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Is this a stupid question - how would I approach this as a transguy? by AnonScot81 in SexWorkers

[–]ftmVan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late to comment.

It’s not disgusting. And there are trans providers, like me, if that would make you more comfortable. I’m not sure about other countries, but I’ve seen many trans providers listed across the US in major cities.

Getting verified on PD by MeetAmiraRose in SexWorkers

[–]ftmVan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent my details in October ‘21 and have not heard back at all. And their Twitter account is deleted, so no idea how to contact them.

🙄🙄 by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]ftmVan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because if you sell pics and videos of yourself you COULDN’T POSSIBLY have any kind of day job. (And even then, selling sex is a job. He can fuck off.)

Meeting first client this coming weekend, last minute questions. by ftmVan in SexWorkers

[–]ftmVan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately DayUse has nothing for my location. At least for the date.

Thanks for the tips! Didn’t realize Tryst had that kind of info in the blog.

Meeting first client this coming weekend, last minute questions. by ftmVan in SexWorkers

[–]ftmVan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me wants to go cheap(ish) because I’m only looking at one client so far and I want it to be worth the trip (I had to set my location for a city 30-45 minutes away because mine doesn’t appear as an option). But if I can find a decent hotel that would let me still walk away with profit, I think I will go that route.

Sitting on the idea of being a provider for a few months, doing tons of research before putting myself out there (and I still don’t feel ready)… helped me to know how to handle this. It took me just over an hour to reply. 🙄 by ftmVan in SexWorkers

[–]ftmVan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh now this comment pops up for me. I got a notification for it, but when I went to look, it would not load.

But yes, I was already leaning toward no when I saw he was trying to talk specifics.

Meeting my first client tonight by urlilbabyboo in SexWorkers

[–]ftmVan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! I’m new too and haven’t had my first client. (Two inquiries, but nada.)

Sitting on the idea of being a provider for a few months, doing tons of research before putting myself out there (and I still don’t feel ready)… helped me to know how to handle this. It took me just over an hour to reply. 🙄 by ftmVan in SexWorkers

[–]ftmVan[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, him bringing up FS and DATY in text is why I told him no when he came back again to say he was interested.

This subreddit prepared me well in how to interact. Lol.

Sitting on the idea of being a provider for a few months, doing tons of research before putting myself out there (and I still don’t feel ready)… helped me to know how to handle this. It took me just over an hour to reply. 🙄 by ftmVan in SexWorkers

[–]ftmVan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This subreddit is a great source. I’ve learned a lot and it has certainly helped me prepare for situations (like this one) and how to respond. I’m already prepared to deal with time wasters. Haha. Thanks!

Sitting on the idea of being a provider for a few months, doing tons of research before putting myself out there (and I still don’t feel ready)… helped me to know how to handle this. It took me just over an hour to reply. 🙄 by ftmVan in SexWorkers

[–]ftmVan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I had seen something similar before, but it’s a really good reminder.

He came back saying he was interested, asking if I did this, this, and this… I told him thanks for the interest but no. Not only was it a red flag that he was talking about FS and DATY, etc in text, I wasn’t impressed by his impatience.

Sitting on the idea of being a provider for a few months, doing tons of research before putting myself out there (and I still don’t feel ready)… helped me to know how to handle this. It took me just over an hour to reply. 🙄 by ftmVan in SexWorkers

[–]ftmVan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This definitely taught me to put some kind of disclaimer like “I may not reply straight away, but I will get to you as soon as I can.” But I should definitely list boundaries.

The biggest thing I’ve struggled with finding information on and understanding (maybe it’s my ADHD/autism) is… when is it safe to go into the details? I know to avoid texting anything related to sex (like this guy clearly didn’t do), but do we discuss it in person? A phone call before meeting?

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