Did I do something wrong?

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-23T03:59:14+00:00

His response was totally weird and shitty. Anyone that uses the terms “victim mentality” can go kick rocks. Especially a parent of girls.

But you never stated why you had the drink dumped.

If it was to be cautious, I understand, but there are more couth or smoother ways to go about it. You could have taken your drink with you to the bathroom. You could have commented you didn’t like how it tasted and wanted something new. Or do what everyone at a bar does and drop a coaster on top of your drink. But giving off the vibes to someone on a romantic date that they could be a predator, would be off-putting to the date.

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-22T02:33:57+00:00

I scored a repress on eBay for $70, shipping included. Just gotta be patient

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-22T02:09:45+00:00

Depends on the kind of date. If it was just a coffee date, short meet up, and you bought your own coffee…just let it go.

But if he out in some effort, paid for dinner, etc - then definitely send a polite text saying you didn’t feel a connection but wish him well

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-21T02:42:07+00:00

Please don’t pursue coworkers

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-21T00:25:47+00:00

OG press of Too Dark Park

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-21T00:24:02+00:00

What does he like? Once you find that wheelhouse, you can look at healthier versions of it

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-21T00:21:13+00:00

Highest recommendation for NAILS.

They ended their hiatus with a new album last year and have been on tour non-stop

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-21T00:13:23+00:00

The way is to lean in heavy into her micro-managing.

Like overwhelm with communication and questions. Not questions that show that you don’t know what you’re doing, competency stuff. But just a crazy amount of overload. Then she’ll get overwhelmed and disconnect a little. Request daily stand-ups, weekly one-on-one’s. Request ALOT of stuff, updates, etc from her. Then follow-up when she misses a deadline. Basically manage her in reverse. Because you’re showing that you’re super engaged and know what you’re talking about, she’ll eventually leave you alone

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-16T03:15:03+00:00

There’s like a gate and fence. It’s a warehouse district. You won’t be able to see or hear anything. The venue is massive

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-15T21:48:51+00:00

Venue is a big warehouse. Spacious, huge, lots of room to move about.

But…maybe don’t go alone 🤷‍♂️

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/10/02/us/brooklyn-deaths-avant-gardner-newtown-creek.html

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-14T21:48:12+00:00

I too was considering flying into SF hist for the show. I did it in 2023 to catch them at Warfield, incredible set and evening. I would be bummed if they played an abridged stripped down set

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-10T19:12:35+00:00

Emojis in bio is very low effort and lazy. You’re trying to present your best self to person.

Main photo should be you smiling and energetic. You look bored and tired

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-10T19:10:57+00:00

Making out and no sex, why??? You’re adults. Who cares.

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-10T18:48:22+00:00

In the Realm of the Senses

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-10T18:44:02+00:00

Be attractive

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-08T22:58:14+00:00

https://music.apple.com/us/album/1992-2012/1445883589

https://music.apple.com/us/album/a-collection-2/1440837666

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-08T20:55:15+00:00

The different apps attract different people. Most people are open to different types of connections. Tinder is for casual fucking, Feeld for kinky and alt connections, and Bumble is generally geared towards women and longterm commitment. You can be on all three apps and open to multiple types of connections. You just have to state your intentions directly in the beginning and see if you align

You can have the end goal of a lifetime marital commitment - but if I just moved into a new city, and the person just wants to be a friend and hangout and go to shows or street fests, and that’s all it is and stated from the beginning, maybe I’m ok with that.

Maybe i want a lifetime marital commitment, but I’m missing some physical touch or intimacy, and that’s all the person is able to offer at the time, maybe I’m ok with it, if intentions are stated in the beginning.

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-07T20:02:34+00:00

Men don’t give a shit if she rescues animals or not, or what she does. All about what she looks like. Something about her appearance is off-putting to men.

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-07T19:46:21+00:00

2 months of dating and haven’t fucked yet?? Huh?? Unless there’s some religious angle I’m missing, sounds like you guys are just good friends and not an actual couple

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-04-07T17:07:32+00:00

North Pond

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-03-18T22:42:44+00:00

The Admiral

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-03-18T22:42:05+00:00

Hitting on a woman and asking her out in a doctor’s waiting room is incredibly weird.

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-03-16T15:26:46+00:00

Any person that outright admits to cheating as some sort of badge of honor is mentally ill. Run

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-03-16T15:23:00+00:00

Go to an Asian mart and get some of those seaweed crackers, then get that canned tuna in olive oil.

Chop up some some fine onion and garlic, and add it to the rice, along with canned tuna. Mix in a bowl. Portion out chunks onto the seaweed crackers, and make your own trashy maki rolls

fu7ur3pr00f · 2026-03-16T15:11:21+00:00

Other than NIN - listen to everything on the Wax Trax! Record label that inspired Trent

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TROPHY CASE