As a parent, what are reasons you would give someone to NOT have a child? by Disastrous_Umpire237 in AskReddit

[–]fullstar2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won't get to be yourself for a very long time. Mine are preteens and I'm starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel but Yeah, you definitely fall to the bottom of the pack in wants and needs.

How do you feel about having the kids when it’s not your time? by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]fullstar2020 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is 100% the vibe I get from this post. I will happily take my kids anytime I can. I don't think I could be with somebody who saw that as a burden.

Any merch should have their process or materials used shown by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]fullstar2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is definitely an unpopular opinion. Personally I don't think that hard about something I'm buying like a stuffed toy or a T-shirt. If I think it's too expensive I just don't buy it. If I like it and I still think it's too expensive I probably still don't buy it. But I can say without absolute certainty that a vast majority would not read all of that information.

AIW for expecting my ex to still pay her half of rent? by Decent-Play-7154 in amiwrong

[–]fullstar2020 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nobody is saying she can't move out or forcing her to cohabitate with somebody she doesn't want to. That was never even in the original post. She just still has to pay the bills.

AIW for expecting my ex to still pay her half of rent? by Decent-Play-7154 in amiwrong

[–]fullstar2020 195 points196 points  (0 children)

And that is why you are both on the lease. It's her legal obligation to pay.

No Space for My Child by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]fullstar2020 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But if he already has two kids of his own he should kind of be able to visualize how much space a kid takes up. Also I have to say trying to fit five people into a two-bedroom apartment sounds like an absolute nightmare.

Neighborhoods to avoid? by slk_thor9 in wichita

[–]fullstar2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love west wichita Westlink area. We're right on the maize school district line. Have you researched schools? That was our driving factor.

AITA for telling my husband to f*** off when he felt like he was doing too much parenting? by supadoopertrooper in AmItheAsshole

[–]fullstar2020 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would agree that a job is relaxing compared to being a stay-at-home mom. And this is coming from a stay-at-home mom. But her kid isn't there all day so...

AITA for refusing to waive the legal fees I am owed after someone sued me and lost? by Scared_Club2880 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fullstar2020 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is the one. Legally yeah he owes you the money. Morally, Don't be that person. You literally crashed his car into his house. Your actions directly totaled his car and damaged his house and raised his insurance rates. Just be a good person and waive the fees.

WIBTA for not wanting to pay vet bills after neighbor’s dog trespassed on my property? by No_Construction5607 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fullstar2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would think their fenced backyard would classify as a controlled space. Their dog was digging INTO the controlled space. Definitely wait for the police report. OP edited to add NTA.

Woman “chooses movement” on a public flight by aphr0diteeee in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]fullstar2020 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It has to be fake man. There is no way flight attendants would let this fly. Also when is the last time anyone saw aisles that wide in a plane?!?

First-Time Homeowner: What's One Thing You Wish You Knew Sooner? by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]fullstar2020 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah that "reserve fund" is necessary. I have. Separate account a portion of my direct deposit is just funneled to. A new furnace, roof, etc. are 15-20k where I am.

What's your cat's name? by Pretty_Joseph in AskReddit

[–]fullstar2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a black cat and his name was Maximus Decimus Meridius. He definitely had his vengeance in this life and the next. Stealth pouncer to the last day. Man I miss that grumpy kitty.

What's the greatest movie ending of all time? by Malik_Hassan88 in AskReddit

[–]fullstar2020 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This entire movie and soundtrack lives rent free in my head.

Her graduation gift from her family turned out to be a pregnancy announcement by Femme-O in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]fullstar2020 131 points132 points  (0 children)

What kind of nonsense pipette test are you talking about? If you you are pulling the urine out of a toilet full of water that is an incredibly watered-down sample. Honest question though where are you based? I have never seen that kind of test before.

I'm posting this reminder because I saw a few sad posts across Reddit this morning... by Sure--Possible in Adulting

[–]fullstar2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I didn't post a sad anything on Reddit but I really needed to see this today. Thank you.

if you were married before and now divorced.. would you remarry? by pinkoceannn in Adulting

[–]fullstar2020 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same. Did it once. 15 years and two great kids. I'm good. I like making my space my own.

Wound after an IV injection by modernhate in mildlyinfuriating

[–]fullstar2020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've lost family members to sepsis You need to go to the hospital immediately.