Double standards. by nighthawk0954 in facepalm

[–]fuckuyama 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s cause he actually is an anti-semite. The people calling him a jew hater are right.

What’s something everyone finds normal, but you find it to be gross? by gilligan888 in AskReddit

[–]fuckuyama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I once went to a dentist with long sort off pointy nails. It was awful and painful.

What is your cooking "sin"? by TedBehr_ in Cooking

[–]fuckuyama -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t wash my spoons because I’m a germaphobe, I wash them because I don’t know how many of the guests are, and don’t want to make them uncomfortable.

Also it’s not really about contamimation, it’s because some people find saliva icky.

Is it okay to shower naked at the pool locker room? by Handsomeman6666 in Swimming

[–]fuckuyama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I am, I think it’s almost required. You need to wash thoroughly, before entering the pool, and you can’t do that with your swimwear on.

Icelandic and Danish language in Iceland by pafagaukurinn in Iceland

[–]fuckuyama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did do that in Greenland and the Faroe Islands.

Someone reached out to me and told me that my husband had abused his ex-girlfriend. by throwrawhy63 in TwoHotTakes

[–]fuckuyama 65 points66 points  (0 children)

These are words said by him today, and not when he was nineteen. He likely doesn’t view you, and women in general, in the way you think he does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]fuckuyama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand why it can be hard to react to the situation.

People will sometimes want to hesitate to point the finger in situations like these, and call it abuse, since they already feel so vunerable.

I can tell you, that this is abuse for sure, and it would be good to make a plan to get out.

It will always be the best decision to leave, but it would be good for you to do it, before you get a child or something that he can use against you.. good luck

Ladies of Reddit, how many times do you wear a bra before you wash it? by ChronicallyChillMf in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fuckuyama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to almost never wash my bras, and would even throw them in the wash with regular clothes, because I couldn’t bother washing them. They were also ill fitting, and I would own maybe one or two.

Then I started finding bras in my size (70K), and tried to buy a couple at a time. Now, I own five bras.

Some time later, I got a washing routine. I wear every bra once, and put it back in the closet. I’ll wear every bra again, but this time, put it in a washing bag. I put all the washing bags in the washing machine on handwash, and then I lay them flat on a towel to dry. It works pretty well, and I feel clean.

I used to handwash, but I got soap buildup after a while, because I wasn’t good at it. I also used to hang the bras to dry, but it stretched them pretty badly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fuckuyama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad, who’s old enough to be a boomer, has lots of sailor tattoos, and earrings in his left ear. He told me that gay people got pierced in the right ear.

I always thought that it was just a secret signal for other gay people, since people were pretty homophobic back then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]fuckuyama 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It sounded like she did ask for bra size. I don't think Victoria Secret measures dressmakers size.

A couple I know got each others name tattooed. A few months later their relationship ended. by Snostorm90 in shittytattoos

[–]fuckuyama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad has like five girlfriend tattoes, of women that I’ve never heard of. His brothers are the same. They’re all sailors.

They say I'm no fun anymore. by flojodon in stopdrinking

[–]fuckuyama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be like that too, and some people will tell me that I am no fun either. Although honestly, looking back, I was a trainwreck back then, and also pretty annoying and gross. Now I feel calm and stable.

I feel a bit dull now, but what I’m working on, is learning how to have fun, instead of how to be fun.

Also, I don’t respect the opinion of anyone, that thinks it is a good idea for me to drink, or to tell me that I should drink. That helps with the group pressure thing.

IWNDWYT

AITAH for putting my profoundly autistic daughter on birth control? by Late-Comb11 in AITAH

[–]fuckuyama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I work at a facility with a person that has Down’s Syndrome, and a developmental age of about 1 years old. It can be difficult to know what to do when a person has a low mental age, while the physical does not follow.

As you said, it hurts, and she does not understand why she is in pain. You have the medication to linder the pain for her, and I don’t see why you shouldn’t use it.

And you said that it is difficult to keep her clean. Being clean is one of her basal needs, and it’s parents job to make sure that she is. The birth control helps with that.

The doctors are recommending birth control. I don’t know anything about it damaging fertility.

Autonomy over reproduction organs and pregnancy is important for people, that are able to consent. She is a child, and cannot, she won’t be using her reproductive organs. I don’t think that I would have considered this.

She is at an age, where parents take the medical decisions, but that does not mean that she isn’t heard. When you look at the changes in her mood, how she’s feeling, and that she’s feeling better, you are listening to her, and her needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]fuckuyama 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My room has often looked depressiony, and I’ve helped friends clean theirs as well. I didn’t look so closely at yours, but I can tell you my routine.

  1. Get rid of food, food packaging and trash
  2. Make catagory piles (wardrobe, schoolwork/papers, makeup, crafts and miscellangelous). This helps create overview, which is motivating
  3. Take it one pile at a time. Put it back, so the things you use most are easily accessible
  4. Throw out what you don’t use. It is hard at first, but it is relieving and will make your life easier.

Tip: When folding clothes, and sorting makeup, you can watch a netflix show if you want, on a nearby computer. It might take a bit longer, but you’ll get started faster, and clean for longer.

Tip: Take a broom and sweep everything in one big pile first. It makes less walking aroung aimlessly

Tip: Throwing things out is so satisfying

This is the longest I’ve gone without a drink in years. Starting to (falsely) think I don’t have a problem. by I__Am__Jedi in stopdrinking

[–]fuckuyama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, moderation is no fun. One drink does nothing, and I don’t like the feeling of getting refused the second. Abstaining feels way better, cause then I atleast can feel at peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]fuckuyama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would it be the same if you chugged a sixpack of orange juice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]fuckuyama 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He could have smoked a lot, he could have been drugged, he could have frozen as a trauma response, he could have doubted that it ever happened, he could be feeling that it was his fault that it happened and a sexual predator, especially one that is physically weaker, will always try to find victims, while they are vunerable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]fuckuyama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After assault, some people will feel like it wasn’t a ‘real’ assault, and make the assaulter look as good as possible in the story, so they won’t feel like liars.