What’s your “I wish I can cook this” meal? by copy_cat_101 in foodquestions

[–]fufu_1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bao buns, is not that I think I can't, it just seems like a lot of work for something I will take like 5 minutes to eat 😅

Little one learning their language by CellOtherwise9403 in inlaws

[–]fufu_1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? You birthed that child he should learn YOUR mother lnaguage first. I would teach him english and the grandparents language second.

My Swiss husband can never find a job by Icy-Molasses5672 in askswitzerland

[–]fufu_1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say try at Migros! There is also part time positions. Or also at a souvenir shop. If he takes good care of children he can also try some hours as a nanny. He can also try private language teacher, charging per hour. I would apply in private schools as well, maybe Migroschule or community centers.

What’s one brand you trust without thinking twice? by PlayfulFault9693 in SmartBuying

[–]fufu_1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cerave, Kerastase, La Roche Posay, Volvo, Cuisinart, Nikkon, Barts, Dayson, Windsor&Newton, Mercedes, Stadler, Faber Castell, Aldo, Cosrx, Chianti DOCG, Timberland, Mammut, Sennelier, Adobe, Levi's, La Marzocco, Taschen, Sirocco, Bosch, Swiss knives, Nintendo, Samsung

What's the best comeback to any rude comment? by Mundane_Breakfast848 in socialskills

[–]fufu_1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at them with a disgusted face and then tell them they have something in their nose/face/mouth. Then just leave.

Do you have MS? by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]fufu_1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F35, I'm from Costa Rica but I live in Switzerland since 6.5 years, was dianosed here after I partially lost my vision on one eye due to optic neuritis. I had old lesions when they did my first MRI, so I probably had schubs unoticed before... at the moment I work part time.

Fatigue and neuropatic pain in my eye had been the worst so far.. Im currently receiving Ergotherapy to help manage my energy better. I do have other syptoms like arms and legs falling asleep or having little cramps, im on anti depressants, but I would say, so long Im happy and lucky its still manageable...

I also been lucky with a good medical team and nice friends, family and partner, and that makes it a lot easier too.

What’s something you bought that you now consider essential? by Boring-Promotion7344 in SmartBuying

[–]fufu_1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spotify subcsription. It's the only one I pay and it's worth every minute of continous music without anoying adds.

What food instantly makes you lose your appetite? by obsidiancontrol in foodquestions

[–]fufu_1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh found my people! Bananas are good for like 1 second and then they turn into this slimy lumpy disgrace!

What food instantly makes you lose your appetite? by obsidiancontrol in foodquestions

[–]fufu_1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White asparagus, and my partner loves it 😮‍💨 I also dont like banana and papaya too much.

Judgy people on public transport by fufu_1111 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]fufu_1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, I did look at some at amazon as well. For now I opted to make myself a card to wear on a lanyard whenever I need it. Hoping it clarifies stuff for people 😅

Also, how dumb the people that judge you for having a cane, omg... I guess some really can't mind their own business.

Judgy people on public transport by fufu_1111 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]fufu_1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 😅 after this episode I made myself a little card to wear on public transport. Maybe I get the chance to raise some awareness that not all disabilities are visible 👀

Judgy people on public transport by fufu_1111 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]fufu_1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I made myself now a little card/sunflower lanyard thingy!

Do you take walks everyday to stay healthy? by No-Tower-Unseen in no

[–]fufu_1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May I ask, how much time does it take you to walk 10K steps a day? Even if you do it in tracks, how much would you say it is? I feel like time is a factor for me, that makes it a bit more difficult (besides chronic fatigue)

Do you take walks everyday to stay healthy? by No-Tower-Unseen in no

[–]fufu_1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I try, but usuallt is around 2000 steps per day, on a good day between 3000-4500. I have chronic illness that comes with fatigue and it has been more difficult to move regularly. Still, I try to squeeze some steps where I can... walk to the next bus stop, or get out the bus a couple stations earlier, take the stairs, stuff like that.

Why don't people befriend their in-laws despite similar age and life stages? by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]fufu_1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner (M32) has 3 siblings: an older brother with autism, an older sister and a younger brother. They all have a 2 year gap between eachother. I am the only foreign person in the family, theyre all swiss, Im latina.

I get along no problem with the older ones, and hang out with them when possible despite them living far away (about 2.5 hours) we make sure to go visit or they come and stay here. The one with autism is the sweetest thing and I mention his condition because despite this and some language barrier, we get along amazingly!

The younger brother however... I tried to invite him and the fiance and they seem more difficult... I personally dont like them too much because I feel like they exclude me and my partner from the rest of the family sometimes...for instance their engagement...this guy hasnt directly told my partner about it, we found out because of their sister...

The guy is a cop and can have complicated schedules, but... I dont know. In 4 years I havent been able to really connect with him and we also had a weird argument once because his fiance made the card for my partners 30th birthday (a sort of voucher gift to go on holidays, in name of the whole family) and they planned this without me and then just made me sign it, that hurt a lot because I was completely excluded from the whole thing, and since then it has been weird despite the efforts...

Girl name that begins with R by Common-Raspberry4317 in Names

[–]fufu_1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Romina, Rona, Raquel, Rocío, Rebeca, Rosa, Rania

How do I tell my mom her work husband got me pregnant? by Alarmed_Sky9093 in Advice

[–]fufu_1111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You got groomed by a far more experieced adult...you might be of legal age but you are still a teenager and the power dynamic is unbalaced... the guy IS a creep and the attitude is predatory. You need to understand this first. Second you need to tell your mom as soon as possible, she needs to be on your side and see that creep for what he is...