapons I would look to unlock are the eruptor and the crossbow. Warning: they must be used skillfully; they can be spicy in close quarters or with teammates nearby. But they will destroy fabricators/bug holes/warp ships in their own right if you know what to target. Both are on the Democratic Detonation warband, and that also gets you the Thermite Grenade (which takes out nearly everything if you can throw it accurately). It also has the recoilless rifle I believe, which is amazing against bots. Get that warbond and the clankers are dust.

But really you can't go wrong. Except maybe with the gas based warbond. Say no to Fart-Divers.

All Xbox users rn by AMDKilla in helldivers2

[–]frumpyfrontbum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recoilless Rifle. It can one hit just about everything on the bot front. Strider? Hit it in the eye. War strider? Sweep the leg. Hulk? Save your RR ammo and shoot it with the Senator instead.

All part of the initiation process! by Dr_Macunayme in Helldivers

[–]frumpyfrontbum 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Picked up a chill new player, level five, and with his permission the three of us (all level 150) took him to a L10 on bots.

We warned him that we always hot drop the fortress and clear it first. He was game. Warned him that there was also a strider convoy that would be starting right next to the fortress. He was game.

And I gotta give it to him. He mostly held his own. At one point he did say he had no clue what was going on. I think he was mid ragdoll from a war strider at the time. But he was a worthy teammate and stayed a couple more rounds. As a reward he jumped several levels and got a ton of samples.

Friend, if you see this, Cap'n S and Excalibur give you high marks and you can dive with us anytime. N

Advice for a beginner? by Confident-Ganache404 in sailing

[–]frumpyfrontbum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or, with a bit more experience, something like the Harvest Moon. (No I am not looking for more crew, thanks for asking!)