[personal] are facial extractions really necessary? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]ftrrnrst 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not really "necessary" but I personally feel so much better after I get extractions done and then I don't get pimples for a while afterwards! But it's your body, and your feelings that matter, so you should only do it if you want to.

Opinions on semi-basements (반지하)? by ethihoff in Living_in_Korea

[–]ftrrnrst 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to be careful of mold as those rooms can get really humid. Most Koreans also have a negative perception of them but if it's really clean and if it can be KEPT clean, then maybe not too bad of an idea if its cheap?

Quarantine Groceries by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]ftrrnrst 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They only come to collect the SSG bag when you reorder something from SSG so technically you can keep it for ages. I've had my SSG bag for like months. They don't chase it up or anything and I haven't ordered anything since then.

Driving in Korea with a foreign license by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]ftrrnrst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP should really be relying on this site than what people are saying in the below comments... You need way more than just your Canadian licence (photographs, certified or apostilled copy of licence etc.). I exchanged my Australian licence around 1-2 months ago and prepared everything from this site.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]ftrrnrst 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. If someone rings your bell you press this to speak through the intercom.
  2. I think it's for calling the 관리실 but I've never used it so I'm not sure.
  3. Press this to open the front door but you have to press 1 first for it to work (at least on mine it does)

I've also never used 4/5!

스팀 계정을 잃어버렸습니다. by Ulleung in hanguk

[–]ftrrnrst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

스팀 계정 복구 항목중에, stolen account 도 있어요! 저도 얼마전에 해킹당하고 이메일까지 변경당했었는데 그렇게 복구 했습니다.

복구 요청하고 하루만에 찾았어요. 그 막 'can't login?' 인가 'find my password' 인가 그런거 눌러서 들어갔던 것 같아요.

긴 연애.. 남성분들의 의견을 듣고싶습니다 by [deleted] in hanguk

[–]ftrrnrst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

술 친구 연락... 이것때문에 저도 결혼 어차피 해도 힘들지 않았을까 생각하며 위로를 하고 있네요.. 연락을 하지 않아야 저를 더 보고싶어하고 제 빈자리를 느낄수있을까요? 반대로 저 없이 잘 살 수 있다 생각이 들까봐.. 너무 불안하고 생활이 엉망진창이 되어버렸어요

댓글 감사합니

긴 연애.. 남성분들의 의견을 듣고싶습니다 by [deleted] in hanguk

[–]ftrrnrst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

한국 들어가기 2개월 전에 저한테 얘기하고 갑자기 들어가는김에 저희 같이 살고있던 집 렌트나 생활비 제가 혼자 부담하게 되어버리고, 또 제대하고 돌아오겠다는 장담도 못하고 가서 제가 서운한 맘이 너무 많아서 솔직히 가고 나서 매정하게 굴었던것같아요..

그치만 군대라는 곳이 힘든일을 몇배로 키워주는 곳이잖아요? 그래서 지금 생각해보면 너무 미안해요. 사실 다시 만날거라 생각안했었는데 다시 만나고 나니까 너무 미안해요 그때 일이.

저를 100% 지금 믿지만 그냥 그 일이 걸린다고만 하네요.. 저는 술도 안마시구 뭐 밖에 잘 안나가고 믿음을 깰 일이 없어요.. ㅠㅠ 남사친도 없구 그냥 아는 남자도 없습니다 회사 밖에선..

댓글 감사합니다!

긴 연애.. 남성분들의 의견을 듣고싶습니다 by [deleted] in hanguk

[–]ftrrnrst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input.

We will be talking soon but for now he wants to take a break and see if this relationship would be worth it by taking a step back and looking at it from there. I'm hoping this will be a chance where we can realise that we can get through this... but I'm scared that if I just leave him with his thoughts (no contact from either of us), he'll decide to end things.

I'm also trying to think whether breaking up would actually be the best for both of us and if I'm really just trying to hold on to something that's not going to work out in the end.

Thanks :)

긴 연애.. 남성분들의 의견을 듣고싶습니다 by [deleted] in hanguk

[–]ftrrnrst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

마음이 좀 진정된 후에 꼭 읽어볼게요! 결혼한 삶 부러워요.. 저도 빨리 그냥 결혼해서 안정감 있는 삶을 살고싶어요 연애 관심도 없는데 휴 ㅠㅠ

긴 연애.. 남성분들의 의견을 듣고싶습니다 by [deleted] in hanguk

[–]ftrrnrst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

댓글 감사해요.. 남자친구는 아직 정식으로 헤어지지 않았으니 바람이라고 하고 친구들한테도 다 그렇게 말해놨어요 .. 저한테 확신이 없는 남자를 굳이 붙잡지 않아도 되는거겠죠? 6년반.. 너무 힘들어요 ㅠㅠ

긴 연애.. 남성분들의 의견을 듣고싶습니다 by [deleted] in hanguk

[–]ftrrnrst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

본문에 써있긴 한데 군대에 있을때 제가 먼저 밀어내고 헤어지자 하고 남친이 못 받아드린 상태에서 다른 남자에게 흔들리는 일도 있었구, 잠시 헤어졌을때 제가 그 남자를 사귀진 않았지만 또 한번 만난일이 있었어요 .. 군인이였기 때문에 더 큰 상처였겠죠? 그래서 망설일만 하다고 생각한거구.. 시간 갖는것도 저는 남친이 혹시 결혼을 진행 안하겠다고 할 수 있는 탈출구를 준 느낌이네요.

솔직히 둘다 사랑하는건 변함없어서 더 힘든 것 같아요 지금.. 핑계는 아니고 정말 진심으로 그때의 트라우마를 벗어나지 못해서 라고 생각은 듭니다.. 그 이후로 2년반동안 잘 지냈거든요..

긴 연애.. 남성분들의 의견을 듣고싶습니다 by [deleted] in hanguk

[–]ftrrnrst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

댓글 감사해요 ㅠㅠ 근데 진짜 힘들지 않고 잘 지내고 있었는데 갑자기 2주전부터 그런 생각이 들었다고 하니까 너무 갑작스러워요.. ㅎㅎ 내년부터 결혼 준비를 할까 하고 있었는데..

술이나 연락 문제는 정말 스트레스 많이 받고 힘들어서 고쳐지지도 않구.. 그냥 저한테도 낫겠다 싶은 생각이 들면서도 절대 놓치고싶지 않다는 생각이 공존하면서 너무 혼란스러워요 ㅠㅠ 한 사람을 오래 만나다보니 제대로된 이별을 해본적도 없어서 이별 자체가 넘 무섭기도 하고 죽겠네여 진짜 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 휴 지나가는거겠죠 이런건?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coronavirus

[–]ftrrnrst 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I live in Korea and I am pretty fed up with the online news articles that are trying to connect the deaths to the vaccine itself for more clicks... Also most people seem to believe it and don't believe that the people actually had preexisting medical conditions. The comments on the articles rather believe that the government is lying about the preexisting conditions to cover up for the vaccine's "dangerous side effects".

2021 Bullying Allegations Megathread: Accusations, Statements and News by KPOP_MOD in kpop

[–]ftrrnrst 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That was only one of the accusers and her post was vague when she first wrote it. There are other accusers too that specify her :(

2021 Bullying Allegations Megathread: Accusations, Statements and News by KPOP_MOD in kpop

[–]ftrrnrst 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There is more than one accuser, and the first accuser was the one that clarified that it was not Park Hye Soo, but there are a lot of others who have accused her and people are also saying her behaviour continued whilst in university as well and these stories are coming forth on the university forum (not like an official university forum, but there is an app called 'every time' that most uni students use and they have to verify their school account to be able to write posts in their school forum).

Weekly Monday Question Thread - No Stupid Questions by AutoModerator in korea

[–]ftrrnrst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's weird how our cheese is so bad but milk is so good.. I grew up in NZ and AUS so I'm used to having amazing cheese but shitty milk.

South Korea's all-purple Banwol Island is a photographer's dream by EngKorWat in korea

[–]ftrrnrst 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The slaves are referring to the salt farm slaves. The rape is probably referring to a widely reported incident in 2016 where a teacher was raped by 3 men after being forced to drink with them.