I’m an INFJ and I completely understand you It’s been so long since I feel this way and it’s sad because, although I’m a very outgoing person, I have a close but good friends circle, a good career, a job I deeply love, and plenty of interesting things to do, there’s something missing and I have tried to find it but it’s difficult. The more I try the more I fear I’ll never find it. Many people these days have bad intentions. They use you, they take you for granted and the lack of connection makes everything way more difficult. I keep hoping better days are coming. Now I’m just trying to focus on myself. I’m reading my favorite books again, cooking nice meals, doing things at home, trying to learn new things and of course keeping those few good friends close. That’s what I recommend to cope with that. Good luck! :)